Just had a look at Tittle (
) and it looks like lots of the comments that had been added by @dogshomeflowers asking about the book have been removed. Talk about controlling the narrative! Surely people are alive to the fact that looks nothing but suspicious?? You throw your toys out of the pram when people ask an absolutely reasonable question - still being asked btw Lisa: where’s the book? - try to deflect by illegally doxxing the wrong or entirely innocent people, and make vague promises about publishing dates to cover the fact you’re saying nothing different from what anybody else is saying (ie there is no publishing date this side of 2024 at least).
So this is a message directly to Lisa. The fact that people have been digging even more about your much-flaunted lifestyle and whether they may have been supporting it is entirely reasonable given your stance. For what it’s worth here’s my suggestion. Do a calm video which can be left up on the Instagram page telling people what has happened to the item they have paid for, as is legally required given you are in a contractual relationship with them. Either give them the chance to ask for their money back because this is now not even in the realms of reasonableness, even applying Richard’s own promise that the book would be delivered a couple of weeks after his death (which was a strange thing in itself to say the least - why wait until then?). Or alternatively, put everyone out of their misery and refund them and close the whole silly story once and for all. Whilst you continue this charade you are making people more and more suspicious and that suspicion will ultimately result in something sticking from all the reports that people are saying they’re making. If this is you who is orchestrating all of this you will be guilty of fraud on a grand scale. That will be the end of your career, and not the best way to be starting life as a 40-something widow. Surely you must see why people think you’re in on it all, or that there’s a bigger story out there? Honestly, woman to woman and wife to wife, I would have just refunded the money from the start, donated the gfm etc to a reputable charity, and quietly gone off to mourn my husband. I don’t think I’m alone in that. Vanity publishing isn’t leaving a legacy, and none of what has happened since his death has put Richard in any positive light, so you need to put an end to it all while you both can still have a modicum of dignity. Life shouldn’t be about trying to leave a made-up picture of someone’s achievements, it’s the unspoken that speaks volumes. There are plenty of people out there without a penny to their names who will be sorely missed when they've gone because of the impact they made when they were here. Having a wardrobe full of designer clothes, driving a ridiculous car and bragging about insane holidays is only for the recipient’s benefit. Nobody else gets a thing out of that. It’s nothing to be “proud” of in the way getting your hands dirty to help someone else is. You can’t rewrite the story to suit you. That’s my take on it all anyway. You’ll do you, we all know you will, but honestly, please take a minute to see how this has been spiralling since your silence and ask yourself if that’s what you really want your own legacy to look like.