Thissinglemama @thissinglemamaofficial

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Ok, totally off topic but I want to share my proud mummy moment with you lot,
Our lass has only gone & done it, 3 A levels at A* & the spare one is A!!! We are so fecking proud of her & so happy for her, the career she has wanted since she was a wee dot is going to happen for her, first choice uni & everything & I’m not boasting before any of the delulu sycophants start, I’m just so proud of her & her ambition & hard work.
Hope everyone is ok & sending virtual hugs to those that need it. 🌵❤️🐓🐭🐱🐴🐶🐮🐰🦊🐯🐸🐒🐥🦉🐤🐷🐨🪿🐔🐑🐩🐈🦢🦜🐩🐄🐢
That is absolutely amazing. A great reason to go off topic. Congratulations to your lass.
Have a wonderful day celebrating 🍾
 
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Ok, totally off topic but I want to share my proud mummy moment with you lot,
Our lass has only gone & done it, 3 A levels at A* & the spare one is A!!! We are so fecking proud of her & so happy for her, the career she has wanted since she was a wee dot is going to happen for her, first choice uni & everything & I’m not boasting before any of the delulu sycophants start, I’m just so proud of her & her ambition & hard work.
Hope everyone is ok & sending virtual hugs to those that need it. 🌵❤️🐓🐭🐱🐴🐶🐮🐰🦊🐯🐸🐒🐥🦉🐤🐷🐨🪿🐔🐑🐩🐈🦢🦜🐩🐄🐢
Amazing 🤩 well done to your daughter 🎉👏🏻👏🏻
 

notrolly

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Oh my actual good god!! Let me start by apologising for putting this here but for some reason I can’t reply on the other group( the Tesco thing)
What the actual hell is going on with some people.

NN came on here late at night and was upset

Eitak responded in a genuine way

NN thought her response was s

Eitak wasn’t down to defend herself or argue ( her choice her right)

I tried to calm things down numerous times

Lurker tried very hard and was very kind and supportive

Birkey was trying to defuse a situation very diplomaticly

NN accused people of supporting lurker more than her - she thought she was not being treated equally??

And from then on it did not matter how kind or supportive people were trying to be towards NN she would not accept it - taking the nice posts and finding the negative- hats off to Eitak, lurky, and Birkey who bent over backwards to make NN feel valued and validated
I stopped commenting because I was getting very close to my limit at this point .
Eitak I don’t even think all this was down to your original response and I think you have done and said more than most people would have done to try and salvage a situation that certainly was not caused by you in malice

Lurky - I’m so sorry that you were made to feel guilty for being liked and supported when you was in the firing line and you should not be going anywhere! I feel bad actually for not jumping in to support you more, but I thought I mite make it worse!

Burkey your empathy and niceness and diplomacy skills🙌

There is only so much that people can do when someone is determined to stay in a negative place. We are strangers on a forum are we not?
Jesus none of this is that deep !

Yes we can support each other up to a certain point - but if people need specific therapy than maybe here is not the place to be - we can all get touchy or take offence or piss someone off! It’s life I’m afraid! and although we should be mindful of others feelings none of us are here to be vilified because of someone else’s issues - we say sorry and if that apology is not accepted just how much justification, explanation, remorse are we expected to give? If you don’t think an apology is genuine - don’t pull more and more people in hoping to get a majority verdict - it’s not on! And that is bullying - pure and simple!
Frankly I am horrified that Lurky was made to feel like she couldn’t stay here because NN thinks people like her and supported her more!

Now before ANYONE decides to come for me - firstly I do not give 2 fs - I’m here for the laughs and Bingo
I do not feel any remorse for what I just said and I don’t do guilt trips either
I won’t be doing any back and forth about what I may or may not have got wrong
I like this funny ass group so can we please draw a line under all this sorry mess now
NN I really hope you can come back but more than that u really hope you feel better soon x
It got ridiculous for me when folk where slated for liking a comment. Twice it was mentioned after I and others liked comments eitak made. so I liked a comment same way I've liked lots of comments on here and apparently it's despicable that folk could like or love someone's comment because someone took offence to it. Its really out of hand now and needs a line drawn under it cause it just brings the forum down and makes it look silly. We are all adults no one needs to leave but I do understand some folk were fed up saying sorry a million different ways. Hopefully some time off to calm down then everyone will return
 
Thanks to all you wonderful non puffy nipped trowels for your kind words, we are so proud of our lass & what she has achieved so far in her life, the best bit for me as her mum is the fact that the uni she is going to is just 40mins up the road so she hasn’t got any plans to fly the nest yet & no I’m not clipping her wings, the degree she will soon be starting is 5/6yrs long so if at any time she wants to go live in the city she can, thought I would get that in there before any freaks imply that I don’t want to let her be free( yes you stanky Dani/ jizzpig/Mad Jo) she doesn’t want to leave her horse, baby brother or us anyways so I’m really happy with that. 😌
Anyways back to oinking Olga, quite sure that bingo card must be full by now. 🐽
 
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Well said. I commented in that other group cos I felt it needed to be said (screenshot shows my post)

And I stand by what I say. But it really needs to stop now, it’s out of hand.

And it’s the last I’m saying about it because I think it’s about time a line was drawn & people move on
Nicely put - looked like gaslighting at its finest to me - lurker & Eitak took a lot of crap there and still carried on trying to smooth things over - says a lot about how genuine they are x I’m not down for that behaviour I’m afraid x
 
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Nicely put - looked like gaslighting at its finest to me - lurker & Eitak took a lot of crap there and still carried on trying to smooth things over - says a lot about how genuine they are x I’m not down for that behaviour I’m afraid x
I want Lurkey to come back she makes me laugh, and I love Eitaks plain speaking. We are all different.
If people don’t want to be here, then I guess that’s their choice.
Let’s just put it to bed and move on.

Aimee smells of fish…. Pass it on.
 

Aimee5bellies

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I want Lurkey to come back she makes me laugh, and I love Eitaks plain speaking. We are all different.
If people don’t want to be here, then I guess that’s their choice.
Let’s just put it to bed and move on.

Aimee smells of fish…. Pass it on.
It should never have escalated to what it has. But it’s clear some people can’t move on.

I only commented because it took 2 days to catch up as I hadn’t been on & I felt it needed to be said. That’s me done with it.

But I feel bad that people feel that they have to leave because people can’t accept an apology and move on & others are made to feel attacked because others won’t agree to disagree.
 
I want Lurkey to come back she makes me laugh, and I love Eitaks plain speaking. We are all different.
If people don’t want to be here, then I guess that’s their choice.
Let’s just put it to bed and move on.

Aimee smells of fish…. Pass it on.
& piss & biscuits 🐟 🐽
 
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It got ridiculous for me when folk where slated for liking a comment. Twice it was mentioned after I and others liked comments eitak made. so I liked a comment same way I've liked lots of comments on here and apparently it's despicable that folk could like or love someone's comment because someone took offence to it. Its really out of hand now and needs a line drawn under it cause it just brings the forum down and makes it look silly. We are all adults no one needs to leave but I do understand some folk were fed up saying sorry a million different ways. Hopefully some time off to calm down then everyone will return
It’s bonkers - if I want to like something that others don’t its tough! Pathetic behaviour - n I’m not buying the attention seeking (sorry) it’s the first time I’ve been over there and I can see at first glance it looked quite a deep forum where they seem very supportive of each others issues - that’s fabulous if that’s what you need - I actually do not need it! I am fine here in the loony bin with you lot - If I upset anyone tell me and will apologise or explain if I feel I should but you had best believe that I ain’t in the business of grovelling to make anyone feel better cos they think I should just to make them feel better about themselves - if anyone needs that they need therapy not a forum! ❤️❤️