Sevda.Ela @sevda.ela

peachy

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I’m always shocked by how little Sevda does things with Ela that are FUN OR INTERESTING FOR JUST HER! They only do things that ‘fit in’ with what they get some pleasure from. Sevda never ‘sacrifices’ her time to take Ela to places that just Ela may like - either on holiday or at home! She never takes Ela swimming for leisure, or to the zoo, theme parks, nature trails, bowling, ice skating, children’s museums, etc. etc, etc ….or any after school clubs such as rainbows/brownies, ballet, gymnastics, swim lessons, etc. Sevda ONLY does something with Ela if there’s something for her enjoyment in it too or it’s convenient to suit her because she’ll have her SIL or Vampire friend meet her there …like ‘Gravity’ (the trampoline place). Even taking her to their local park.. she only takes her for 5 mins on way home from school on a sunny only day.. or when she’s taking the dog for a walk there anyway! Most of us healthy parents feel so happy & fulfilled when we take our children to places or do things with them totally for their child’s/children’s excitement and pleasure - NOT for our pleasure! (parents). The joy & excitement it brings our children is what us parents get out of it! The Land of Legends is fantastic place as a family to go. I think Sevda has made that reply up!! (Saying she’s heard not good reports about it). She is very tight fisted with money when it comes to activities for Ela! But will think nothing on spending money on endless takeaways, booze and Costa cakes, multiple holidays abroad , etc. Ela really is a neglected child in many ways but Sevda disguises it by treating her like a toddler, so cutting up her food, giving her only what she (Ela) wants to eat, opening crisp packets for her, cutting crusts off, sleeping with her, etc …gives the illusion of a spoilt, over protected little girl. But it’s not. Ela is neglected in the way of lack of good parenting which requires effort.. training her to eat properly, chew her food properly, independent sleeping, proper bed times (so she’s not so sleepy the next day!), teaching her to swim, helping her where she’s lacking with school work, getting a regular tutor for Ela and Ela attending school in term times! But no. This is all too much of an effort for Sevda. Her TikTok bubble of a world knocks out any normal parenting responsibilities from
being on her ‘lists’ even! Very, very sad for Ela. Even the grandparents never take Ela anywhere! It’s all indoors & ipad only.
 
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Let’s face it, this holiday is only for 2 things and that’s to eat and drink alcohol all day long. And that’s fine if it were just her and her husband but they’ve got a young child with them and she’s missing a chunk of school for nothing.
Exactly - Ela who is already behind in school didn’t need to be pulled out of school for this.
 

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That's what's pissing me off .. her loyal followers are saying it’s a lovely time for Ewa to be making memories by being on howiday. But , they do do all with her .. she gets shoved in front of an iPad and taken in the pool in a rubber ring/ armbands etc because they've not even been bothered to attempt to get her swimming lessons . That child is going to die of embarrassment in a few years time when she gets older and realises that the majority of her friends can ride bikes, scooters , swim , open crisp packets, use cutlery etc. They are absolutely shocking parents! I hope that they get prosecuted by the LEA for the amount of time she's had off school - and get taken to court !!
Ela is going to be embarrassed when she’s still acting like a baby and her peers are all acting like normal juniors… She is going to be bullied
 

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I’m always shocked by how little Sevda does things with Ela that are FUN OR INTERESTING FOR JUST HER! They only do things that ‘fit in’ with what they get some pleasure from. Sevda never ‘sacrifices’ her time to take Ela to places that just Ela may like - either on holiday or at home! She never takes Ela swimming for leisure, or to the zoo, theme parks, nature trails, bowling, ice skating, children’s museums, etc. etc, etc ….or any after school clubs such as rainbows/brownies, ballet, gymnastics, swim lessons, etc. Sevda ONLY does something with Ela if there’s something for her enjoyment in it too or it’s convenient to suit her because she’ll have her SIL or Vampire friend meet her there …like ‘Gravity’ (the trampoline place). Even taking her to their local park.. she only takes her for 5 mins on way home from school on a sunny only day.. or when she’s taking the dog for a walk there anyway! Most of us healthy parents feel so happy & fulfilled when we take our children to places or do things with them totally for their child’s/children’s excitement and pleasure - NOT for our pleasure! (parents). The joy & excitement it brings our children is what us parents get out of it! The Land of Legends is fantastic place as a family to go. I think Sevda has made that reply up!! (Saying she’s heard not good reports about it). She is very tight fisted with money when it comes to activities for Ela! But will think nothing on spending money on endless takeaways, booze and Costa cakes, multiple holidays abroad , etc. Ela really is a neglected child in many ways but Sevda disguises it by treating her like a toddler, so cutting up her food, giving her only what she (Ela) wants to eat, opening crisp packets for her, cutting crusts off, sleeping with her, etc …gives the illusion of a spoilt, over protected little girl. But it’s not. Ela is neglected in the way of lack of good parenting which requires effort.. training her to eat properly, chew her food properly, independent sleeping, proper bed times (so she’s not so sleepy the next day!), teaching her to swim, helping her where she’s lacking with school work, getting a regular tutor for Ela and Ela attending school in term times! But no. This is all too much of an effort for Sevda. Her TikTok bubble of a world knocks out any normal parenting responsibilities from
being on her ‘lists’ even! Very, very sad for Ela. Even the grandparents never take Ela anywhere! It’s all indoors & ipad only.
What lies she tells… I’ve read lots of great reviews for Land of Legends… Just say you’re stingy and don’t want to go BEGDA
 
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Yeah people responded to that comment of hers and said they had a great time at Land of Legends. She’s full of s. Literally and figuratively speaking.
Imagine slagging off a tourist attraction without even visiting it cos you randomly read somewhere ‘it’s not great’. Her followers listen/absorb every word of hers so she should be more careful what she says.
 

peachy

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Let’s face it, this holiday is only for 2 things and that’s to eat and drink alcohol all day long. And that’s fine if it were just her and her husband but they’ve got a young child with them and she’s missing a chunk of school for nothing.
It makes you wonder how different Ela would be today as a 7 year old, had she had different parents. Responsible parents who put Ela first as their priority and they’d have been teaching her life skills & encouraging & supporting her in an education. She’d be a well adjusted 7 year old, cutting up her own food, confident to sleep in her own bed in her own room, carrying out hygienic eating habits, able to wash herself, no toddler behaviour or baby type speech, opening up crisp packets, eating crusts on her sandwiches, further on in her education, going to bed at an age appropriate bed time (so not sleepy every day!) and not feeling to compliment her mummy so much or be needy of her ..which is all signs of an attention starved child. Those are just a few things that would be different about Ela, had she been born to a different set of parents - good, responsible parents. Overall she’d have been a very well adjusted, happy, confident 7 year old girl. Sad that she’s been deprived of what she’s needed to be that person.

AND THE BIGGEST THING OF ALL, IF ELA HAD DIFFERENT PARENTS….Ela would not have been exploited on TikTok for her mother to make money. The dark web would not have had access to upload videos of Ela to use. She’d have been protected from that happening.
 
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So these holidays are justified by talking everyone Ela is making mEMoRIes… what memories.. going to the pool and eating at the all inclusive without venturing out or doing anything.. she is so stupid and is neglecting that child
 

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Imagine slagging off a tourist attraction without even visiting it cos you randomly read somewhere ‘it’s not great’. Her followers listen/absorb every word of hers so she should be more careful what she says.
She’s a cheap bint who just doesn’t want to pay for it. You can tell how cheap she is by the fact she was yelling about sedation paying the mortgage out of his £2K like if you’re bringing in so much why don’t you contribute to it you cheap skint. Perhaps spend less money on your booze and takeaways and your mom and sister and spend it doing educational activities with your child