Stephanie Vavron @stephanievavron

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What a cop out for lazying parenting you would be saying that when he is a teenager or a grown adult and he is punching you she clearly thinks that not telling him off is bad hair because he has autism she really doesn’t have a clue, I bet his support worker at school doesn’t let him hit her.
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Pretty sure at school he would be told "gentle/kind hands" probably upset because that little rectangle electronic device has all her attention AGAIN!
 

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Anyone follow that Cash Mum
He's 12 or 13 autistic in USA but very tall always hitting his mum. Vav that's your future if you don't wise up and that's coming a single mum who has a send teenager and worked incredibly to help him regulate his moods etc. Max reminds me of my son when he was that age but I never left him alone. Did all the courses that were offered. He still has his moments but is generally a lovely happy boy with impeccable manners which he corrects me when I forget 🤣
I really don't understand her, in earlier videos she posted M learning to use cutlery and pouring milk for his own breakfast. But he can't learn Makaton or to not hit? She is an absolute abomination! Once again using her child for validation on the internet. You are not a great parent for filming your sons "stims". He is constantly stimming be it vocally or physically. They stim to help manage excess energy, to self soothe, to try and communicate emotions or for sensory input. Meanwhile you sit and eyefuck yourself in a phone and do not help or try to understand your own childs needs all for some views on social media. You're an absolute disgrace benefitty titties!!
 

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I couldn’t agree more. There is no argument about him having autism. But that doesn’t mean he can’t learn.and it doesn’t mean she has to let him hit her.
She has a cup ( coffee I guess) so this isn’t safe for him to be smacking her head.
But as the school will be teaching him a no hitting rule.she is infact undermining what they are teaching him .by allowing him to hit.
This may also be his way of saying get that bloody phone away .
Whatever the reason is I would err on the side of he’s trying to communicate. So figure out what he is wanting to say vagasil.
But I think what she really wants is for the huns to fawn over her parenting and praise her for her endless patience.isnt she such a good mum .so patient with M.
No she is failing to teach him .
Not being rude, he's not an animal, but you can train an animal to do stuff... its all body language and being consistent with boundaries & Prompts. She's lazy and expects school to teach him everything & they will for school environment. Kids learn very quickly ,autistic or not , what environment they can get away with bad behaviour. Saw it all the time
 

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That weigh loss from troll stress works differently for her (of course it does 🙄) her appetite for large portions of processed food and takeaways is not affected at all. Same for how not looking like a very unwell mummy. Great message to send her followers no calorie deficit or exercise required (or filters) and you too can lose weight. I’m astounded, I’ve been doing it wrong for the last 4 months, those healthy eating experts should listen to Steph
 

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Halloween doesn't have to be going out or dressing up. There are so many activities to enjoy together at home, like many you have mentioned too. She really can't be bothered trying to help M. Just leaves him to wander about PIP mansion stimming away by himself. Even that video she posted in his room, pretending to interact with him, she looked bored!
Narcissists don’t play with their children. Fact. No love inside so no love for others, it’s all a fake act. They are there just as a supply for her toxic behaviour and to carry it on. Fortunately it will end with max but Lily will be able to carry on the torch for the old hags, but can only hope she will want independence and get away before her mum realises this and she’s thrown out with the trash like anyone else who dares question her!
 

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Pretty sure at school he would be told "gentle/kind hands" probably upset because that little rectangle electronic device has all her attention AGAIN!
He won’t do it with his dad either because his phone won’t be glued to his face the whole time when he’s spending time with him. He’s just acting out how he feels towards her, he must think she’s a t too 😅
Poor little guy can’t verbalise it and it’s usually due to being stressed or not understanding what’s going on or their needs not being met. She’s a freak, most parents would be in tune with their children and pick up on the subtle cues they give off. He is hitting her - that is not a stim, it is an aggressive behaviour that develops from stimming probably because he is frustrated! To think that this waste of breath thought she would film that moment instead of dealing with the situation and re-directing max’s behaviour says all I need to know about her as a mother
 

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He won’t do it with his dad either because his phone won’t be glued to his face the whole time when he’s spending time with him. He’s just acting out how he feels towards her, he must think she’s a t too 😅
Poor little guy can’t verbalise it and it’s usually due to being stressed or not understanding what’s going on or their needs not being met. She’s a freak, most parents would be in tune with their children and pick up on the subtle cues they give off. He is hitting her - that is not a stim, it is an aggressive behaviour that develops from stimming probably because he is frustrated! To think that this waste of breath thought she would film that moment instead of dealing with the situation and re-directing max’s behaviour says all I need to know about her as a mother
It really does say a lot about her, it's the same when you can hear him in the background and she just carries on with her sty videos ignoring him. Why can't she make her "content" while he is at school? And be a mother/parent while he is actually there?

And benefitty titties when you read this...stick your "you only see a small 3 minute video of my life" bullshit right up your non size 10 filtered arse!! I couldn't care if it was a 15 second or 15 minute long video, your ASN child is left to his own devices while you talk absolute crap into your phone! There is no excuse for your behaviour, you do not bring any awareness for Autism while exploiting your child for your own selfish, narcissistic validation from strangers!!
 

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Not being rude, he's not an animal, but you can train an animal to do stuff... its all body language and being consistent with boundaries & Prompts. She's lazy and expects school to teach him everything & they will for school environment. Kids learn very quickly ,autistic or not , what environment they can get away with bad behaviour. Saw it all the time
Consistently is the absolute key. The two places where he spends most of his time have to work together. They have to mirror each other so they don’t confuse the child.so school and home. And that includes his fathers home.
But in vagasils case this would involve the grandparents and nana as they are also caregivers.they all need to be singing from the same hymn book.
It’s not rocket science ,but it does take effort.
And they need to get on board now if that beautiful little boy has any chance of living any kind of independent life as a young adult.( however that looks for M. It might be assisted living )give the lad a chance to show what he’s capable of and not what their idea of what he is capable of.
 

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Bet she’s dying inside that cat piss has got 7k likes on her dish up dinner video and she’s pushing a measily 1k and her videos been up double the time. Admitting that her son is watching other children play on YouTube is just a whole other level of sad. He doesn’t have a voice and he has that as a mother, someone who sticks an iPad in his face and lets him wander around the house eating shoes. Why doesn’t she go anywhere with him or take him anywhere? That could be his way of telling her that’s what he wants to do, that thought has completely buckled me 😔 shame for the wee man. An advocate for autism, she’s a complete phoney