mjbyrnex - Mel

ComputerSaysNo · Thursday at 11:46 PM

SandyToes said:
The truth always comes out in the end. Andrew Byrne cheated on Melissa!!! That'll be why he's never allowed out with his mates without Big Mel in tow! Why he's so emasculated by her, why he buys her flowers like it's the final act of his week. Why she controls everything, why she takes him to work & picks him up like a 5 year old who isn't safe to be let out alone! Because he clearly isn't! Wonder how many plates got broken when Mel found out she'd been cheated on!

I don't think she trusts him.
The forced kissing, the flowers and her repetitive reminders that they sleep together are very insecure actions.
"I managed to keep my wandering dick away from other women this week and I've spent some of my own money on flowers to prove it"

He's never seemingly allowed any down time with his mates. He couldn't even have a few hours fishing in Whitby without her rocking up.

Garlicdep · 2025-01-17T09:56:30+0000

uptom1990 said:
Melissa hates Abbies fella.
She told me everything about his affair and sending pics to old woman you know the normal things that you do in a loving relationship

Is this the fella she hosted for Christmas? She’s so two faced

At least him an Andrew have a lot in common, I imagine they had a lot to talk about with their pasts… birds of a feather…

Saying It As It Is · 2025-01-17T10:31:35+0000

Garlicdep said:
Is this the fella she hosted for Christmas? She’s so two faced
At least him an Andrew have a lot in common, I imagine they had a lot to talk about with their pasts… birds of a feather…

Yes he is the shag bandit who lives in Norfolk with Abbie. I once looked at Abbie's tiktok, she said she lives in debt but cannot stop spending. She's clearly as messed up as Mel. I say that because after finding out her partner is a cheat & living in constant debt Abbie decides this was a perfect foundation to bring two children into the world! Disordered thinking on mega scale! This is the woman who Mel takes her advice from! I think this explains so much!

CalmDownSid · 2025-01-17T12:28:28+0000

uptom1990 said:
So yeah lying.

Hope she enjoys the fake s show of a life.

First mother

So Mel accepted Andrew cheating on her just like her best mate Abbie accepted her husband cheating on her!!

Wooow! Shag Bandit clearly has a soft spot for baby mama number 1. According to his kids ages with her, who are the eldest & youngest, he kept going back to procreate with her for a decade & it appears he cheated on Mel with her!! No wonder self righteous Mel doesn't share that story in her open book life. Explains why she's gained 7 stone since meeting the shag bandit!

GossipGal · 2025-01-17T12:41:11+0000

So Mel's on TikTok three times a day telling her truth about her past, well the bits shes decided are the truth, whilst ignoring the truth about her current life & the dodgy foundations her marriage is built on. Bravo Mel

ComputerSaysNo · 2025-01-17T13:37:16+0000

Didn't Melvyn once say something about him going back to this particular mum? That he'd had a breakdown or something? I can't recall if she said it on a live or someone else has said it on here but it's definitely been said that she explained his actions as a breakdown.
She's an attractive woman, mamma number one, so I can see his attraction. Bet Melvyn sees it too.

uptom1990 · 2025-01-17T13:44:30+0000

Hello Melissa me again.

You really tried hard not to come across hurt and angry on your recent tiktok post.

No doubt you have done a quick block to that account.

Your right it's a opinion not fact.
So everything you said about me and my kids and my fiance is just a opinion????

You bang on about that people are trying to silence you yet you have done your damn best to keep my mouth shut. Screenshots proved that.

I hate to watch you exploit loads of vulnerable sexual abuse victims some of them as minors. You're not qualified to tell a stranger what to do about their life you don't know what they have been through so what gives you the right to give you self that title.

You say your tiktok is a safe space all you have done is create content that's got nothing to do about how to move on and leave your life after sexual abuse. Nobody can have an opinion or question your stories because it's always the same old generic "victim shaming"

Which is incredibly hypocritical of you when you said and I quote "everything that's happened to you is your fault" all the trauma I have been through was my fault??? Isn't that victim shaming???

You are trying to profit off these vulnerable people and it's disgusting and you should be ashamed to yourself.

Nothing will stop you from getting the attention that you need because you are clearly unwell and that is the reason why you're gone to therapy because you are STILL searching for answers into why our mother is the way she is.

Instead of accepting the our mother was mentally unwell had reasons to where she is because she didn't get the support when she was first diagnosed.

I have accepted my mother has let me down but that doesn't mean I can't live my life and be the best father I come to my kids and be the best fiance to my fiance.

Don't get me wrong I went down a really dark route and struggled a lot but as soon as I accepted that is nothing that I can do now things became a lot brighter.

We only fell out Melissa because you didn't like the fact that you couldn't use my house for your decorations for the wedding and in results of me refusing because you didn't ask you've decided to degrade me from what can you down the aisle and bombard me with abusive messages and trying to ring me all the time.

That is legit the reason why I stop contact with you because you brought my parenting into the mix because I refused to how sit your decorations.

F****** pathetic and it showed me that you are worse than mother everything has to revolve around you yet you complain when I expect the auntie of my children to at least they don't know their birthdays and don't ask what they want for their birthdays a DAY before. And the fact you have only looked after them twice in 12 years and ALWAYS have to be with Andrew.

And the fact that you always used to talk about your friends and Andrews family in a negative light all the time when we used to meet up was the only reason why I couldn't carry on our relationship because you are literally a chaotic car crash.

GossipGal · 2025-01-17T15:26:50+0000

The latest TikTok acting all innocent is hilarious!!! According to Mel, all Mel's done is say what her family did to her & the after effects of it. That's it. Where does repeatedly calling her mother and both her brothers a narcissist fit into that? Only the other day on a recent TikTok that came up on my FYP where she called the middle brother a narcissist yet again! Doing what Mel is doing, the way she is doing it, is harassment. The incessant number of times she has done it, it's deliberately causing alarm & distress to other people. At least Mel has cleared the way for the middle brother to keep telling his truth because all he's doing is stating what Mel & his family did to him & talking about how it affected him hey Mel.

CalmDownSid · 2025-01-17T15:38:58+0000

How cold & cruel is Mel! Saying it's ok to bully others 24/7 when all Mel says she's doing is giving her opinion

The law on harassment says that using abusive, or insulting words or behaviour towards another person, that causes them alarm or distress, is harassment. The fact Mel clearly doesn't see that says everything. She's a bully who has harassed others for over a year. If Mel's mother had a solicitor who knew their stuff re harassment law, Mel would be in huge trouble! I've seen people prosecuted for harassment for much less than Mel does everyday. She's only getting away with this behaviour because her mother has chosen not to prosecute her legally.

ComputerSaysNo · 2025-01-17T15:43:08+0000

I think she's rambling in that latest TikTok. Her thought process is completely skewed.

CalmDownSid · 2025-01-17T16:10:35+0000

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My advice to the mother or the middle brother is book a free appointment with a solicitor who prosecutes people under Protection from Harassment 1997 law. Take all the evidence of Mel causing you alarm & distress, and her ridiculing & insulting you. If anyone has screenshot all of the ridiculing & harassing things Mel has said she's in huge trouble. Mel is prolific at harassing online. The solicitor may take such a case on a no win no fee basis as it would be a landmark case to prosecute someone who is so prolific at causing alarm & distress to others online, mention how she's posted over 1000 tik tok videos & many live broadcasts. As hard as it is, stick to simple facts of Mel causing you alarm & distress. In a criminal case the burden has to be 100% & the purportrator could get a criminal record, in a civil case the burden has only to be 50% and money is the only resolution. ie, Mel could lose her assets, her home. Also, what Mel forgets is she keeps saying she is telling the truth. Can she prove what she is saying is the truth? every word? Who's going to back her up? Under the scrutiny of a barrister I'd be fascinated to see Mel try & prove her truth! She's an absolute weapon!

BlowsMyMind · 2025-01-17T16:54:22+0000

ComputerSaysNo said:
I think she's rambling in that latest TikTok. Her thought process is completely skewed.

Mel is so immature, remember when she talked about letting others be! She cannot stop herself trying to control others. She wants all eyes on her & nobody else.

Saying It As It Is · 2025-01-17T19:54:59+0000

uptom1990 said:
Hello Melissa me again.

You really tried hard not to come across hurt and angry on your recent tiktok post.

No doubt you have done a quick block to that account.

Your right it's a opinion not fact.
So everything you said about me and my kids and my fiance is just a opinion????

You bang on about that people are trying to silence you yet you have done your damn best to keep my mouth shut. Screenshots proved that.

I hate to watch you exploit loads of vulnerable sexual abuse victims some of them as minors. You're not qualified to tell a stranger what to do about their life you don't know what they have been through so what gives you the right to give you self that title.

You say your tiktok is a safe space all you have done is create content that's got nothing to do about how to move on and leave your life after sexual abuse. Nobody can have an opinion or question your stories because it's always the same old generic "victim shaming"

Which is incredibly hypocritical of you when you said and I quote "everything that's happened to you is your fault" all the trauma I have been through was my fault??? Isn't that victim shaming???

You are trying to profit off these vulnerable people and it's disgusting and you should be ashamed to yourself.

Nothing will stop you from getting the attention that you need because you are clearly unwell and that is the reason why you're gone to therapy because you are STILL searching for answers into why our mother is the way she is.

Instead of accepting the our mother was mentally unwell had reasons to where she is because she didn't get the support when she was first diagnosed.

I have accepted my mother has let me down but that doesn't mean I can't live my life and be the best father I come to my kids and be the best fiance to my fiance.

Don't get me wrong I went down a really dark route and struggled a lot but as soon as I accepted that is nothing that I can do now things became a lot brighter.

We only fell out Melissa because you didn't like the fact that you couldn't use my house for your decorations for the wedding and in results of me refusing because you didn't ask you've decided to degrade me from what can you down the aisle and bombard me with abusive messages and trying to ring me all the time.

That is legit the reason why I stop contact with you because you brought my parenting into the mix because I refused to how sit your decorations.

F****** pathetic and it showed me that you are worse than mother everything has to revolve around you yet you complain when I expect the auntie of my children to at least they don't know their birthdays and don't ask what they want for their birthdays a DAY before. And the fact you have only looked after them twice in 12 years and ALWAYS have to be with Andrew.

And the fact that you always used to talk about your friends and Andrews family in a negative light all the time when we used to meet up was the only reason why I couldn't carry on our relationship because you are literally a chaotic car crash.

Can I ask, you say your mum is mentally unwell & didn't the support she needed after diagnosis. Does Mel know your mum had a mental health diagnosis?

ComputerSaysNo · 2025-01-17T20:30:32+0000

CalmDownSid said:
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My advice to the mother or the middle brother is book a free appointment with a solicitor who prosecutes people under Protection from Harassment 1997 law. Take all the evidence of Mel causing you alarm & distress, and her ridiculing & insulting you. If anyone has screenshot all of the ridiculing & harassing things Mel has said she's in huge trouble. Mel is prolific at harassing online. The solicitor may take such a case on a no win no fee basis as it would be a landmark case to prosecute someone who is so prolific at causing alarm & distress to others online, mention how she's posted over 1000 tik tok videos & many live broadcasts. As hard as it is, stick to simple facts of Mel causing you alarm & distress. In a criminal case the burden has to be 100% & the purportrator could get a criminal record, in a civil case the burden has only to be 50% and money is the only resolution. ie, Mel could lose her assets, her home. Also, what Mel forgets is she keeps saying she is telling the truth. Can she prove what she is saying is the truth? every word? Who's going to back her up? Under the scrutiny of a barrister I'd be fascinated to see Mel try & prove her truth! She's an absolute weapon!

Ironically, the one person who holds ALL the cards is the Mother.
She's not put a foot wrong since Melvyn started all this.
And I'm not saying the brother has, because in my opinion he's got every right to reply, but it will just be spun as tit for tat.
But Melvyn's Mother has played an absolute blinder by keeping schtum.

There's not one single thing that Melvyn could argue was provocation.
So my advice to the Mother, if she's reading here, is to maintain a public silence but seriously consider getting some legal advice with a considered view to reporting Melvyn to the Police for harassment.

CalmDownSid · 2025-01-17T20:49:14+0000

Your absolutely spot on, what's I'd add is the police aren't brilliant where Harassment Law has been broken, it's definitely something for a solicitor to take on. A solicitor would absolutely go to town on Mel. The middle brother has only spoken his truth in response to a year of complete provocation by Mel. What's the betting big Mel is sat at her night out constantly checking her phone

Not that your obsessed Mel

CustardCream · 2025-01-17T23:09:46+0000

Saying It As It Is said:
Can I ask, you say your mum is mentally unwell & didn't the support she needed after diagnosis. Does Mel know your mum had a mental health diagnosis?

Has 'open book, full disclosure'

Mel ever disclosed that her mother had a mental health diagnosis? I miss most lives but I've not heard her mention about it?

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