Sevda.Ela @sevda.ela

Lunchbox

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Sevda going all squeaky and high pitched over Ela choosing to spend Christmas money on clothes and not toys. Maybe that’s because she’s given up on mummy dearest buying any for her. That’s if you even believe what Sevda is saying. She probably forced her to use the money on clothes.
My parents would never let me use Christmas money on CLOTHES! They’d just buy me them?? Some age appropriate toys are what she needs.

Also, I’m currently visiting family and my 5 year old niece is opening packets by herself and has an adult plate (albeit children’s cutlery but metal ones not plastic). I mentioned the fact Ela is 8/9 and can’t open packets and they are astounded!! The difference in toys my niece has compared to Ela. She is 3 years younger and has way more mature presents than Ela.
 

sparklecat2

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Oh ffs . I have endo, I’ve had many operations because of it, and ivf. I’m not going to go on about it. I also have a spinal condition which renders me bed bound sometimes. I’m on waiting list for nhs surgery - I’ve been waiting ages, they did such a good job on my neck operation, I need lumbar surgery, have to walk with an aid and sometimes need a scooter. I’m not seeking sympathy- it’s just so annoying that she is, all she has described what she has done is day to day chores which normal people do. She wasn’t suffering before the elf check was she. Try bleeding out in middle of a supermarket Sevda, passing clots (sorry to be graphic, but that is the reality). And a coat, as a Christmas present. She should’ve bought her one ages ago. It’s a necessity and it’s been cold for a while. Absolute cretins, lot of them. She really doesn’t understand real life. I still work, despite everything, in adult healthcare. They could all go with that to learn how to use cutlery. Sorry for rant ❤️
 
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Lunchbox

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Oh ffs . I have endo, I’ve had many operations because of it, and ivf. I’m not going to go on about it. I also have a spinal condition which renders me bed bound sometimes. I’m on waiting list for nhs surgery - I’ve been waiting ages, they did such a good job on my neck operation, I need lumbar surgery, have to walk with an aid and sometimes need a scooter. I’m not seeking sympathy- it’s just so annoying that she is, all she has described what she has done is day to day chores which normal people do. She wasn’t suffering before the elf check was she. Try bleeding out in middle of a supermarket Sevda, passing clots (sorry to be graphic, but that is the reality). And a coat, as a Christmas present. She should’ve bought her one ages ago. It’s a necessity and it’s been cold for a while. Absolute cretins, lot of them. She really doesn’t understand real life. I still work, despite everything, in adult healthcare. They could all go with that to learn how to use cutlery. Sorry for rant ❤️
You are more than entitled to rant lovely ❤️ I’m sorry you’re having to go through this. It’s a huge slap in the face seeing people like Sev pretend they have it for clout!
 

sparklecat2

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I couldn’t imagine my boys spending money on clothes at Ela’s age. It’s a necessity, not a treat. She is trying to big up age appropriate- it’s still not. My kids need a new coat, I have to get it, it’s normal parenting. Some poor people can’t afford to buy their kids a coat. She can. 💰 and buys basic things to give her iPad kid as gifts. Makes my blood boil. Because she spends so much money on cakes. It’s disgraceful when some people can’t afford to eat, and sacrifice their own food for their children. I don’t have much money, but I try to pop things into food banks, and give to women’s refuges. When she does things like that she has to fiwm it. She’s a disgrace
 

loli

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“ turkish style rice”
“ turkish style stew”
It’s not turkish , everyone in the Middle East have this dish. I’m from syria and I cook rice the same way and make the same stew( with one difference that it’s actually good and not watery like hers) and I don’t call it syrian style stew.
 

justsaying

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She hasn't one iota of elegance or style. A tablecloth and crackers is her idea of a festive table. Never any nice centrepieces or effort made. Just getting the grub down her gullet ASAP is her goal! Ok it's family but even when those 2 older friends visit them (can't recall their names ) there's no effort made.
You can’t buy class…
 

loli

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Someone tag her in the video or send it to her.
As a mother I don’t know how she is ok with total strangers knowing all these information about her child.
I stopped buying personalised bags for my daughter because I don’t want strangers on the street to know her name.
Does she ever think that putting her child in danger is worth all the money?
 

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