Faceless Friends
That's really strange...I was gonna post on here to u to see if u were ok.@noseyneighbour i just wanted to say away from the thread, thank you so much for vouching for me yesterday and understanding my point of view.
It didn’t go un noticed
Are you ok? I had my own thoughts on it as I wrote and u saw but I didn't like the way it started going and I know u didn't mean it in a bad way
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Yes I saw your replies sorry for just reacting to it and not replying I felt I needed to stay quiet in the end and let everyone move on from it and I’m okay thank you, I was a little shocked last night and a little nervous to post today, but think that’s just me being a sensitive sally! Especially as in a few months I’ve had the backlash from the Jo drama and now this I think I just need to stop posting my over thinking thoughtsThat's really strange...I was gonna post on here to u to see if u were ok.
Are you ok? I had my own thoughts on it as I wrote and u saw but I didn't like the way it started going and I know u didn't mean it in a bad way
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Oh I didn't mean it like u had to reply...sorry that came out wrong. Just meant u cud see I had my views on it in general. Didn't expect u to reply honestlyYes I saw your replies sorry for just reacting to it and not replying I felt I needed to stay quiet in the end and let everyone move on from it and I’m okay thank you, I was a little shocked last night and a little nervous to post today, but think that’s just me being a sensitive sally! Especially as in a few months I’ve had the backlash from the Jo drama and now this I think I just need to stop posting my over thinking thoughts
I knew you were just keeping your distance from the conversation which is understandable and actually is commendable. It's easy to go back and forth and it's not productive (my daughter do this in our text rows lol and it never ends well)
I also don't think we should censor our views and opinions either. Im the worst for overthinking as u know and u have always tried to rationalise things for me and support me and i will do the same.
I do think it's the filtering and blatant lies that gets ppl angry versus the actual weight and I do think that we can't say we can't take piss out of something and not others but I think the responses u got were unjustified but again..that's my opinion and they will hv theirs I guess.
Don't not post your thoughts and views though..that's not fair. Maybe it was the wording but in the words of A "I dunno"
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I guess it’s just we are preaching she shouldn’t filter herself and lie about it, I agree with that but then we see a glimpse of her true size and label her fat, so the original message we are trying to send becomes blurred because we are seeing a glimpse and shaming her, does that make any sense?Oh I didn't mean it like u had to reply...sorry that came out wrong. Just meant u cud see I had my views on it in general. Didn't expect u to reply honestly
I knew you were just keeping your distance from the conversation which is understandable and actually is commendable. It's easy to go back and forth and it's not productive (my daughter do this in our text rows lol and it never ends well)
I also don't think we should censor our views and opinions either. Im the worst for overthinking as u know and u have always tried to rationalise things for me and support me and i will do the same.
I do think it's the filtering and blatant lies that gets ppl angry versus the actual weight and I do think that we can't say we can't take piss out of something and not others but I think the responses u got were unjustified but again..that's my opinion and they will hv theirs I guess.
Don't not post your thoughts and views though..that's not fair. Maybe it was the wording but in the words of A "I dunno"
And no nosey I didn’t think you meant I needed to reply, I just wanted to say sorry for not replying because I felt rude especially when you vouched for me, I really do appreciate that
And I know me and you are over thinkers! We could probably write a novel of thoughts on the most randomest of things
and I do that a lot take a step back, I don’t like conflict, so I simply went back to scrolling on tiktok and then fell asleep!My reply was not rude, and if you are going to call me rude then tag me. The only thing that was too far was labelling people vicious bullying trolls and saying they degrade themselves to a degrading level just because they believe her appearance is fair game for a joke or insult. It’s no better than Aimee’s comment section where you get labelled absolute nonsense things too, this site is for us all to express our opinions and I will not be labelled for holding mine.
Now I had my say last night, I will always stand up for myself, but I don’t hold grudges so had moved on but then find people in here wallowing and calling me rude for standing up for myself. That ain’t right.
@TillyLou just seen your name pop up in my notifications. Are you ok...not seen you around much?
Hi I’m ok, thank you for asking
I’ve just had a few days away, not even wanted to catch up on what skanky mama has been up to. I’m in the process of catching up on all of the posts, it may take me until tomorrow morning of none stop reading to catch up though 
Hope you are doing ok? And everybody else
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Fair enough...It does u good sometimes but glad you are okHi I’m ok, thank you for asking
Hope you are doing ok? And everybody else
Me...still crazy
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I wasn’t wallowing I got asked if I was ok and I gave an honest answer and didn’t throw any shade at you, just said the response took me by surprise but like I said I didn’t respond further in order for us to move on from it.
I even apologised earlier on the other thread for offending people and said I could have worded my post better.
And I just wanted to thank nosey and rose.
I do think it’s all water under the bridge now. CC has not been mentioned on there since we were discussing all the Jo drama, so if you ever fancy popping there for a read I do believe there will be nothing there that would upset you xThanks for writing this, and validating my feelings, I appreciate it.
I think I, like most of everyone else wanted harmony across both groups.
I just felt very unsettled particularly as I had had a break when everything kicked off.
I was then thought to be suspicious as a result of being absent which upset me.
Definitely moved on now including with the person who mentioned me.
I really don't want name calling or rifts between the two groups. I like most others, was an avid reader of TL and loved reading all your posts. I haven't been back on since as one, I don't want to risk reading anything detrimental but two..(maim reason) I struggle to keep up on here as it is!
Thank you again for taking the time to reply. I was and still am going thru some emotional changes in my personal life but I guess coming on here with lovely people who support one another and laugh together is great medicine. There are some on group who hv much worse situations than me which I hv the grace to appreciate
Bikey you are in for a treat!!! I have no words for how fantastic she was!!!!! The 3+ hours flew byOh it's definitely my favourite. I can't believe she's missed it offWell after Marjorie
I want her to see my Marjorie tattoo hahaha. I knoww can't believe they're going twice and @RosieJo Too. I don't think I could cope haha. Saying that though I've seen it all thousands of times on TT
Sod driving though not a chance
Have the best time
Have a great night, she's amazing, her voice live is something else xxx I won't tag you because I felt you were rude and I stand by that. You do you. I didn't derail the page by having a go. I've supported them here. I won't waste my time arguing.
@allaboardthebirkeybike omg today's the day! Have the most amazing time. I can't wait to hear all about it! @PecanPieCrust I hope you had the best time ever! It's 6 years today since I last saw her live! I can't wait for my turn! For now it's goodnight. Just in from night duty! I look forward to updates! 
@thelurker66 I saw over the page and didn't reply because I cba with the drama tbh. But I agree and I think people weren't offended but offended because they are allowed to be offended if that makes sense you just shared your opinion in a very nice way some of the replys were fing rude 
do it
Annnnyway no nobody panic but it's fing Eras day!!! Don't panic!!! No because when I tell you I'm panicking and have no idea why I've had my fella dancing round the kitchen much to his delight It's you and me that's my whole word you told me in the hallway I'm a bad bad girl 
The dog fully cba with me
you just shared your opinion in a very nice way some of the replys were fing rude do it Annnnyway no nobody panic but it's fing Eras day!!! Don't panic!!! No because when I tell you I'm panicking and have no idea why
I've had my fella dancing round the kitchen much to his delight It's you and me that's my whole word you told me in the hallway I'm a bad bad girl The dog fully cba with me I'm fully overpacking and everything already for us going because like what if I hate my outfit that day ffs@thelurker66 I saw over the page and didn't reply because I cba with the drama tbh. But I agree and I think people weren't offended but offended because they are allowed to be offended if that makes sense
Annnnyway no nobody panic but it's fing Eras day!!! Don't panic!!! No because when I tell you I'm panicking and have no idea why
make him do tiktoks with you hahaha ahhhhh it's so exciting I'm so so so buzzing for you!!!!!
@thelurker66 I also saw over the page but also cba with the drama. I completely understood what you were trying to put across. I wasn't offended by it at all, but I do think some people react in an unnecessarily aggressive manner.
I occasionally think some of the comments made about Aimless go too far (reminds me of the bullies at school and their mob mentality) but I just scroll past if I don't agree.
After all, it is a gossip forum and everyone is allowed to have their own opinion, whether I agree with it or not.
Its very difficult for an over thinker too, we generally want to see both sides of everything, and I have also called A fat several times, yet I myself am a sizeable person.
As has previously been pointed out, nobody gives a s about her size, its the fact that she lies about it and filters herself to do, and its quicker to type 'fat do' on my phone than to type 'greedy obnoxious lying disgusting fish faced smelly cockwaffling thundercunt', which is what I generally want to put!
Anywaaayyyy, enough ranting, just want to say hope you're ok Lurkey, to me you are one of the core posters on here and we don't want to lose you
I occasionally think some of the comments made about Aimless go too far (reminds me of the bullies at school and their mob mentality) but I just scroll past if I don't agree.
After all, it is a gossip forum and everyone is allowed to have their own opinion, whether I agree with it or not.
Its very difficult for an over thinker too, we generally want to see both sides of everything, and I have also called A fat several times, yet I myself am a sizeable person.
As has previously been pointed out, nobody gives a s about her size, its the fact that she lies about it and filters herself to do, and its quicker to type 'fat do' on my phone than to type 'greedy obnoxious lying disgusting fish faced smelly cockwaffling thundercunt', which is what I generally want to put!
Anywaaayyyy, enough ranting, just want to say hope you're ok Lurkey, to me you are one of the core posters on here and we don't want to lose you
Yeah I completely understand! It is a fly away insult and quick to type! I was not trying to tell people not to do it, like you say as an over thinker you try and see it from all angles and that just happens to be my angle, I understand completely that people may not agree with me and that’s okay I knew a lot wouldn’t when I posted it, now I am taking your method and scrolling by anything I may not like or don’t agree with, I never wanted to make people feel like they couldn’t say anything like that, just that personally I wouldn’t be going forward, as previous I’ve done it!@thelurker66 I also saw over the page but also cba with the drama. I completely understood what you were trying to put across. I wasn't offended by it at all, but I do think some people react in an unnecessarily aggressive manner.
I occasionally think some of the comments made about Aimless go too far (reminds me of the bullies at school and their mob mentality) but I just scroll past if I don't agree.
After all, it is a gossip forum and everyone is allowed to have their own opinion, whether I agree with it or not.
Its very difficult for an over thinker too, we generally want to see both sides of everything, and I have also called A fat several times, yet I myself am a sizeable person.
As has previously been pointed out, nobody gives a s about her size, its the fact that she lies about it and filters herself to do, and its quicker to type 'fat do' on my phone than to type 'greedy obnoxious lying disgusting fish faced smelly cockwaffling thundercunt', which is what I generally want to put!
Anywaaayyyy, enough ranting, just want to say hope you're ok Lurkey, to me you are one of the core posters on here and we don't want to lose you
And not going anywhere don’t worry
Thanks birkey@thelurker66 I saw over the page and didn't reply because I cba with the drama tbh. But I agree and I think people weren't offended but offended because they are allowed to be offended if that makes sense
Annnnyway no nobody panic but it's fing Eras day!!! Don't panic!!! No because when I tell you I'm panicking and have no idea why
Hope you had a lovely time at the concert!
I don’t care who thought I was rude or aggressive. I just didn’t like people being labelled if they believe her appearance is fair game for a joke/insult/talking point. People should keep their labels to themselves.
I’m saying nothing else as can’t be arsed plus I’m not derailing a thread most use for some solace. I would like this thread to remain that way for people. Plus most who disagree with me in here are in her thread commenting on her appearance so it’s all bizarre
I’m saying nothing else as can’t be arsed plus I’m not derailing a thread most use for some solace. I would like this thread to remain that way for people. Plus most who disagree with me in here are in her thread commenting on her appearance so it’s all bizarre
I personally have never called her fat because I suffer with issues around my eating. I have made comment about how much she eats and the fact she trys to make put she doesn't and the fact that she uses filters all of which are harmful to people especially those who are vulnerable and follow her. But I don't say anything about people's opinions on that I just scroll on. I have however broached how people say things in the past because of people on the thread experiencing issues surrounding their body image and food. I was always respectfully treated when I have mentioned this. However making comments about her makeup and clothes being awful wouldnt trigger as much of a reaction as calling someone fat who yes has weight on but I wouldn't call any such thing. If you feel that it's OK and she's fair game to make comment on that then that's your perogative and people who don't agree will mostly scroll on by as we mostly do but nobody else seems to feel Lurkey was trying to label anyone or making them out to be anything. They were simply putting their feelings and thoughts across only in less of an aggressive manner than you and that is the issue here, not what you said. If we show support to someone we feel has maybe been upset then that's our perogative also. They have also apologised for any offense caused which tbh they didn't have to.I don’t care who thought I was rude or aggressive. I just didn’t like people being labelled if they believe her appearance is fair game for a joke/insult/talking point. People should keep their labels to themselves.
I’m saying nothing else as can’t be arsed plus I’m not derailing a thread most use for some solace. I would like this thread to remain that way for people. Plus most who disagree with me in here are in her thread commenting on her appearance so it’s all bizarre