Sevda.Ela @sevda.ela

Chicken wings

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Right, I'm a very wary careful and suspicious person as my long life has taught me to trust no one new and unknown to me. Once again we've got discord and there's a common denominator here, the one who suggested a Reddit/Insta group inviting members here to join to read info that wouldn't appear on this page. What happened? Nothing that they didn't already know but an infiltrator joined and exposed their identities. How, exactly?

Something here stinks and I have a feeling that both me and Chicken Wings are on the same wavelength. Forgive me if I'm wrong.
Hey love you are right and I totally agree, been wanting to say something for a while but after what she said to the other person which was un called for I had too, everything went tits up in when we had visitors and her, and what I have pointed out
Well she has put me in the ignore box 😂😂😂 is that so I can’t defend anyone she wants to upset or her s she spills oh well she can crack on
Shane she didn’t protect everyone in the Insta chats but nope the last thing I read in there is “let’s take this to CC” Ermmm why
But yeah we are on the same wavelength ❤️❤️❤️
 

Hagging

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Aurora, I don't think anyone one here trusts each other really unless they know each other personally.
Only child syndrome is a saying for children like Ela who are an only child, behave like Ela and are parented like Ela. Jealous, bratty, spoilt and demanding. I don't know why people are acting like that saying isn't a thing and hasn't been around for years.
There was no hostility in your replies, all I've seen is polite explanations. I think maybe they took it as hostile because of the way they were feeling about the interaction.
You don't need to be given permission to be here, no one does. This is a public forum to talk about Sevda. If people take things personally and to heart then that's on them, Girl. 🤷‍♀️
 
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Aurora, I don't think anyone one here trusts each other really unless they know each other personally.
Only child syndrome is a saying for children like Ela who are an only child, behave like Ela and are parented like Ela. Jealous, bratty, spoilt and demanding. I don't know why people are acting like that saying isn't a thing and hasn't been around for years.
There was no hostility in your replies, all I've seen is polite explanations. I think maybe they took it as hostile because of the way they were feeling about the interaction.
You don't need to be given permission to be here, no one does. This is a public forum to talk about Sevda. If people take things personally and to heart then that's on them, Girl. 🤷‍♀️
Thank you so much. I really didn’t mean anything by that saying, I’m a defender for only children as I think more people should be encouraged to only have one child if that’s what they truly want!! If they’re raised correctly, they don’t have to turn out like that.
I definitely think it was about how they felt about the interaction but maybe I could’ve been more clear? I don’t know.
I hate that it got to this because I truly liked this forum. Why would I make a video about Sevda that gets me disliked and then doxx the people who supported me? Makes no sense to me. Anyway, let’s move on from that. Thank you for your support and for understand where I came from! 🫶🏼
 
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What’s this newfound way of saying hi guys at the start of her videos. It either sounds like a wail or like she’s mid-laugh. At least she stopped with that criss cross wave she used to do.
It’s like she’s trying to put on this sweet voice but she’s trying so hard her voice cracks. It’s like when you talk to a dog with that overly sweet voice.
 

wildgoldchai

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You’re allowed to think that and to not trust me, it doesn’t mean anything to me. I definitely should have made the chat more secure! I actually asked you guys if I should make it more secure by asking you guys if you knew each person that was joining.
But I stand by what I said: I never once said all children without siblings act like that. Nor was that my opinion or hidden agenda.
I appreciate every one who stood up for me after that video. I truly do.
I find it odd that you made a video talking about safeguarding children and then come on here bashing the child when you know little of her and tarnishing other only children. That’s certainly the way it came across. Ela is a product of poor parenting. It’s not her character that I’m about to crap on. She is a child. I don’t wish to discuss her. I want to snark on Sevda who I take issue with.

I’ve refrained from responding to your comments thus far but I really think you’re being rather aggressive in your responses. Whether you mean to or not is neither here nor there.
 
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I find it odd that you made a video talking about safeguarding children and then come on here bashing the child when you know little of her and tarnishing other only children. That’s certainly the way it came across. Ela is a product of poor parenting. It’s not her character that I’m about to crap on. She is a child. I don’t wish to discuss her. I want to snark on Sevda who I take issue with.

I’ve refrained from responding to your comments thus far but I really think you’re being rather aggressive in your responses. Whether you mean to or not is neither here nor there.
Me saying Ela has only child syndrome is a reflection of Sevda’s parenting and her parenting alone. Ela is not a bad kid inherently, it’s not her fault she’s being parented like that. I think we all know that.
Literally everyone here talks about Ela. And I never tarnished other only children, again, that’s how it was interpreted.
I appreciate your concern though and will think of how I approach situations moving forward.
 

wildgoldchai

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Me saying Ela has only child syndrome is a reflection of Sevda’s parenting and her parenting alone. Ela is not a bad kid inherently, it’s not her fault she’s being parented like that. I think we all know that.
Literally everyone here talks about Ela. And I never tarnished other only children, again, that’s how it was interpreted.
I appreciate your concern though and will think of how I approach situations moving forward.
Perhaps but a fair few have taken issue with various things you’ve said. Others comment on Ela yes, that’s correct. But they’ve maintained their position and no one’s said anything egregious about her. I’m just noting, your position is conflicting. Quite a few folks have ceased to comment much here, myself included since your previous comments and I do not think that’s a coincidence

But I agree, from now on, there’s no point arguing amongst ourselves
 
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Am I missing something? Has something went on? Most people here talk about ela? Why is people not happy when @roriegzz says something?

I personally don’t see anything wrong with her posts 🙈
I have no idea 😅 I guess they blame me for people turning against each other here as if I could’ve predicted that when I made my video. I really don’t know but it doesn’t feel good. At this point, it feels like they take offense with everything I say because they don’t like me, which they don’t have to but it just feels odd. I simply defend myself and suddenly I’m aggressive.
I don’t think I’ve said anything about Ela that others haven’t. I’ve seen people call her a vile brat and worse. I simply said she had only child syndrome and here come the pitchforks.