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katemck said:
Do you mind me asking about your mom’s mum? Mel is obviously very positive about her - but you’ve noted above about your mom having a tough upbringing.

I agree - there are things that can drive people but to drink and drugs (I’ve seen it with my own parents) but we all have a choice and you seem to have taken a very sty hand of cards and have gone down completely different path so fair play to you.
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First of all I'm not like Melissa that would start snapping that people for asking completely reasonable questions so don't worry about it 👍

To be honest I didn't really know my grandmother that well. And obviously not being in contact with anybody in my family when I was 18 I didn't really know her through my teens into my early 20s before she passed away.

She was lovely to me as a child like you would think a grandma would be but honestly I can't tell you what she was like because I didn't really have that relationship with her.
 
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themiddlebrother said:
I tried with the police unfortunately there's not a lot they can do there was more of the fact that she was talking about my abuse some of my friends (not close but knew and had a lot of respect for) didn't know so you can imagine getting them messaging me asking if I was okay after seeing it.

And to have my workmates ask me questions.


Yeah it's not on.

As for her opinion on me that's her problem a lot of people in the family have said that I tend to say on my things on my mind is probably the reason why no one cared I went missing because my mum didn't tell them I was homeless until I reached out to my uncle.

I tried to make things work with everybody in the family but you hit a brick wall and just because I didn't go about the way they do I got left out in the cold.

She also mentioned about me giving away at the wedding yeah she rung me up saying I'm the first person to have been told about the wedding and that she wants me to give her away.

The only changed her mind when I stopped talking to at that time when she kicked off at me for not letting her use my house as a decoration pit stop.

She did that knowing it would piss me off because I told my uncle to basically do off when he will constantly wanting to know information about my mum and being secretive about information about my mum.

So I told him to stuff it I haven't got time to play childish games.


I even wanted to meet up with him to iron things out before the wedding be a man and talk it out but he refused 🤦

The other family are exactly like Melissa.
They like to give it out but never like to take.
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Look up the harassment act, if your sister has made you feel distressed twice you can make her stop as the law is there to protect you.

 
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katemck said:
Do you mind me asking about your mom’s mum? Mel is obviously very positive about her - but you’ve noted above about your mom having a tough upbringing.

I agree - there are things that can drive people but to drink and drugs (I’ve seen it with my own parents) but we all have a choice and you seem to have taken a very sty hand of cards and have gone down completely different path so fair play to you.
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Your right everyone has a choice. But I believe with the right guidance that is the key.

Yes two completely different paths.
Paths I can not change.

Have to do what you got to do.
 
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themiddlebrother said:
Your right everyone has a choice. But I believe with the right guidance that is the key.

Yes two completely different paths.
Paths I can not change.

Have to do what you got to do.
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If I were you I'd be talking to a solicitor and/or the Police.
If you don't initially get anywhere with the first Police Officer, go higher.
Your sister is worryingly hellbent on getting the last word in and is posting new videos about you maliciously.
It's a shame she's not got the mental capacity to think like an adult and to draw a line.
 
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themiddlebrother said:
Your right everyone has a choice. But I believe with the right guidance that is the key.

Yes two completely different paths.
Paths I can not change.

Have to do what you got to do.
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Fair play to you coming on here, and you can tell you have kids when you discussed your mum and her struggles. Similar expedience here, and once I had children, I understood more. Mel doesn’t have the capacity to understand being parent and how hard it truly is, and that’s not a dig at her being a step parent, but she’s never had to be a parent 24/7. 1 or 2 nights a week… They’re worlds apart, especially when she has no children of her own.

Her saying it’s your fault is also rich, because that contradicts her favourite taglines “it’s not your fault” and “you were a child”… how is that different for you?
This then transfers to Andrew playing away and the step son and what he did- he’s a “child”, “hes not xyz”. It’s always different when it happens to her, or makes Mel look bad and she’s able to justify it 🤷🏾‍♀️

She’s a narcissist and she cannot see it, it’s comical. There will be a big video about this today, because she has absolutely nothing else going on in her life except for the past- it’s really sad.
 
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Mels middle brother came across more mature and articulate than big Mel . All he wants is to live his life but big Mel wants the money . If it was a toss up between the 2 if both had TikTok I know who I’d follow !
He’s just shown her right up . She out for herself , full of anger and resentment. The therapy didn’t work . She laughs at you if you ask a question she doesn’t like . It’s me me me .
Now I feel sorry for everyone involved as it sounds they all had a s upbringing.. but big Mel is not in the right frame of mind to tell the world her story
 
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Garlicdep said:
Fair play to you coming on here, and you can tell you have kids when you discussed your mum and her struggles. Similar expedience here, and once I had children, I understood more. Mel doesn’t have the capacity to understand being parent and how hard it truly is, and that’s not a dig at her being a step parent, but she’s never had to be a parent 24/7. 1 or 2 nights a week… They’re worlds apart.

Her saying it’s your fault is also rich, because that contradicts her favourite taglines “it’s not your fault” and “you were a child”… how is that different for you?
This then transfers to Andrew playing away and the step son and what he did- he’s a “child”, “hes not xyz”. It’s always different when it happens to her, or makes Mel look bad and she’s able to justify it 🤷🏾‍♀️

She’s a narcissist and she cannot see it, it’s comical. There will be a big video about this today, because she has absolutely nothing else going on in her life except for the past- it’s really sad.
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Sid wouldn't be throwing plates & engaging in other behaviours she isn't proud of if she was a perfect step parent! She is 100% a narcissist & spends time judging other people's behaviour rather than addressing her own behaviours. Her middle brother has come across as fair, reasoned & articulate, COMPLETELY different to the picture Sid painted of him.
 
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CalmDownSid said:
Sid wouldn't be throwing plates & engaging in other behaviours she isn't proud of if she was a perfect step parent! She is 100% a narcissist & spends time judging other people's behaviour rather than addressing her own behaviours. Her middle brother has come across as fair, reasoned & articulate, COMPLETELY different to the picture Sid painted of him.
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It's like that recent embarrassing video where she reads his messages. Her prior implication was that they were vile, aggressive and hostile.
But they were nothing like she implied.
She's twisted and warped and is a master manipulator.
 
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What tickles me about Mel is 99% of her content is about publicly criticising her estranged family, then she regularly talks about how her estranged family keep popping up in her life etc etc.
Like what did she expect was going to happen when she dedicates most of her time online talking about them so publicly?
Reminds me of an old saying, if you want a different outcome, don't do the same things 😂
 
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ComputerSaysNo said:
It's like that recent embarrassing video where she reads his messages. Her prior implication was that they were vile, aggressive and hostile.
But they were nothing like she implied.
She's twisted and warped and is a master manipulator.
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Sid is a narcissist so any different opinions are viewed as an attack to her.
 
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CalmDownSid said:
Sid is a narcissist so any different opinions are viewed as an attack to her.
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I’ve thought this from the very first video I watched but the more she goes on and posts, the more she actually comes across exactly as she is portraying her alleged abusive mother to be. The very problematic behaviours she is calling out, she herself exhibits. Mel makes a massive point of declaring she is different and would never behave like her mother but her actions are near identical as time goes on. I’m so embarrassed for her. I physically cringe every time she posts a POV.
 
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She 100% revels in her narrative of 'they won't leave me alone' but she is the dog with the bone who refuses to let go.
She once made reference to her Dad being on the Royal Mail route that included her house and implied she just couldn't escape him. I very much doubt he can choose his round and I'd bet money that he wishes he didn't have to deliver to her hovel.
She thrives when the middle brother gets in touch because it gives her the ammunition to present in a distorted way. I don't think she's mentioned in any great detail that he just wants her to stop talking about HIM.
Why would she? It would spoil her narrative if she was bluntly honest for once because she might just make her blinkered viewers have the option to form an alternative viewpoint.
And she doesn't want that. Absolutely not.
 
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So the middle brother says Mel exaggerates! No suprise there! 😭😂 Everything she says & does is exaggerated for likes. Having watched her TikToks for nearly a year Iv watched he exaggerate all of her memories. She told her initial stories & ever since she has re hashed each story & exaggerated each one to the max, I've watched her do it many times. I hope her brother sticks around to keep offering balance to Mel's exaggerated soap opera. He lived the life she is pimping out all over Tik Tok, he deserves to have a right to reply.
 
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themiddlebrother said:
She probably does know and that's due to the eldest brother no doubt.
she will never respond because it was our mother that cut contact with her.

And I do feel that's the main driving force of why she is doing this.

She's only 4 years into no contact and I do feel but she is missing her.

I gave my mum a chance plenty of times until it just got to the point of I'm wasting my time and I'm wasting my kids' time.

She's legitimately going through the same thoughts and feelings but instead of acknowledging them with her she would rather go onto its social media tiktok to bash on how much of a s she was.

In time she will come to realization that she had to go through a lot being hard of hearing being diagnosed with MS 30 years old having been three kids and as far as I know she had a very tough upbringing so imagine all that mixed into one no wonder she turned to drink because she didn't get any help with her mental health or any help with the Ms support.

That's me understanding that yeah she wasn't there for me as a mother but there's reasons behind it because she was left behind by the government and the system at the time.

Don't get me wrong I'm just not using that as an excuse but after having to grow up very quick at the age of 18 and have to push through after seeing a lot of things and being mentally incapable for many years you start to realise there's always a reason.

No one just turns into an alcoholic for any reason all turns to drugs for any reason?

I was just dealt with the sstick.
Whilst Melissa had all the support off her cousins uncles and aunties she could go to them with any issue and if things kicked off she used to get picked up.

Unfortunately I didn't have that luxury.
Like a previously said living in a tent around December and getting into a bedsit surrounded by druggies I reached out to all these people the I thought will my family and none of them helped.

Only my uncle reached out for a while made me tea but just bitched about me mother and wanted to the gossip about me mother.

There was no help.

But like I said to her her way of coping is to do what she's doing right now my where of coping is accepting and trying to be the best fiance and the best father I could possibly be to my kids.

For some reason she said that I wanted my children to be the forefront over the step children that is so untrue.

She was never on time with my kids' birthdays even didn't turn up to my eldest fourth birthday because good old Andrew decided to be a naughty boy and Play away. She refused to turn up.

She's only looked after my kids three times in 12 years yet she's speaking like she's the best aunt in the world.

Spade a spade to me so especially when she's lying about being bothered about the kids.

One word I can describe Mel is exaggerated.
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This right here is the best thing I’ve read about Mel so far .. I didn’t read it properly last night .

I thought Andrew cheating was hearsay so not all happy in the byrne household.. as I’ve said weeks ago , braggers hide something.

I’ve said also Mel is missing her mum , it’s so obvious .. Mels peeved off cus her mum didn’t wanna know ! She can’t handle that .

Mels did say she doesn’t want kids , possible not maternal at all! Why would she bother with her brothers kids ? She only does what she has to do with Andrew’s kids cus they come as a package AND has them a couple of days if that so not exactly hard work . She probs don’t even have any input regarding their lives .

Nobody helped middle brother while going through homelessness etc shows the entire family from mum to cousins to aunties and uncles are not close , don’t care and probably can’t be arsed with Mels mum so which in turn stretched out to her kids ( Mel and co)

Mels mother had a hard upbringing , Mel states grandma was the best grandma etc so either the father was horrible or Mel’s mum was right in stating the grandma talked about her behind her back etc but Mel was desperate for a mother figure and saw her through rose tinted glasses .

To be frank Mels fed .. she hasn’t got the best life . No mates /family , husband that cheats , no kids , on TikTok all the time. I just would feel I also need a drink . 😬
 
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