It’s getting so obvious & serious how unhinged Sevda is becoming. She really does need help. It’s obvious to many. It’s also obvious her family being away is only loosening the hinges of Sevda’s sanity even more. She’s been contacting ‘fwends’ on the App in a manic mode to either just chat to or see. She’s feeling anxious, out of control, manic and trying to get sympathy quick! Her video this morning is to try and show everyone she’s got ‘fwends’ and they support and are like her….when in reality… most people on the App including a few she mentions as ‘fwends’ are just lovely & friendly towards her and just tell her to ignore the trolls as they know and it’s very obvious that she’s got issues with seeing it’s HER that’s the problem. They don’t consider Sevda some one they feel close enough to that they could be honest and upfront with about her issues. Sevda also makes up huge over the top stories about her ‘twolls’ to them…all hugely over exaggerated lies. And they know it but don’t feel like addressing it with her. Only long standing friends (which Sevda has maybe only one or two) or her management could be in a position to address Sevda with the facts that SHE is the one with issues she needs to address….issues like the hatred towards her followers who suggest food ideas, their helpful suggestions on her dry brittle bleached hair, their ideas on healthy lunchbox ideas, their knowledge on how bad processed foods are, etc. It needs to be from someone who is willing to go beyond trying to NOT upset Sevda and be blunt by giving her a few hard conversations in hopes that she will think about who she is and how she is becoming and how she spills out sarcasm and hatred, even obvious in subtle ways. I think the only true friend who is in a position to do that is perhaps Ayni but I think Ayni knows how sad Sevda’s marriage is and just doesn’t want to rock the boat in upsetting Sevda. She knows how Sevda can retaliate too and probably just wants to keep peace between them as friends.
Some of these ‘fwends’ that Sevda mentions, DO know Sevda is mega extremely sensitive and that she DOES have big issues with regards to her attitude, her lack of content and her unhinged come back videos. They will not tell her that as she’s far too sensitive and immature to take any responsibility in taking straight talk on and that also they are NOT the ones to tell her as they wouldn’t consider themselves as a ‘fwend’ but more of a friendly colleague in the world of TikTok. FACT
I also think Sevda does not recognise that these ‘fwends’ on the App don’t have anywhere near the problems she creates towards her followers. They don’t clap back by doing awful videos, full of venom, hatred, OBVIOUS LIES and statements like “AND I DON’T WISH YOU WELL” They don’t give out sarcastic little clap back statements on their videos either. They do NOT say “oh, watch….they are going to come back at me now…”. She needs to recognise her friends respond
lovely to comments where people are suggesting different ways of cooking something, or beauty/cosmetic/hair tips. Her ‘fwends’ also reply lovely to all kinds of followers in the comments, not mainly to just fellow creators. They love their audience of followers on TikTok overall, whereas Sevda comes across she hates her audience most of the time. She spits back sarcastic comments or ignores all those well meaning people who are genuinely reaching out to help her with a nice suggestion. There are one or two of the ‘fwends’ Sevda mentioned who DO address any trolling they get by doing a clap back video now and again, but in all honesty, they address things much more clearly and their personalities (dramatic and bubbly charisma) kind of let them get away with it. Sort of. Sevda, you don’t have that charisma or bubbly dramatic personality…you just sound hateful and bitter and you tell lies.
I’ll say it again Sevda…fellow creators do listen to you and are friendly towards you and support you in anything you say about ‘twolling”. But please do not be ignorant that they also recognise you are too unhinged to hear any home truths from them about WHY you are so problematic and the cause of why trolls come at you. They maybe fellow TikTok creators and are super friendly ..but it does NOT stop them seeing the big issues you have that make you unhinged
You may say “Well that would make them 2 faced?!” No. It means they are wise. You can still be nice and friendly towards people with big issues and even show sympathy.. without feeling the need to address the issues!
By the way, at least you’ve admitted you are addicted to TikTok. 2 things..
Other creators may feel that addictive feeling, but it’s very clear, not to the expense of having NO life outside of TikTok and not neglecting their child/children.
And finally….your addiction does involve your obsessive need for money. You don’t have a back up job ….you irresponsibly droppped your job so now your number 1 motive is to be much reliant on your obsession to get as many videos/views/engagement.
It’s VERY OBVIOUS by your outrageous content becoming more and more dry and borrrrrriing! You’re desperate.