I do not fraternise with anyone. Have I said I like any comments here. I like you all, have a morbid curiosity.
Easy enough to prove it - change your profile picture or background on facebook for an evening. Lots of great photos of cats out there
A lot of us started the same way with Lou, hoping that she would "turn herself around" with just a bit more support (buried in the 1400 pages of comments there's quite a few people out there who have sent her money and stuff to help out), but over the years it's become obvious that she's comfortable with lying, stealing, and being a general drug fiend as a way of life, without having to do anything difficult to improve her situation and move forward. If you are her mum, it must be heartbreaking to watch.
My question to you is pretty simple - what do you think would cause Lou to be a better person, that would lead to her getting the children back? She already has support. She seems to have hit "rock bottom" a few times - what's the missing puzzle piece?
(I would also love to know what she stole from you, and what led her to being estranged, but that's just me being nosy. And please, tell us about Carol)