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It’s actually extremely disturbing and what I wanted to touch on in my video but never did. I wonder if Ela ever goes over to her friends houses and wonder why they don’t have a camera and ring light at the dinner table. She’s being groomed into thinking that lifestyle is normal, that it’s normal for your mum to sit and moan in front of a camera when you eat dinner. Just the fact that Ela always starts eating before Sevda because Sevda has to record herself plating up dinner, post it and then get the camera ready makes me sad for Ela. It’s extremely dystopian.
A child shouldn’t know what “comment and like for more” means.
See the thing is, I don’t think Ela has many friends at all aside from the neighbour child and munters kids. Even then, munters daughter seems way ahead of Ela. Even with other kids around, Ela is always on that iPad.

So that previous opportunity to feature in videos was her only highlight which has been taken away from her. Though I can see that begda is doing a little sprinkle sprinkle by slowing letting ela in the videos again
 

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Exactly 😂 Drowning her sorrows in a Toby Carvery breakfast this mownyin with the kid for company. Because her husband can’t be bothered with her. She’s really feeling sorry for herself right now. If not for the new school rules, she 💯 would have pulled Ela out of school. It’s insane to me that she can’t/wont leave the kid with Sedat.
A carvery breakfast as well, which is what a fiver for the buffet. Why not take Ela somehwere nicer? Probably an actual little cafe. Also, why doesn’t she ever take Ela to get her nails done?? Selfish prick. Ela, whilst babyish, seems like very much a girly girl so I’m sure she’d love it. And the excuse of school rules may apply. Yes, so get a pedicure then!
 

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Did she really say what i thought she said in that video... " they are a little big as they didn't have a 13 and these are a 13.5, but give it a couple of MUMPS...." 🙈 ..fing MUMPS thick b :ROFLMAO::ROFLMAO::ROFLMAO:
No wonder ela needs tutoring. Though I’m actually shocked. Tutoring at 8? The only tutoring I know that would be necessary is probably for kids wishing to pass the 7+ which Ela is too old for (not that she has the brains sadly). She must be weally behind but are we surprised? Nah
 

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I don’t know why it “bothers” me or if I’m reading too much into it but Ela’s overly polite and grateful manners always make uncomfortable. It’s not genuine, it feels like a persona. It’s not Ela’s fault of course but I just can't with it. It’s the same as Sevda’s overly sweet voice when she speaks so sweetly that her voice cracks. Just be real. Same as her thanking her mother for spending time with her, what 8 year old does that?
I think it shows that they’re raising her in a very fake way. Wasn’t it Sevda’s dad who once told Ela she shouldn’t say “what?” because it’s “pardon?” Like who cares? Let the kid say what, it’s not rude.
Absolutely it’s all rehearsed. There has been so many signs of Begda trying to get Ela and sedats attention to let them know it’s their turn to follow the scwipt. Just yesterday she said go really quickly. She tried to do the wink in the past and was called out so now does it obviously to make it seem as though it was always intended. And of course, the famous kick to sedats leg
 

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Can someone explain why all the hate on sevda im really asking a genuine question?
I can’t speak for others, but I’ll share my own experience. Before joining CC, I was a regular viewer of her content. I would often leave comments on her videos, but most of them would be deleted, even though they were never offensive or directed at her personally. It became clear to me that she was overly concerned with controlling her comment section, favoring comments that praised her. Looking back, I don’t think she was ever open to healthy discussion and seemed unable to handle differing opinions or constructive criticism.

If your comment wasn’t deleted, her die-hard fans would attack you with insults. The following day, she’d make indirect jabs at “trolls” in her videos. Anyone who didn’t agree with her was quickly labeled as a “troll,” and she would play the victim card. Once I noticed these patterns, I began to see her in a different light. Eventually, I was blocked after simply asking why she didn’t encourage healthy discussions.

Eventually, I looked online to see if others were experiencing the same thing, and that’s when I found this group. It was then that I realised I wasn’t alone in noticing these patterns.
 

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I spend 24/7 with my children. Not once have they ever thanked me for spending time with them!!! My cousins kids maybe, my neighbours kids maybe, but never heard a child thanking her mum…

This just shows a lot… and only us smart ones on here will understand exactly what I mean.
I agree, it was sad to hear Sevda saying that Ela said “Thank you mummy for spending time with me, taking me shopping” !!….

That should be the norm for an 8 year old girl…to be out with her Mum shopping. Makes you realise how little Sevda does with her daughter, that the rest of us and most other healthy parenting parents watching, consider just normal everyday time spent with our children!

My girls will say thank you to me for anything I may buy for them and treats to eat whilst out. They are very grateful little girls. However, they do NOT say thank you to me for me ‘spending time’ with them doing something as normal as shopping, including them spending money they have saved or as gifts. That’s very normal everyday life for me or my husband, or us both together… to spend time with our daughters.

Sevda, take your daughter swimming (so she can practice what she’s learning in her swimming lessons)…..

Take her to have a little manicure when you get your nails done…

Take her to a big park that’s really kitted out well with some great swings, slides, climbing frames, etc, etc and take a picnic (even in the cold weather!)

Do some easy crafts with her at home..

Do a nature hunt with her, collecting things on a list and then back home for a hot chocolate. Let her take a friend from school…

Bake simple things like cookies or fairy cakes with her..

These are NORMAL, simple things that Ela will love and they don’t cost a lot of money IF money is your issue. THESE ARE THE THINGS THAT WILL BUILD HER CONFIDENCE, MAKE HER FEEL SECURE AND ARE HEALTHY…AS WELL BEING THE THINGS SHE WILL TREASURE AND REMEMBER ABOUT HER PARENTS & CHILDHOOD IN A HEALTHY, GOOD WAY.

There are more endless things you can do with her on weekends especially, but I feel so sad for your daughter, that I’ve tried to be proactive as well as being annoyed at you, by listing a few. You’ll most likely ignore it all, and even clap back with sarcasm, but that’s ok, that’s your biggest issue that most people see about you …and at least I’ll know I’ve tried!
 
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Blue octopus

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Can someone explain why all the hate on sevda im really asking a genuine question?
She’s fake, always says she never stops, she does nothing. Her busy day is walking the dog, going shopping, putting the wash on and making an air fryer dinner. She takes her daughter out of school for a two week vacation and does nothing but sit by the pool.
 

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She’s fake, always says she never stops, she does nothing. Her busy day is walking the dog, going shopping, putting the wash on and making an air fryer dinner. She takes her daughter out of school for a two week vacation and does nothing but sit by the pool.
Also, posts videos of her daughter making mmmm sounds with cream all over her lips with hundreds of saves on the video and doesn’t care when people point out how concerning that is.
She never goes anywhere with her husband unless it’s free.
I could go on.
 

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No wonder ela needs tutoring. Though I’m actually shocked. Tutoring at 8? The only tutoring I know that would be necessary is probably for kids wishing to pass the 7+ which Ela is too old for (not that she has the brains sadly). She must be weally behind but are we surprised? Nah
Tutoring for young kids is strange to me. Unless something is really going on and they need it. We have times built into the day for kids that need extra help
I meant weally
 

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I agree, it was sad to hear Sevda saying that Ela said “Thank you mummy for spending time with me, taking me shopping” !!….

That should be the norm for an 8 year old girl…to be out with her Mum shopping. Makes you realise how little Sevda does with her daughter, that the rest of us and most other healthy parenting parents watching, consider just normal everyday time spent with our children!

My girls will say thank you to me for anything I may buy for them and treats to eat whilst out. They are very grateful little girls. However, they do NOT say thank you to me for me ‘spending time’ with them doing something as normal as shopping, including them spending money they have saved or as gifts. That’s very normal everyday life for me or my husband, or us both together… to spend time with our daughters.

Sevda, take your daughter swimming (so she can practice what she’s learning in her swimming lessons)…..

Take her to have a little manicure when you get your nails done…

Take her to a big park that’s really kitted out well with some great swings, slides, climbing frames, etc, etc and take a picnic (even in the cold weather!)

Do some easy crafts with her at home..

Do a nature hunt with her, collecting things on a list and then back home for a hot chocolate. Let her take a friend from school…

Bake simple things like cookies or fairy cakes with her..

These are NORMAL, simple things that Ela will love and they don’t cost a lot of money IF money is your issue. THESE ARE THE THINGS THAT WILL BUILD HER CONFIDENCE, MAKE HER FEEL SECURE AND ARE HEALTHY…AS WELL BEING THE THINGS SHE WILL TREASURE AND REMEMBER ABOUT HER PARENTS & CHILDHOOD IN A HEALTHY, GOOD WAY.

There are more endless things you can do with her on weekends especially, but I feel so sad for your daughter, that I’ve tried to be proactive as well as being annoyed at you, by listing a few. You’ll most likely ignore it all, and even clap back with sarcasm, but that’s ok, that’s your biggest issue that most people see about you …and at least I’ll know I’ve tried!
Unfortunately money and so called fame is more important to her then her own child she will never learn as it’s always other people not herself, until she can live a truthful life show her true self inside of filters on her and ela etc tackle the problem of exploitation etc, she will do it her way and no way
Haven’t watched her at all, but been reading here when not doing anything, like I say she is dangerous even to her own child, ela is her carbon copy and has no chance of a normal childhood as all she knows is talking to a phone etc, she hasn’t even been shown the basic life skills opening packets eating etc.
 
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Hairy titspervert doesn’t seem happy with the room.. wonder if they are going to try a to do a beg and get a refund… there were two queen size beds in the same room and you could hear Mine’s voice. Surely, surely she is not sleeping in the same room as her mum and dad??! Imagine him coming out in his s stained jocks and laughing that fing hideous laugh in his sleep. do that! I would stay home
 

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Hairy titspervert doesn’t seem happy with the room.. wonder if they are going to try a to do a beg and get a refund… there were two queen size beds in the same room and you could hear Mine’s voice. Surely, surely she is not sleeping in the same room as her mum and dad??! Imagine him coming out in his s stained jocks and laughing that fing hideous laugh in his sleep. do that! I would stay home
When they was in Dubai she had a put up bed next to their bed so I would say yes she is sharing a room x
 

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When they was in Dubai she had a put up bed next to their bed so I would say yes she is sharing a room x
Just ABSOLUTELY WEIRD! Gives me the ick!! Clearly Hairytits and Doormat will NOT be getting up to any hanky-panky in Las Vegas with Mine in the room!! Clearly no honey-mooning for them IF they were thinking of renewing their vows at the little white chapel! What doesn’t happen in Vegas, stays doesn’t in Vegas!