"why doesn't he ever message you first?"
What, like Angie does when she wants to discuss someone's trauma, behaviour, private business that has been unfairly brought to the app by a third party? There's no special treatment. Don't expect to be treated differently than how you treat others.
What, like Angie does when she wants to discuss someone's trauma, behaviour, private business that has been unfairly brought to the app by a third party? There's no special treatment. Don't expect to be treated differently than how you treat others.