I don’t know anything about kids with additional needs so I do try to stay out of it. But is it odd for her to say he stays mum when he’s sad, angry or frustrated. That he associates her with those emotions?The school will pick up on stuff she thinks she’s got covered. Fresh eyes will see that Max is frustrated & angry & if they come across Vavs videos that will raise red flags. It’s only a matter of time before she slips up