It really grinds my gears when she makes a cup of coffee... puts the coffee and milk and stirs it a trillion times to mix it in!!! FFS Coffee is freeze dried and designed to dissolve when hot water is poured in!! ... I always put my milk in first, IMO it stops the boiling water burning the coffee (though I drink mine black! LOL) but never ever do i stir the s out of it before addding water...GRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRR