I dont doubt what she’s been through was hard….that’s the only sympathy you’ll get. I’ve also bern through hell with one of my kids needing an op at 5 weeks old and nearly dying so it’s hard yes….
But you just know that she is loving every single bit of evidence that is going to allow her to be a lazy mother because she has no belief max can toilet train or speak and does nothing to help him with either of these tasks. Especially as she thinks the nursery would potty train him if they could
(what??
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She is so focused on what is wrong with max she can’t see the wee person with personality. fing awful. Let’s not focus on how far he’s come, nah - let’s focus on the negative parts. If he is the miracle you say he is Steph and fought for his life…. What are you doing for him now? What the do are you actually doing for him now ?