Stephanie Vavron @stephanievavron

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Disability payments for children in Scotland are not means tested and it's for your child so nobody else's business. My oldest has ADHD and youngest is getting tested for Autism and I've only recently found out we were entitled to these benefits as we both work full time. It's not means tested and do you know what I pay taxes and this is to make life easier for my children so bloody right I'll take it! I get my tan done weekly, eyelashes and nails fornightly so I must be Satan 🤣🤣🤣 Your problem Chelsea is you aren't sleekit, manipulative and from what I've seen not a liar! Going up against those who are is almost impossible but every 🐕 has its day eventually! Her followers will dwindle over time, and they are not real friendships in any way, shape or form x
 

Aitkens Rowie

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See the thing is, I’m highly embarrassed I was associated with Steph. Do you honestly think I would have proceeded to visit 10 Downing Street, Westminster and advocate for so many ASN children and other charity’s behind the scenes? That would have looked really good wouldn’t it, cutting about with an alleged charity thief.

The best thing Steph could have done for me was point me to tattle because it was an extreme wake up call. I can hold my hands up and say yes I was an idiot for befriending her but where my heart lay was with M.

We suffered a horrendous loss back in 2019 when I was pregnant with A and it haunts us everyday. So there is a reason to why I kept getting sucked back in when she would speak about M. And she knows this. I wasn’t running about Aberdeenshire doing any dirty work for anyone. That’s her moderators jobs.

I tried to keep her name clean in the ASN community because I did feel taken in and sorry for her. I had never had close female friends until ASN reform started.

All of us women have been left deeply impacted by the lies and manipulation we all suffered. I still to this day question what is and isn’t reality.

I’m not a bad person, and I’m certainly not pleading poverty on TikTok. I would never ask anyone for anything. So please could someone go over to tattle and correct the user Lyndsay55 that nobody said “Who told Chelsea Steph said she couldn’t afford to shop in m&s”

If they paid attention they would see I was referencing that she’s been running her mouth about me having surgery abroad because I couldn’t afford the UK prices. I was made aware the other day and I made a video to address it. I’ve also been made aware of what she’s said about my marriage.

So just to clear it up, I’m not interested in being a “TikToker”, I’m not interested in any clout and I’m ashamed I ever sat at a table with her. If I was going to be using someone for clout believe me it would be someone with at least some level of integrity.
You are not alone in being suckered in by Steph, I’d say most of us on CC who knew her didn’t notice she was such a vile person until much later. As they say hindsight is a wonderful thing. Those of us who knew her from years ago most likely viewed her as young and naive until the real Steph showed up. The vile, lying, jealous and vindictive Steph. As much as I commend Tattle for calling out Steph, the comments about you were uncalled for, most don’t know her and those that do have done nothing when they have seen her in the wild, no confrontation, not even a photo. So glass houses and all that. Sorry I’m not on Tattle so can’t say anything. Do not be silenced by that despicable woman xxx
 
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See the thing is, I’m highly embarrassed I was associated with Steph. Do you honestly think I would have proceeded to visit 10 Downing Street, Westminster and advocate for so many ASN children and other charity’s behind the scenes? That would have looked really good wouldn’t it, cutting about with an alleged charity thief.

The best thing Steph could have done for me was point me to tattle because it was an extreme wake up call. I can hold my hands up and say yes I was an idiot for befriending her but where my heart lay was with M.

We suffered a horrendous loss back in 2019 when I was pregnant with A and it haunts us everyday. So there is a reason to why I kept getting sucked back in when she would speak about M. And she knows this. I wasn’t running about Aberdeenshire doing any dirty work for anyone. That’s her moderators jobs.

I tried to keep her name clean in the ASN community because I did feel taken in and sorry for her. I had never had close female friends until ASN reform started.

All of us women have been left deeply impacted by the lies and manipulation we all suffered. I still to this day question what is and isn’t reality.

I’m not a bad person, and I’m certainly not pleading poverty on TikTok. I would never ask anyone for anything. So please could someone go over to tattle and correct the user Lyndsay55 that nobody said “Who told Chelsea Steph said she couldn’t afford to shop in m&s”

If they paid attention they would see I was referencing that she’s been running her mouth about me having surgery abroad because I couldn’t afford the UK prices. I was made aware the other day and I made a video to address it. I’ve also been made aware of what she’s said about my marriage.

So just to clear it up, I’m not interested in being a “TikToker”, I’m not interested in any clout and I’m ashamed I ever sat at a table with her. If I was going to be using someone for clout believe me it would be someone with at least some level of integrity.
Hi lovely ❤️

I’ve said to you in DM before, I’m sorry you’ve experienced what you have.
A narc and their bite marks are hard to shake off, but you will.

Sounds like she knew your weak spot and abused it. Text book narc.

You write extremely well, and you manage to get down your thoughts and feelings really well, too.

I got your M&S reference but also your post wasn’t about that, it was just a buffer for getting your point across. Discussing another woman’s finances it’s atrocious.
It’s ok for Steph to tell her followers she couldn’t afford food for her children, but it’s crass not to be able to afford surgery.
Not being able to provide food for your children is failure as a parent.
Not being able to pay for elective surgery, is not. I really don’t think she, well…. thinks.

She has about two brain cells left, and they fight each other for second place.

Chin up doll ❤️
 

fashionma

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I am actually really disappointed with some on tattle the ones who don’t know 🐄 and many people have been taken in for years, Chelsea lives miles away from 🐄 she isn’t local to Aberdeen so probably wasn’t aware of anything,as Chelsea has stated a lot of the Sen girls were taken in by her she used them all to get her blue tick, the whole m & s thing was used as an example and the point was totally missed, keep speaking you’re truth Chelsea and for the people on tattle yes you have your opinion but very uncalled for to make assumptions and question Chelsea integrity.
 

cwumpetfin

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I’m just going to leave this here.

Being a victim of a narcissistic friendship has took its toll on me. I can’t comment on tattle so I’ve created an account to leave this here.

It’s took a lot for me to speak out and there’s many things that have affected me with Steph, I barely have scratched the surface.

The comments about me on tattle this morning are downright disgusting. I do not receive Dla for my son. My tan & eyelashes I do myself and my nails are done every 4 weeks. I havnt had lip filler since 2019.

My point about M&S was I find it unrelable creators that do weekly hauls there I never actually said specifically Steph.

I was bullied when I first spoke out and it took alot for me to find my voice again. If you really all have been affected by Steph then you will all understand that.

And as for Chelsea being cancelled? I don’t have a platform nor the want to have a platform so there is nothing to cancel.

It’s my TikTok and if I want to share my experience I will.
Keep Talking Girl, you are playing a blinder speaking your truth.
 

Allthegossip

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I’m just going to leave this here.

Being a victim of a narcissistic friendship has took its toll on me. I can’t comment on tattle so I’ve created an account to leave this here.

It’s took a lot for me to speak out and there’s many things that have affected me with Steph, I barely have scratched the surface.

The comments about me on tattle this morning are downright disgusting. I do not receive Dla for my son. My tan & eyelashes I do myself and my nails are done every 4 weeks. I havnt had lip filler since 2019.

My point about M&S was I find it unrelable creators that do weekly hauls there I never actually said specifically Steph.

I was bullied when I first spoke out and it took alot for me to find my voice again. If you really all have been affected by Steph then you will all understand that.

And as for Chelsea being cancelled? I don’t have a platform nor the want to have a platform so there is nothing to cancel.

It’s my TikTok and if I want to share my experience I will.
Chelsea if your child is entitled to DLA (which I would think they are) then definitely apply! It's such a big help as it does get expensive with a SEN/ASN child and it's no one else's business. I can guarantee that big Vav gets it but it's not means tested so she can and it is for the child. Who cares if you get your nails done now and again it's bloody hard work being a mum! Why can't we mums treat ourselves now and again! Not you though Vav you treat yourself every bloody day 🙄 and no one cares about your tits boring 🥱