Has anything helped this situation? This whole thing has been ridiculous and blown so out of proportion it’s baffling. And now it’s dragged on about 3 days now. It is wearing very very thin for everyone.
You would have thought by the way you have all talked about the comment that kicked it off she had written something like “well don’t write personal information then, how stupid”. Then in return people have been called narcissists, bullies, mean girls, gaslighters etc. Those comments have come from the either the person who caused the issue in the first place with the overreaction, you or the third lady. Not the side who tried to comment support on what she wrote on there. She wrote her personal information on here when she knew she should not have, then blew up on everyone as if they were Dani herself who made the video! Then everyone has come over here and said their piece and finishes with lets move on lets ignore each other now, just come back to her, we wont comment on it further sentence.. we want you to come back and we can all move on and instead its getting dragged out even more with more angry paragraphs by someone who seems to need to have the last say, and has driven several other people off here from their overeaction and the past few days. Nosey needs some in person help not on an anonymous forum because things are not always written in a way people want them to be and not everyone will always agree. Things can be misinterpreted.
I would not usually comment at all, but tbh you, nosey and the third lady who have mentioned about leaving should consider doing so if you cant let it go and need to keep commenting on it as everyone is tired of being labelled horrible things like mean girls, this being dragged out when multiple people have asked to move on and arguments still happening. If you are going to keep talking on here about it, people can read it’s still going on and what you are saying about them and get their backs up all over again as everyone was actually being kind and trying to help the other day in the first place. Either stop now, start a new discussion with each other about something else thats not bringing it up still days later, or go off the app as its just becoming ridiculous this many people have to ask you to stop arguing and talking about it. As long as it’s being written about and talked about people are going to get their backs up about it.
You can respond and continue to argue if you want, but more and more people are just going to come on here and say the exact same thing. We don't want to hear about it anymore and pure frustration is causing more people to come and comment and ask this to not carry on anymore.
Lurker I hope you come back when you are ready.
Hi, from the third lady!
How exactly is this going to help draw a line under it?! Coming on here after making a new account just for the pleasure to fo so! With what title are you here with? And why do you feel it's down to you to come on?
I agree with you, it has dragged on and it was a situation that escalated quickly, it wasn't nice to see!
I came over here to support NN off the thread and my last post back to her was 1230ish am, which I added a bit at the bottom jokey to lurkey. Yes I have been over here msg NN but I haven't said anything awful. I have just said it feels different there, which it did. I actually like all the posters over there and never have had any issues.
What is it with what myself and Rosie are doing anything different to the many posts I have seen supporting lurkey? Which of course is fine because no one should be made to feel s whether they are right or wrong.
You say it's being dragged on but I have seen numerous posts on Aimee's thread regarding it. Most are offering support both sides, don't really want to get involved and I can they tell are fed up with it (which I understand completely!) other post say it's dragging on and it needs to have a line drawn ....then goes onto to post about it. Some have come here and offered support on both sides and just want harmony within the group and I echo that!! But we got another post today with their take (again) on it, then it was ss and put on A thread. How is that helping and drawing line under it? You say we keep arguing is only fueling it but I've only replied on here and not about anything that has been said in reaction over there, or here for that matter.
I just scroll and move on. When nn and lurkey was going back and forth, I was leaving them to it because it's between them.
I do actually want it all to stop, as let's be honest who needs this in life! But seriously why are you here almost barking orders on what to do??
This post screams hypocrisy!!
Oh, I along with nosey are very much aware that it is was not the best idea to share personal details, you live and learn as they say. I only entered this crazy world of trolling in March so I am a little unqualified!
Anyway I won't be going anywhere as now it seems like a whole different ball game! I won't be told by someone who's, made an account just to comment on a forum they seem to deem not good enough to be on, on on the daily!
Also, anyone else over reading this, I agree with you all it's got too much, it's done my head in! I just choose to try and support nosey, whether anyone thinks it's an over reaction, she was upset.