All will be forgiven I imagine, for a few months at least. She'll start talking about the Grandparents soon and it'll be all 'we're making a fresh start, the kids need them in their life etc'. They'll then spend a few days together, the grandparents will have the kids for them occasionally, they'll be immediately reminded how feral they are, stop having them and it'll all kick off again. She is so predictable it's unreal.She mentioned her FIL who I thought she hated. Have they moved up closer to them so they can look after her children?