As she always says "that's a you problem" when people are triggered by her.
Just seen the podcast, and seen some incredddddible comments under it
you know who you all are!!
I wasn't triggered by the "tism" parts. My son is autistic and he "reeks of the tisms" too
When my oh boys were up during summer we all went fishing. The guy who runs the fishery looked at me and nodded at my son and said ADHD? I said close, Autism. He wasn't being rude or anything he was a late diagnosed ADHDer and my sons vocal stims reminded him of himself.
I don't think I personally would ever describe him to "reeks of the tisms" but I kind of get that some people can spot my sons is on the spectrum a mile away and then you still have some who are like "oh he doesn't look autistic" yep that old classic one
I can see why she would be triggered though because she has no intention of teaching M about boundaries and the like and will use his disabilities as excuses for behaviours and that "he doesn't understand"