Sevda.Ela @sevda.ela

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I knew Ela had a tutor for maths but English as well? That’s just laziness on sevdas part. I remember but workbooks for my neice and nephew and practice letters and spelling and we also did math workbooks as well but we all know sevda is too cheap to spend money on workbooks.
My parents’ first language wasn’t English and they still worked with me at home on English and I never fell behind… It’s parental laziness on Sevda and Sedat’s part. Lots of workbooks available to buy (my parents were not well off but prioritised education).
 
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My parents’ first language wasn’t English and they still worked with me at home on English and I never fell behind… It’s parental laziness on Sevda and Sedat’s part. Lots of workbooks available to buy (my parents were not well off but prioritised education).
Your parents are amazing for that! Sevda can barely speak English even though it’s her native language so we can’t count on her to tutor Ela
A tutor is needed when your child is taken out for weeks at a time to go on holiday to watch her parents get sfaced by the pool
 
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It is very concerning… She’s so used to appearing in the videos she’s now probably confused why mummy has banned her for the moment. The way she was desperately trying to appear on Mine’s video as well. Not the behaviour of a child who hardly ever appears on video or who is not used to being on camera. She’s also constantly watching videos on her iPad so learning influencer speak as that’s what she’s seeing all day. She literally made comments like you would hear on YouTube videos like “comment and subscribe for more” just in passing in Sevda’s videos 🫠

I genuinely wouldn’t be surprised if Sevda is grooming her for her own account in a few years’ time (similar to Becki Jones’ niece Paige who has had an account on there since 13-14 at least and is encouraged by Becki and her mum to pursue social media). Children should not be in social media content and should not be content creators like wtf
It’s actually extremely disturbing and what I wanted to touch on in my video but never did. I wonder if Ela ever goes over to her friends houses and wonder why they don’t have a camera and ring light at the dinner table. She’s being groomed into thinking that lifestyle is normal, that it’s normal for your mum to sit and moan in front of a camera when you eat dinner. Just the fact that Ela always starts eating before Sevda because Sevda has to record herself plating up dinner, post it and then get the camera ready makes me sad for Ela. It’s extremely dystopian.
A child shouldn’t know what “comment and like for more” means.
 

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It’s actually extremely disturbing and what I wanted to touch on in my video but never did. I wonder if Ela ever goes over to her friends houses and wonder why they don’t have a camera and ring light at the dinner table. She’s being groomed into thinking that lifestyle is normal, that it’s normal for your mum to sit and moan in front of a camera when you eat dinner. Just the fact that Ela always starts eating before Sevda because Sevda has to record herself plating up dinner, post it and then get the camera ready makes me sad for Ela. It’s extremely dystopian.
A child shouldn’t know what “comment and like for more” means.
Phones are banned from my table… even now it’s just the 2 of us as kids have left home… 👎👎
 

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Well well well. No wonder the t has that miserable feel sorry for me vibe about her the last few days. There they are all living it up in Vegas and her next holiday isn't until Feb 2025. In half term as well so cost extra. Couldn't afford Vegas? Husband can't look after his own daughter without your parents around? Jealous much?! 😂😂 Oh well! Cry b!
 
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Well well well. No wonder the t has that miserable feel sorry for me vibe about her the last few days. There they are all living it up in Vegas and her next holiday isn't until Feb 2025. In half term as well so cost extra. Couldn't afford Vegas? Husband can't look after his own daughter without your parents around? Jealous much?! 😂😂 Oh well! Cry b!
That’s 100% why she’s not going, because she doesn’t trust Sedat and she knows she can’t take Ela out of school to go gamble in Vegas 🤣
 
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Well well well. No wonder the t has that miserable feel sorry for me vibe about her the last few days. There they are all living it up in Vegas and her next holiday isn't until Feb 2025. In half term as well so cost extra. Couldn't afford Vegas? Husband can't look after his own daughter without your parents around? Jealous much?! 😂😂 Oh well! Cry b!
Exactly 😂 Drowning her sorrows in a Toby Carvery breakfast this mownyin with the kid for company. Because her husband can’t be bothered with her. She’s really feeling sorry for herself right now. If not for the new school rules, she 💯 would have pulled Ela out of school. It’s insane to me that she can’t/wont leave the kid with Sedat.
 

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Exactly 😂 Drowning her sorrows in a Toby Carvery breakfast this mownyin with the kid for company. Because her husband can’t be bothered with her. She’s really feeling sorry for herself right now. If not for the new school rules, she 💯 would have pulled Ela out of school. It’s insane to me that she can’t/wont leave the kid with Sedat.
Sedat leaves for work at 5.00am in the morning so leaving Ela with him wouldn’t be an option which is why she goes to her grandparents when Sevda clears off.
 
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She will use this to justify her bringing Ela back
She and anyone else can think I made that video for views but I honestly, from the bottom of my heart, made that video to bring awareness about how sick this is. People get too entitled to other people’s children because of parasocial relationships. I don’t know how many remember Maia Knight (Scout and Violet’s mom) but one time she didn’t post her kids for one day and people were literally threatening to harm themselves if she didn’t post a video of them. That’s what exposing your children does. I’m concerned. And as so many of you have said, the way Ela tries to get included in the videos is so odd.