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Standupifyouhateaimee said:

No twinnie I don't think you replied but can totally relate with going to reply then not plus the pages go so quick on A's page (full time job keeping up ) plus I read vav's as well!

Do you normally spend Christmas with your mum? Sounds like it would be a better place to be if she did go away! It is hard to fathom why people create dramas and play the victim but I suppose that's all part of a Narcissist personality isn't it.
How is your mum with your children and vice versa?
My son has only seen my mum once when he was about 7. I feel guilty he has not had a relationship with grandparents like I did (the good thing I had as a child ) although he does have a amazing relationship with his dad's mum so that's good.

In regards to thinking your mum had experienced the same from that person, i think you are probably right. Which makes it even worse that your mum left you with them
I think my mum probably knew too, as I think you could see what they were a mile off but as long as she was drinking it didn't really matter. There were 2 and one was disguised as a drinking buddy my dad on the other hand had no clue he would be heartbroken and want to hurt them (but they are long gone!)

Anyway back to those happy thoughts
Thought I'll pop some holiday snaps on ....wish I was back there with those beautiful views, sunrise and our own pool 🩵

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I know...nightmare The other site is easier and quicker to reply to whereas I like to give my replies on here more time and thought...if that makes sense.

I have had nothing to do with my mum for a good few years. Christmas is worked out around her and where she is!
My sister usually hosts tbh. First thing my niece said (one who married last year) when she was told nan not here this Xmas was... "good Aunty....... can come then" speaks volumes!

She's never been interested in my kids and then wonders why they aren't bothered. My daughter tells her like it is which she doesn't like of course. She also knows about my past...my son doesn't.
She's not the sort of grandparent who likes having her grandkids around...never did. That shudnt come as a surprise tho!!

We think so too about my mum. I've said for a long time I hate her more than I hate the person.

I'm so sorry that there was more than one person twinnie That's heartbreaking!
To be the amazing...caring person you are after all that is down to you being you.

The pictures are beautiful Some of them would lovely in frames! Kind of which i was going to Greece now.. it's so beautiful!

Standupifyouhateaimee said:

Omg I was not ready to read this honestly you are all those things you said about me and more I actually love you (not in a creepy way for anyone else who's lurking ) but honestly you are one very special troll 🧌 my twinnie
#friendididntknowineeded

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It's all true and it's clear I'm not the only one to see it
One thing about me is i don't lie and hate lying!
Oh go on then...love you too twinnie.

Standupifyouhateaimee said:

Hi twinnie, how was the car?? Not too much damage £££ I hope
Hopefully you've had more than bread and water for tea

I don't work nights anymore not for a good few years. I have always had trouble sleeping, sometimes I don't sleep all night and then go to work but mostly just awake until 3/4 but somehow I function (just) on that, but everyone now and then it catches up with me Probably the worst thing is to be on my phone but I wouldn't sleep anyway so might as well do the nightshift..... trolling xxxx

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They couldn't find the fault. Have turned the engine light off. He said it may be because I am putting E10 fuel in (cheaper one) I also go anywhere and everywhere whoever is cheapest and may hv got some bad fuel! ️
Trouble is I drive so many miles to work so it's, ££££!
He said I may need a new pump..not sure what but wud need to get it from BMW/Mini
He told me to come back if engine light comes back on. It hasn't so far but its still doing the revving thing...
He didn't charge me for yesterday...they know me and I'm a stress head and they are good to me. I trust them. We are on first names terms lol
I really didn't need this before holiday as I am maxed out as it is and may hv to take one of my fur kid's to the vet as he's not right.
Thanks for asking twinnie xx

Standupifyouhateaimee said:

Hi twinnie, how was the car?? Not too much damage £££ I hope
Hopefully you've had more than bread and water for tea

I don't work nights anymore not for a good few years. I have always had trouble sleeping, sometimes I don't sleep all night and then go to work but mostly just awake until 3/4 but somehow I function (just) on that, but everyone now and then it catches up with me Probably the worst thing is to be on my phone but I wouldn't sleep anyway so might as well do the nightshift..... trolling xxxx

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Forgot to reply to last bit. I had forgotten about your 'sleep' patterns for a moment!
I know what u mean..I always reach for my phone when I wake in the night or fall asleep with it and my glasses on...not a good look.. all chins
My daughter usually comes in saying...mum! Turn our light off and put your lash mask on! "OK mum!"
I'm not surprised it catches up with you. you will be in that kind of pattern now too.
Nightshit trolling
Thing is u know...it shows that we aren't bad people and hv empathy for the RIGHT people... it's just what A does to people with her antics! xx

Those brows just make me piss myself laughing

@TillyLou just seen your name pop up in my notifications. Are you ok...not seen you around much?

noseyneighbour said:

I know...nightmare The other site is easier and quicker to reply to whereas I like to give my replies on here more time and thought...if that makes sense.

I have had nothing to do with my mum for a good few years. Christmas is worked out around her and where she is!
My sister usually hosts tbh. First thing my niece said (one who married last year) when she was told nan not here this Xmas was... "good Aunty....... can come then" speaks volumes!

She's never been interested in my kids and then wonders why they aren't bothered. My daughter tells her like it is which she doesn't like of course. She also knows about my past...my son doesn't.
She's not the sort of grandparent who likes having her grandkids around...never did. That shudnt come as a surprise tho!!

We think so too about my mum. I've said for a long time I hate her more than I hate the person.

I'm so sorry that there was more than one person twinnie That's heartbreaking!
To be the amazing...caring person you are after all that is down to you being you.

The pictures are beautiful Some of them would lovely in frames! Kind of which i was going to Greece now.. it's so beautiful!

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Morning twinnie

Haha I know I always set aside a different amount of time to read and reply here totally makes sense

Oh so you will be able to spend Christmas with your sister and all your family this year then, that will be lovely yes that does speak volumes your niece said that !
I use to always go to my ex's family which was lovely, especially his nan and grandad but now it's just me, my son and fur babies it was quite sad at first but now I love our Christmas ...just us

Thanks twinnie also I can understand why you haven't told your son bet it was hard for your daughter but she's like your best friend your daughter sounds very head strong too telling your mum how it is, good for her.
It's not hard to see they also don't make great grand parents (although there is someone on here who's mum is now good with her children which is lovely) my mum had 3 other kids with her 3rd husband but the youngest, another girl is now just her drinking buddy!! Just as bad as her, has a child but always on the drink ! Although I don't really see her as a sister, I have guilt about not speaking up as the cycle continued with her which my mum found out about but still didn't want to believe it!

Anyway back to nice thoughts I have loads of beautiful holiday pics, I'm a bit of a snapper
We went to the island of symi where that DR has gone missing hope he is found safe.
Oh turkey will be beautiful, also certain parts of turkey you can have a day trip to Greece can't you ? As I know that island we went to was not far from turkey.
I bet you can't wait ! I'm jealous xxxx

noseyneighbour said:

It's all true and it's clear I'm not the only one to see it
One thing about me is i don't lie and hate lying!
Oh go on then...love you too twinnie.

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Me too twinnie, I really do not understand why people lie my ex sil was even worse than Aimee if you can believe that !! So dangerous and always caused problems with the whole family ! She was and still is a t
Xxx

noseyneighbour said:

They couldn't find the fault. Have turned the engine light off. He said it may be because I am putting E10 fuel in (cheaper one) I also go anywhere and everywhere whoever is cheapest and may hv got some bad fuel! ️
Trouble is I drive so many miles to work so it's, ££££!
He said I may need a new pump..not sure what but wud need to get it from BMW/Mini
He told me to come back if engine light comes back on. It hasn't so far but its still doing the revving thing...
He didn't charge me for yesterday...they know me and I'm a stress head and they are good to me. I trust them. We are on first names terms lol
I really didn't need this before holiday as I am maxed out as it is and may hv to take one of my fur kid's to the vet as he's not right.
Thanks for asking twinnie xx

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Oh no sorry to hear that how is your fur baby now ? God that is so expensive too!
Also your car I would be the same and worry. Not sure whether it's the bmw/mini you have but I have the bmw and the bloody thing has always got a light on for something also whinging about something she is....I prefer when these cars were mute
It's good you've found a garage who are good and you trust them....so many are thieving bleeps ! Fingers crossed it is ok but if you use it so much for work it is something you can't not have not right.

Are you up to much this weekend ? I'm just catching up with bits at home and meeting a friend for a nice walk tomorrow. Need the sun to make an appearance as I have a nice glow I want to top up

Xxx

noseyneighbour said:

They couldn't find the fault. Have turned the engine light off. He said it may be because I am putting E10 fuel in (cheaper one) I also go anywhere and everywhere whoever is cheapest and may hv got some bad fuel! ️
Trouble is I drive so many miles to work so it's, ££££!
He said I may need a new pump..not sure what but wud need to get it from BMW/Mini
He told me to come back if engine light comes back on. It hasn't so far but its still doing the revving thing...
He didn't charge me for yesterday...they know me and I'm a stress head and they are good to me. I trust them. We are on first names terms lol
I really didn't need this before holiday as I am maxed out as it is and may hv to take one of my fur kid's to the vet as he's not right.
Thanks for asking twinnie xx

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Oh no sorry to hear that how is your fur baby now ? God that is so expensive too!
Also your car I would be the same and worry. Not sure whether it's the bmw/mini you have but I have the bmw and the bloody thing has always got a light on for something also whinging about something she is....I prefer when these cars were mute
It's good you've found a garage who are good and you trust them....so many are thieving bleeps ! Fingers crossed it is ok but if you use it so much for work it is something you can't not have not right.

Are you up to much this weekend ? I'm just catching up with bits at home and meeting a friend for a nice walk tomorrow. Need the sun to make an appearance as I have a nice glow I want to top up

Xxx

noseyneighbour said:

Forgot to reply to last bit. I had forgotten about your 'sleep' patterns for a moment!
I know what u mean..I always reach for my phone when I wake in the night or fall asleep with it and my glasses on...not a good look.. all chins
My daughter usually comes in saying...mum! Turn our light off and put your lash mask on! "OK mum!"
I'm not surprised it catches up with you. you will be in that kind of pattern now too.
Nightshit trolling
Thing is u know...it shows that we aren't bad people and hv empathy for the RIGHT people... it's just what A does to people with her antics! xx

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Haha this made me because I know what you mean about the glasses my eye has got so bad the last couple of years, to the point I had to take them on holiday with meal and out for meals never felt so old
My son always says look at this, shoving his phone in my face .....I'm like I cannot see that his eye rolling is off the scale

Xxxx

Ps my chins are chinning...another thing i have to get use too

@RosieJo Vav tried doing Reputation...


Then a Swiftie DID Reputation ....

@allaboardthebirkeybike she sang crazier! I'm sitting crying on my break. I know that sounds dramatic but I love it so much its such an old song!! my daughter and me were such big hannah montana fans when she was growing up and only rewatched the film last week when she was sick. If she ever played that at our show we would have had such a moment I'm away to cry some more!

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@RosieJo Vav tried doing Reputation...


Then a Swiftie DID Reputation ....

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God bless her cotton socks!!!!!!

Standupifyouhateaimee said:

Morning twinnie

Haha I know I always set aside a different amount of time to read and reply here totally makes sense

Oh so you will be able to spend Christmas with your sister and all your family this year then, that will be lovely yes that does speak volumes your niece said that !
I use to always go to my ex's family which was lovely, especially his nan and grandad but now it's just me, my son and fur babies it was quite sad at first but now I love our Christmas ...just us

Thanks twinnie also I can understand why you haven't told your son bet it was hard for your daughter but she's like your best friend your daughter sounds very head strong too telling your mum how it is, good for her.
It's not hard to see they also don't make great grand parents (although there is someone on here who's mum is now good with her children which is lovely) my mum had 3 other kids with her 3rd husband but the youngest, another girl is now just her drinking buddy!! Just as bad as her, has a child but always on the drink ! Although I don't really see her as a sister, I have guilt about not speaking up as the cycle continued with her which my mum found out about but still didn't want to believe it!

Anyway back to nice thoughts I have loads of beautiful holiday pics, I'm a bit of a snapper
We went to the island of symi where that DR has gone missing hope he is found safe.
Oh turkey will be beautiful, also certain parts of turkey you can have a day trip to Greece can't you ? As I know that island we went to was not far from turkey.
I bet you can't wait ! I'm jealous xxxx

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Hi twinnie...here finally!
I may well go to my sister's for Christmas. It's gonna be weird as been with my recent ex for last 2 years..
I know it sounds stupid but I miss him... Welling up just writing that.

I know what you mean though... I am happy at home with my furbabies..daughter and son if he comes. I like veing comfortable and watching what I want on TV. Know that sounds selfish but when I was woth my ex husband...we had to spread ourselves around family..doing what they wanted etc. Kids just wanted to be at home with their new toys and it was rude to ask to watch the eastenders special. I also love call the midwife I've also got wind of another gavin and Stacey special! (I know I'm a saddo)

Keep the pics coming.. I love photographs and yours are beautiful

I am so sad about that Michael Moseley. It sounds like a possible fall from how I have read it so far. No obvious injuries.

I googled the island...11 hour drive from Antalyia!
I know..not long now. I've been putting bits together for a while now. I'm a terrible overpacker as is my daughter.
Looking forward to the break and I haven't been back to Turkey for a few years and never been to this part xx

Standupifyouhateaimee said:

Oh no sorry to hear that how is your fur baby now ? God that is so expensive too!
Also your car I would be the same and worry. Not sure whether it's the bmw/mini you have but I have the bmw and the bloody thing has always got a light on for something also whinging about something she is....I prefer when these cars were mute
It's good you've found a garage who are good and you trust them....so many are thieving bleeps ! Fingers crossed it is ok but if you use it so much for work it is something you can't not have not right.

Are you up to much this weekend ? I'm just catching up with bits at home and meeting a friend for a nice walk tomorrow. Need the sun to make an appearance as I have a nice glow I want to top up

Xxx

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He has been better last couple of days, thank you. He wasn't eating that well...and was not even eating dreamies which he loves so worried me. I always worry about him in particular. He is my baby...the one I had from day he was born. He's 8 now. Have attached a recent pic of my kovu/moo/moo moo/prince/principle - dont ask!

I have a mini My last mini got stolen from my place of work! Loved it too!
Yeah that's the trouble with the tech these days isn't it but at least it gives u some indication. The engine light hasn't come back on yet but still.revving a bit.

I've been spring cleaning and thoroughly enjoyed it... I know sad!
Hope you enjoy our walk.. Today is a bit pants here 🌧
Took my daughter to get her fathers day present and card so i got my sons gifts from him too. Still have to do this s don't you!
xxx

Standupifyouhateaimee said:

Oh no sorry to hear that how is your fur baby now ? God that is so expensive too!
Also your car I would be the same and worry. Not sure whether it's the bmw/mini you have but I have the bmw and the bloody thing has always got a light on for something also whinging about something she is....I prefer when these cars were mute
It's good you've found a garage who are good and you trust them....so many are thieving bleeps ! Fingers crossed it is ok but if you use it so much for work it is something you can't not have not right.

Are you up to much this weekend ? I'm just catching up with bits at home and meeting a friend for a nice walk tomorrow. Need the sun to make an appearance as I have a nice glow I want to top up

Xxx

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He has been better last couple of days, thank you. He wasn't eating that well...and was not even eating dreamies which he loves so worried me. I always worry about him in particular. He is my baby...the one I had from day he was born. He's 8 now. Have attached a recent pic of my kovu/moo/moo moo/prince/principle - dont ask!

I have a mini My last mini got stolen from my place of work! Loved it too!
Yeah that's the trouble with the tech these days isn't it but at least it gives u some indication. The engine light hasn't come back on yet but still.revving a bit.

I've been spring cleaning and thoroughly enjoyed it... I know sad!
Hope you enjoy our walk.. Today is a bit pants here 🌧
Took my daughter to get her fathers day present and card so i got my sons gifts from him too. Still have to do this s don't you!
xxx

Standupifyouhateaimee said:

Oh no sorry to hear that how is your fur baby now ? God that is so expensive too!
Also your car I would be the same and worry. Not sure whether it's the bmw/mini you have but I have the bmw and the bloody thing has always got a light on for something also whinging about something she is....I prefer when these cars were mute
It's good you've found a garage who are good and you trust them....so many are thieving bleeps ! Fingers crossed it is ok but if you use it so much for work it is something you can't not have not right.

Are you up to much this weekend ? I'm just catching up with bits at home and meeting a friend for a nice walk tomorrow. Need the sun to make an appearance as I have a nice glow I want to top up

Xxx
Haha this made me because I know what you mean about the glasses my eye has got so bad the last couple of years, to the point I had to take them on holiday with meal and out for meals never felt so old
My son always says look at this, shoving his phone in my face .....I'm like I cannot see that his eye rolling is off the scale

Xxxx

Ps my chins are chinning...another thing i have to get use too

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I have them on mainly all the time now.. Due a test again.
I find myself taking pictures of instructions etc and zoom in to read

noseyneighbour said:

Hi twinnie...here finally!
I may well go to my sister's for Christmas. It's gonna be weird as been with my recent ex for last 2 years..
I know it sounds stupid but I miss him... Welling up just writing that.

I know what you mean though... I am happy at home with my furbabies..daughter and son if he comes. I like veing comfortable and watching what I want on TV. Know that sounds selfish but when I was woth my ex husband...we had to spread ourselves around family..doing what they wanted etc. Kids just wanted to be at home with their new toys and it was rude to ask to watch the eastenders special. I also love call the midwife I've also got wind of another gavin and Stacey special! (I know I'm a saddo)

Keep the pics coming.. I love photographs and yours are beautiful

I am so sad about that Michael Moseley. It sounds like a possible fall from how I have read it so far. No obvious injuries.

I googled the island...11 hour drive from Antalyia!
I know..not long now. I've been putting bits together for a while now. I'm a terrible overpacker as is my daughter.
Looking forward to the break and I haven't been back to Turkey for a few years and never been to this part xx

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Ah it not stupid at all twinnie it's still early in the processing of a break up regardless of the situation, so feel sad when you need to then think of how lovely it will be to see your sister this year (or just you and your son and daughter )
Omg I am going to say this for what seems like the 100th time.... but we were separated at birth!!! I 100 % love being at home just the 2 of us for that very reason especially the EastEnders special, my boy loves it too and only time he watches it to be fair it was always on where I went but wasn't quite the same as couldn't completely watch it all properly a lot of my friends always say to me come over and what you doing, i think they feel sorry for me but I tell them it's absolutely fine (but not how Aimee says it! )

It's so sad about Micheal Moseley, his poor family It is a bit strange he went hiking without a phone and enough drinking water, he is so adventurous and obviously intelligent I am shocked he went into those mountains yes I reckon he fell and then in 40 degree heat

Wow 11hrs drive....it's beautiful but perhaps a trip to Rhodes next holiday and check it out then.
I've never been to that part of turkey and funny enough I was looking at that area as well as Greece, they have an amazing "titanic" hotel there I've always wanted to stay in.
Haha I over pack too despite thinking I got better at it. Paid extra going out and coming back
So exciting though and be nice for you to have a very well deserved rest ! Xxx

noseyneighbour said:

He has been better last couple of days, thank you. He wasn't eating that well...and was not even eating dreamies which he loves so worried me. I always worry about him in particular. He is my baby...the one I had from day he was born. He's 8 now. Have attached a recent pic of my kovu/moo/moo moo/prince/principle - dont ask!

I have a mini My last mini got stolen from my place of work! Loved it too!
Yeah that's the trouble with the tech these days isn't it but at least it gives u some indication. The engine light hasn't come back on yet but still.revving a bit.

I've been spring cleaning and thoroughly enjoyed it... I know sad!
Hope you enjoy our walk.. Today is a bit pants here 🌧
Took my daughter to get her fathers day present and card so i got my sons gifts from him too. Still have to do this s don't you!
xxx

I have them on mainly all the time now.. Due a test again.
I find myself taking pictures of instructions etc and zoom in to read

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Haha or the old SS to check what you can't read also to be fair any bloody instructions I challenge a good set of eyes to read such small small print

noseyneighbour said:

He has been better last couple of days, thank you. He wasn't eating that well...and was not even eating dreamies which he loves so worried me. I always worry about him in particular. He is my baby...the one I had from day he was born. He's 8 now. Have attached a recent pic of my kovu/moo/moo moo/prince/principle - dont ask!

I have a mini My last mini got stolen from my place of work! Loved it too!
Yeah that's the trouble with the tech these days isn't it but at least it gives u some indication. The engine light hasn't come back on yet but still.revving a bit.

I've been spring cleaning and thoroughly enjoyed it... I know sad!
Hope you enjoy our walk.. Today is a bit pants here 🌧
Took my daughter to get her fathers day present and card so i got my sons gifts from him too. Still have to do this s don't you!
xxx

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So glad he has been a bit better last few days he is a beauty always worry when they are off their food, especially treats.
Haha I won't ask as if they are all his names my boy has about 5/6 too numbnuts sometimes when he loses the ball

Wow was your car was stolen from work in the day or was it night shift ? That's awful and either day or night is shocking I do like the mini, they use to be so small didn't they but are much bigger now. Cars are generally a pain in the neck aren't they but yes I guess it is good they tell us now where something is wrong (however of a pain that is ) touch wood but apart from the odd tyre and brake pads and regular services mine has been very good and always passed it's MOT ....hope I haven't jinxed that now

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