That video actually made me so sad watching. To me it looked like he pointed at the calendar and then she put her arm around him as if to say kiss first, then calendar. Like you would make a dog give you a paw before getting a treat
He doesn't fully understand or enjoy Christmas? To me Christmas is all about my children and yes family, but children first always. I usually have my mum, step dad and older brother to me for Christmas Dinner, make my son his safe foods and he can join us at the table or sit in living room. He can spend whole day in his room if he so chooses. The month of December is a busy, chaotic month even little things changing at school, extra visitors popping round. So this year I'm not hosting for a few reasons. My kids don't eat Christmas Dinner so I'm looking forward to a relaxed day, where I can enjoy the day with them and not be stressed in the kitchen. I love cooking but I'm a stress head in the kitchen. Anyway sorry went way off track there. She's hosting for 17 people did she say? That doesn't sound to me like a Christmas putting M first and well her wanting that insta perfect Christmas, I can see why he doesn't enjoy it.