Oh I’m fuming, I’ve just had to learn to be diplomatic
! As we’ve seen, nothing good comes out of losing your sh&t, and hopefully the people she will have sent over here will see that we’re the reasonable side of the argument.
@Boriswaddle has stayed calm and decent in all her comments here, and I hope I have too. She just wanted her money back. There’s nothing wrong with that. And Lisa has to know not one of us has said or done anything mean or vindictive. We
are allowed to question someone who’s profile is public. I followed RD, along with a few others, because I had a close family member who was dying of cancer and not able to find any peace. I hoped if I could share their hope it might help him and me. It didn’t help him sadly, but up until things started getting weird and some of these people became “influencers” and seemed to trade off their illness, it did help me, and having lost literally 99% of my family to cancer I started believing there could be a happy ending. When they started monetising their pages (& I don’t mean NNL-type monetising because I thought she was lovely and it was a job done with honesty. And she never lost her sh&t!) and that attracted haters, it all became a bit sad. I know that people can do exactly what they want to (within the realms of legality. Obviously!) and whilst the idea of people being hateful to someone with cancer shocked me to the core, the name-calling from those I was following also felt unnecessary - you didn’t need to engage, like we tell our children, and the trolls would have just disappeared back to their dark holes! So, again Lisa, people won’t always agree with your approach or like what you say, but that doesn’t actually make them “trolls”. I’m sure you know the difference. And everyone is going through something, and we all have different ways of dealing with it. As the kids say - you do you and I’ll do me. But I won’t scream and shout because someone doesn’t agree with me or questions what I’ve done on behalf of those too scared to use their voice.