My boy is genuinely the most loving amazing 9 year old on this planet. He struggles to regulate his emotions and often lashes out. Especially whilst at school, out of his comfort zone. We have had numerous calls to collect him because he has attacked teachers and trashed the classroom. That isn’t my boy. That’s the meltdown he is in and in that moment he is in fight or flight mode. His attendance is down to below 40%. I’m a mother of 8 children. They all know right from wrong. He isn’t choosing to behave in this way. People need to be mindful of what comes out of their uneducated minds !