In some cultures, what she’s doing comes off as very rude and “territorial” over the food she’s serving. Especially when feeding a larger group, it’s more appropriate to allow people to help themselves to however much or little they want. She seems to think she’s working a restaurant kitchen most times. Plating up individually, different meals for different people, and crisping or not crisping things up to order
like she did with the kids when kuki was visiting. They rarely get to sit down and eat together because she’s painfully churning out one fing plate at a time. GTFO with that s