i am a t.
i can say very, very ugly things.
however, i am also an adult.
i RESTRAIN myself in certain situations and spaces, such as this one.
yes, i am restrained in here.
i have MH.
i like to have more than a drink.
yet i still EDIT MYSELF to make it appropriate.
(sometimes i push it a bit, i know.)
being triggered, drunk, angry etc is no excuse to me.
if i do say something out of line then i will apologise when i've calmed down.
(except for towards a select few who deserve do all, and they're not online people.)
no-one is claiming to be perfect, or to never say something we shouldn't.
but that's why we say HOLD YOURSELF ACCOUNTABLE.
OWN YOUR s.
no-one can MAKE you do anything.
no-one can MAKE you say anything.
you have fing autonomy.