Very good point about holidaying. My loved one wasnt allowed to travel when they had cancer and certainly not close to after their chemo.
A friend of ours, not a lot older than Richard, has just been diagnosed with bowel cancer. He had a stroke so apparently can’t have chemo and the radiotherapy they gave him hasn’t worked to shrink it at all. He’s been told there’s no more treatment available to him. He won’t write a book about how wonderful he is, buy a super car or go on fancy holidays, even though he could probably afford to do it all easily, but he’ll spend his days with his family and friends and we will make every minute count. If I’m honest I feel sorry for anyone who doesn’t have that at that stage in their lives, and if you think that doing that makes people envious you must be unbelievably shallow. I agree with @Sal, I can’t understand why I didn’t question it all sooner, but as I’ve said before I just wouldn’t expect that anyone would make that sort of thing up. I’m sure none of us would.
No, silence. I might need to do a Bob
I don’t think anyone has had the bloody book! There is no real evidence that the book has been received by anyone. There may have been a few copies printed for family, as a posthumous gift from Richard, but not one person who claims to have had it has given one bit of proof. That’s their prerogative, but it’s also mine to say if I can’t see it I don’t believe it exists!
Yes I have often tnought this too…not mentioned it at all?That Sal, is a really good point, why on earth would you put yourself in such a vulnerable position? Never even thought of that, plus his travel insurance ....wow...that wouldnt be cheap.....maybe they got a helicopter out in an emergency. God knows.....
If he had 16 chemo. Would he of lost his hair. Thats alot, is that standard for most people.?....16, seems alot....why would he not lose his hair, and if he was pretending to lose his hair, that says he was expecting to lose it in real life if his treatment was real,
All seems ridiculously fake and laughable when you read it back now, like a badly made up story....... if it wasnt for the crematorium, I would really think he wasnt dead......he could of left the hospice, and gone home to "die" for all we know, the hospice only knows what they are told,
I notice she hasnt ever been on and had a rant about people saying he isnt dead ..
It is a hugely disrespectful thing to say, and she has never ever mentioned it.......doesnt want to draw attention to any of it, ....everything low key.....quite happy to call us out over the book but not her husbands death?
And another!!! I tried the email address and yes bounced back!!! So it’s been deactivated!!
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