I didn’t see the comment on the thread saying you was Jo? Was there two one here and on there then? I would have said something if I would have seen @noseyneighbour
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Yes one here and same person tagged me in that one on main thread which is why when i saw the other one..I was miffed. So many more will hv seen it..hence me not being happy. Only just caught the one on here as caught twinnie's reply.
The posters said to u "i trust your instincts" or something to that effect. So the seed of doubt was/is there.
Maybe there were more that I didn't catch too...
I didn't SS the other one but did the one on here. Was shocked tbh. No idea why it was said on both threads. Just made it worse for me. I do appreciate you and twinnie vouching for me though. xx
So there was lots I didn't see?Nosey, nobody is reading who will pass judgement, I don’t get that vibe from anyone and I know me and @Standupifyouhateaimee did vouch for you and said how lovely you are just we deleted the majority to try and not upset you, you are allowed to vent you haven’t over shared in any shape or form in my opinion, we like being here for youwe know you’re a kind funny over thinking person and we wouldn’t change you for the world.
There is regular faces on the thread! Some have just returned now they feel able too!
It was the sarcastic comment about my "mega long posts"
I'm gonna delete most of mine off here related to the 'relationship' I didn't think thru that others may come on form opinions on me. (Slightly deluded here I know)
I don't think it has helped..all the name changes and back and forth and I haven't got to grips with who's who.
I hv a feeling that it may (not
) hv been the same poster who made sarcy comments about some of us feeling uneasy and maybe leaving if u remember. There was a few of us. Said something about announcing departure and I commented we didn't do that kind of sty comments ike that on the thread. So we all get vibes...me inc so my vibe is I want to choose what posts I want others potentially being sarcy about and pass judgement. We all think things in our heads sometimes...we just don't always vocalise them. When I was catching up on other thread...I did fnd myself smiling and chuckling at posts Inc yours. Felt like it used to be only looking in if that makes sense.
Yes it’s slowly getting back to normal nosey, I remember what you’re referring too! But since then nothing like that has been said and you know we wouldn’t let you be made to feel any type of way,So there was lots I didn't see?
It was the sarcastic comment about my "mega long posts"
I'm gonna delete most of mine off here related to the 'relationship' I didn't think thru that others may come on form opinions on me. (Slightly deluded here I know)
I don't think it has helped..all the name changes and back and forth and I haven't got to grips with who's who.
I hv a feeling that it may (not
When I was catching up on other thread...I did fnd myself smiling and chuckling at posts Inc yours. Felt like it used to be only looking in if that makes sense.
Unfortunately nosey older posts can’t be deleted after so long, but don’t worry about it you haven’t shared too much, speaking as someone who’s read them all.
The name changes, you get used to whose who eventually and people don’t mind you asking if you don’t know, I’ve done that plenty of times even after they’ve told me once because I forget! Nobody will be offended if you ask who they were before, fed up Fred is back they were called billy goat gruff but now there’s a user with the same name but #2 at the end I think it’s them though! Haha
And those who judge nosey which I don’t think anyone would don’t matter, if someone gives you a vibe press the ignore button and interact with who you do like and enjoy seeing posts from, protect your peace anyway you want too! We can’t get a long with everyone the world let alone a website doesn’t work that way.
Yes that is me..spot on. What was your username name before pls?Hope you're doing ok. My memory is shot. Are you the lady who's ex was gaslighting her and needed to go back for a few belongings?
If so it never crossed my mind you were "JoRainbowPanther".
Stay here for the support until you feel strong enough to want to rejoin. Or not if the case may be.
You’re welcome.
I know it may not justify it for you but I think everyone’s just paranoid at the moment after recent events. I don’t think it’s personal nosey
Shsml is Olga the twoll xx
They commented it before on the other thread xx
Oh...I didn't realise that..unless admin can remove.Yes it’s slowly getting back to normal nosey, I remember what you’re referring too! But since then nothing like that has been said and you know we wouldn’t let you be made to feel any type of way,
Unfortunately nosey older posts can’t be deleted after so long, but don’t worry about it you haven’t shared too much, speaking as someone who’s read them all.
The name changes, you get used to whose who eventually and people don’t mind you asking if you don’t know, I’ve done that plenty of times even after they’ve told me once because I forget! Nobody will be offended if you ask who they were before, fed up Fred is back they were called billy goat gruff but now there’s a user with the same name but #2 at the end I think it’s them though! Haha
And those who judge nosey which I don’t think anyone would don’t matter, if someone gives you a vibe press the ignore button and interact with who you do like and enjoy seeing posts from, protect your peace anyway you want too! We can’t get a long with everyone the world let alone a website doesn’t work that way.
Wise words and very true actually so fair comment at the latter part of your reply.
I was just shocked and reacted I guess and been stewing in my mind. (Which is another bad trait of mine) I struggle to let things go when triggered but I guess I have already moved on earlier occasions so can do. Its a shame we can't pin a post with all the usernames v previous ones known as.
Thanks
Thanks. I kind of want to go back to earlier pages to get my bearings on names. Lots more ppl on to remember now xx
I do get that..honestly. I saw bits with..... can't remember bloody name now.. begins with P i think...You’re welcome.
I know it may not justify it for you but I think everyone’s just paranoid at the moment after recent events. I don’t think it’s personal nosey
and how they hv come back on (car poster) and ppl are wary. I kinda get that but I've been here the whole time more or less lol xx
Are you ok? @Standupifyouhateaimee xxHi, believe it or not...I have just caught up on the main thread. Did it in batches and has took me days.
I appreciate you and the others looking out for me.
I dare not type much.....
I've also been doing my favourite therapy...cleaning. Oh and trying om my shein holiday order (which didn't improve my mood..)
I get the suspicion and paranoia from reading up but come on.. that person mentioned me twice and hasn't even apologised. I'm all for respect and consideration. I guess no one owes anyone anything...but manners and reflection cost nothing.
Oh dear...I've wrote a lot again...sorry...! I've always apologised for going on and on bit it's clearly be noticed and there's beengoing on. Makes u wonder how many have been...
I haven't decided if im just going to be a watcher tbh. It's a shame..but things have changed for me. Yes I'm am overthinker
Anyway thanks twinnie. Hope u are ok and looking forward to
Hey lovely, I am so glad to see you posting again, it's just not been the same the last couple of days!!
I always find cleaning good (when I have the energy) when I have got things going on in my mind, that along with blaring out some 90's r-b classics
did it help? Oh I also got some shein bits for holiday ... Love a bit of shein
I completely understand why you feel like that, I would too. I would also apologize too but then again I don't think I'd write that either. I mean I know everyone is paranoid but you don't have to interact with anyone user if you don't want to do you. If I suspected I just wouldn't interact with them. I shocked rainbow was supposedly Jo but then I wasn't looking for it either.
Anyway touch wood things are all settled now and it's nice place to be again. Banter is top form and now you're back even better!!
How you feeling in general ? Also please do not worry about writing an essay on here, that's what this place was made for!! Chapter and verse all you want
I finished work now and just getting final bits ready for Sunday, so excited !!
Weather is around 78/80 and I am someone who always functions better on the sun and around water !
Yours is not too long now is it
Now did you haul your shopping?? .....haul please
Xxx
Hi twinnieHey lovely, I am so glad to see you posting again, it's just not been the same the last couple of days!!
I always find cleaning good (when I have the energy) when I have got things going on in my mind, that along with blaring out some 90's r-b classics
Oh I also got some shein bits for holiday ... Love a bit of shein
I completely understand why you feel like that, I would too. I would also apologize too but then again I don't think I'd write that either. I mean I know everyone is paranoid but you don't have to interact with anyone user if you don't want to do you. If I suspected I just wouldn't interact with them. I shocked rainbow was supposedly Jo but then I wasn't looking for it either.
Anyway touch wood things are all settled now and it's nice place to be again. Banter is top form and now you're back even better!!
How you feeling in general ? Also please do not worry about writing an essay on here, that's what this place was made for!! Chapter and verse all you want
I finished work now and just getting final bits ready for Sunday, so excited !!
Weather is around 78/80 and I am someone who always functions better on the sun and around water !
Yours is not too long now is it
Now did you haul your shopping?? .....haul please
Xxx
I'm proceeding with caution. Still unsure who's who and also shocked by what's gone on. I try to see the best in ppl and are still not convinced Jo is behind all of those accounts. I think she got carried away and perhaps the way she reacted with name calling was done out of anger and frustration but did not help her cause maybe.Maybe I'm naive and too* trusting but I don't feel hate for her. I feel hate for A yes. I think we hv to remember...we have had a few years of pent up emotions...frustration and anger towards A so it must be worse for someone who knew A and was exposed to her nasty ways. I don't think she is a bad person.(Jo) I have never felt that she's not a nice person either. Name calling has gone on from TL peeps too (and not* just "bellends"...lots of stuff has been said or insinuated) and they hv been welcomed back with open arms. I don’t want to upset or piss anyone off or argue with anyone for that matter. That's just my opinion and concern
I also wud not have tagged usernames or made out others may be dubious but that's me. I also wud have apologised rather than minimise..but again that's me. Easier to move on when things are acknowledged...apologised and that's it. I suppose I feel more comfortable around ppl who are similar to me but as Lurkey quite rightly said..it's a forum and not everyone will like each other etc.
I have you and lurkey to thank for vouching for me otherwise it may hv continued. It was worse being on the main thread. Anyway! We move on.....
Cleaning is productive therapy lol. For me, 90s dance or 80s cheese
When I got back from work late the other night and a big shein bad was there I was like
i hadnt been notified it had been delivered for some reason. I was too tired to unpack it tho.2 days to go for you
you must be really excited! Bet your son is excited. I go 20th June...which is on my birthday!Just spent a fortune on shopping! These animals cost me! Good job we love them
I shud do a haul really...I know you are just dying to see.. milk, washing up liquid, chicken, peppers, bread etc etc etc.
I did get a cute thing for the dog that we can put treats in and freeze for her for when the sun decides to return
Anyway...Nice chatting with you again twinnie. Will attach a pic of the cute dog thing.. but that's all the haul u are getting I'm afraid...hope u sleep OK though...
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It's so good to have your name in all the comments againHi twinnie
Maybe I'm naive and too* trusting but I don't feel hate for her. I feel hate for A yes. I think we hv to remember...we have had a few years of pent up emotions...frustration and anger towards A so it must be worse for someone who knew A and was exposed to her nasty ways. I don't think she is a bad person.(Jo) I have never felt that she's not a nice person either. Name calling has gone on from TL peeps too (and not* just "bellends"...lots of stuff has been said or insinuated) and they hv been welcomed back with open arms. I don’t want to upset or piss anyone off or argue with anyone for that matter. That's just my opinion and concern
I also wud not have tagged usernames or made out others may be dubious but that's me. I also wud have apologised rather than minimise..but again that's me. Easier to move on when things are acknowledged...apologised and that's it. I suppose I feel more comfortable around ppl who are similar to me but as Lurkey quite rightly said..it's a forum and not everyone will like each other etc.
I have you and lurkey to thank for vouching for me otherwise it may hv continued. It was worse being on the main thread. Anyway! We move on.....
Cleaning is productive therapy lol. For me, 90s dance or 80s cheese
When I got back from work late the other night and a big shein bad was there I was like
2 days to go for you
Just spent a fortune on shopping! These animals cost me! Good job we love them
I shud do a haul really...I know you are just dying to see.. milk, washing up liquid, chicken, peppers, bread etc etc etc.
I did get a cute thing for the dog that we can put treats in and freeze for her for when the sun decides to return
Anyway...Nice chatting with you again twinnie. Will attach a pic of the cute dog thing.. but that's all the haul u are getting I'm afraid...hope u sleep OK though...
yes I would continue proceeding with caution and like lurkey said if you are not vibing with someone you could go with ignore. I just don't really read or like if it's not something I like reading.I also don't think Jo is a bad person, certainly don't hate her. I just really do think she got a bit carried away and liked being liked if that makes sense. I got the feeling she wanted to please us, like of course she hates Aimee and wanted her downfall but I really think she is a bit lonely maybe. It's sad really and not in a horrible way. The thing I am most shocked about is the car thing ? I'm also not convinced all the accounts were her, maybe a friend of hers. It's not a bad trait to always try and see the best in people I don't think. I mean you get nasty fs like Aimee and vav who I seriously do not think they have one nice, decent bone in their bodies but Jo I could not say the same, she is not anything like them and I do think she has good in her. It's funny because sometimes I think I am able to suss people out and take no s and then sometimes I am naive and soft as s
make that make sense ! Also I still look at certain users and remember things what was said and written.... What do they say about elephants ...yep that's me
Anyway we shall see what this weekend brings on our little community!
I have half packed but doing the rest tomorrow. We don't fly until 730 Sunday am but it won't be a problem for me staying awake and leaving home at 2am with my insomnia!
Even my boy is looking forward to it. As it's my special birthday year I've manage to save and book us a really nice 5* hotel so fingers crossed it's worth the money.
Was you please with your shein haul? I honestly think some of their clothes are good quality and wash up nicely. Can you imagine t face ever using shein? She is normally head to toe in designer and you and I would puss all over her in shein fits !! Love the saying it's not what you wear but how you wear it!!
Ah how lovely you go on your birthday
I know they do cost but pay us back and then some don't they. Can't wait for the prices go start go drop, seems the supermarkets have had it over us for far too long, inflation is suppose to be back to normal now but we are yet to see it!
Oh I love that for the dogs, think I will get my boy one .....gutted I didn't see your milk, butter and eggs though
Always lovely chatting to you twinnie always will have your back xxx 🩷
Aww thanks for saying that.It's so good to have your name in all the comments again
I also don't think Jo is a bad person, certainly don't hate her. I just really do think she got a bit carried away and liked being liked if that makes sense. I got the feeling she wanted to please us, like of course she hates Aimee and wanted her downfall but I really think she is a bit lonely maybe. It's sad really and not in a horrible way. The thing I am most shocked about is the car thing ? I'm also not convinced all the accounts were her, maybe a friend of hers. It's not a bad trait to always try and see the best in people I don't think. I mean you get nasty fs like Aimee and vav who I seriously do not think they have one nice, decent bone in their bodies but Jo I could not say the same, she is not anything like them and I do think she has good in her. It's funny because sometimes I think I am able to suss people out and take no s and then sometimes I am naive and soft as s
Also I still look at certain users and remember things what was said and written.... What do they say about elephants ...yep that's me
Anyway we shall see what this weekend brings on our little community!
I have half packed but doing the rest tomorrow. We don't fly until 730 Sunday am but it won't be a problem for me staying awake and leaving home at 2am with my insomnia!
Even my boy is looking forward to it. As it's my special birthday year I've manage to save and book us a really nice 5* hotel so fingers crossed it's worth the money.
Was you please with your shein haul? I honestly think some of their clothes are good quality and wash up nicely. Can you imagine t face ever using shein? She is normally head to toe in designer and you and I would puss all over her in shein fits !! Love the saying it's not what you wear but how you wear it!!
Ah how lovely you go on your birthday
I know they do cost but pay us back and then some don't they. Can't wait for the prices go start go drop, seems the supermarkets have had it over us for far too long, inflation is suppose to be back to normal now but we are yet to see it!
Oh I love that for the dogs, think I will get my boy one .....gutted I didn't see your milk, butter and eggs though
Always lovely chatting to you twinnie always will have your back xxx 🩷
Re: Jo..maybe I see myself in her a bit. I admit I'm one of those people who like to be liked and I'm a people pleaser. I know very well that this came from having an unmaternal narc of a mother who was not loving at all, no empathy and just negativity. She also put myself and my sister in a prolonged place where we were taken advantage of and that's left trauma. I also think it's why I put up with s for too long. Not saying that's Jo's past but the need for validation comes from different places for people. That's my take on it and I'm not saying I'm right.
You have an early start tomorrow then! Maybe u can hv a nap on the plane. It's quite tricky to do isn't it. My daughter can sleep all way thru a 4 hour flight somehow. She does always bag the window seat tho lol. I end up chatting to the person next to me. Last time it was a well to do old man. He was interesting. His wife didn't get a look in the whole flight.
5 star...how lovely. I'm sure it's gonna be lovely.
Is it a week u are going for?Yep... shein is great and affordable (less so in bigger sizes lol)
I haven’t been disappointed yet. My daughter gets a little from there. Prices have gone up but primark has shot up almost to taking the piss imo!
Definitely animals are worth it. I prefer my conversations with them. We wud get locked up if u heard us
I know it won't stay frozen long when it's hot but worth a try. We've wet a sock before and froze that. We have a rescue chow chow so she gets very hot under that sheep's coat lol
Thank you twinnie. Ditto
xx
Hey, hope you all don’t mind me joining in?
And I hope you are enjoying the lovely weather I’m currently sat outside In my garden having a can of magners 
Does anyone have anything nice planned for the school holidays?
And I hope you are enjoying the lovely weather
I’m currently sat outside In my garden having a can of magners Does anyone have anything nice planned for the school holidays?
I'm off on my hols in a month or soHey, hope you all don’t mind me joining in?
And I hope you are enjoying the lovely weather
Does anyone have anything nice planned for the school holidays?
My kids kids are all grown up now. Nightmare trying to cover the school holidays! What are your plans?
Currently sat in my lounge...procrastinating doing my roots.
Nice to get in the sun when you can
I'm off on my hols in a month or so
My kids kids are all grown up now. Nightmare trying to cover the school holidays! What are your plans?
Currently sat in my lounge...procrastinating doing my roots.
Nice to get in the sun when you can
Absolutely! I forget how much a bit of sun improves your mood.
We don’t have a great deal planned for the holidays, I really wish I’d booked to go abroad but the longer I left it to book, the more the prices were going up and I just couldn’t justify paying the crazy prices.
So we are going to be going on some nice days out, some activities and just lots of fun stuff for the kids. I live on the coast so there’s lots of different beaches and walks. I thought about maybe Blackpool but it will probably be manic with it being the holidays. It all depends on the weather as well I suppose, but we will just go with the flow. It’s rare me and hubby have time off work together so we want to make the most of it.
Where are you going on holiday to? Xx
I got lucky with this deal. Going to Turkey with my daughter. To Antaylia
I love Turkey and the people. We know a few out there
This country can still be dear. That must be lovely living on the coast
I love Blackpool... Weston Super Mare too. I know some may not agree but it's great for kids and adults. I love the 2p machines. So much fun for not much money. Me and my partner (
) loved this. Would just stop in premier inns as it is just a base really. The prices have gone up though. The big blue hotel is lovely if u can get a deal and they hv nice family rooms. Xx
I got lucky with this deal. Going to Turkey with my daughter. To Antaylia
I love Turkey and the people. We know a few out there
This country can still be dear. That must be lovely living on the coast
I love Blackpool... Weston Super Mare too. I know some may not agree but it's great for kids and adults. I love the 2p machines. So much fun for not much money. Me and my partner (
Ooh I’m so jealous, I LOVE Turkey, I’ve been 3 times. Our last holiday was at Turkey and it’s the best holiday I’ve been on so far, the resort was brilliant. That’s where I was wanting to book again but the prices were crazy. I’ve only been to Marmaris and Izmir but always liked the look of Antalya. You will have to let us know how it is, with some piccies as well please
We have a cruise booked for next year though so I’m really looking forward to that.
I love seaside resorts like Blackpool with the arcades and piers and stuff like that. I think it’s something we may end up doing actually. But yeah you’re right about things still costing a lot staying in the UK. But having said that there’s a lot to do which don’t have to cost a lot too. It’s just a matter of being a bit more savvy with money if you know what I mean, like taking a picnic instead of buying food whilst you’re out etc. xxx