Steph doll,
It’s not the same vibe when the truth is you can’t get a man, not that you don’t want them.
‘Best feeling in the world’. Aaahhhh standard over exaggeration of the feelings you’re having to make others and yourself believe what you’re saying, is true.
No one says that.. even genuinely happy single people, because they don’t think about men at every life event, because they are genuinely happy.
Why can’t putting your tree up just be about you and your kids? A year later and you’re still placing a man’s existence at the forefront of every opportunity. That’s how you know you’re not happy, and it’s not actually the best feeling in the world.
Same with the boobs ‘so liberating doing it for me’. Ie: I’m making you all think it was a decision based on what I want, not what I think men will find appealing.
See us that have men, we don’t say ‘putting the tree up early because I have a man who doesn’t tell me what to do and it’s the best feeling in the world’.
It’s so weird babe. Cringe.
Why not try ‘putting the tree up early because my kids love it, it’s the best feeling in the world’. I know that won’t sound natural but give it go. They are the most important thing to you I thought?
You give soooo much energy to a man’s existence and non existence in your life.
You can just say you love the boaby babe, this is a safe space.
P.s Hi neighbours house that Steph says she doesn’t have.