But they'll have a great understanding of how to fiddle the systemHow confusing for the kids that Dan is ALWAYS there when their parents are supposedly split up. All he seems to do is sleep somewhere else, otherwise everything is as if they are together. It's very strange. No doubt her way of keeping some control over his life, how can either of them ever have another meaningful relationship when they are together all the time. Those kids gonna grow up to have a very strange understanding of what relationships are and how to be in them.