Honestly, I don’t know what Sedat is or isn’t. He doesn’t live his life on camera and we only see him through the fat one’s labia eyes and lens.
What I do know is she loves to badmouth him on camera. She loves to belittle him. She loves to make out that he’s useless and an idiot. And all this to elevate her own self. To make herself look good. To martyr herself. She always wants to make out that she’s indispensable to him and Ela. But we all know she’s actually fing useless. She’s the narrator of his story and I don’t believe a word that comes out of her mouth.
Sedat used to pick Ela up from school and do her dinner and bedtime routines when the b had a job. She has let it slip many times that he actually cleans up the insane messes she makes in the kitchen “cooking” and dishing up. He does the tedious work of doing chopped salads for them, peeling and chopping garlic, mashing avocados etc. And these aren’t big things for him to do, it’s more about the picture she paints and that if you didn’t watch her regularly you wouldn’t catch these inconsistencies in her stories.