Stephanie Vavron @stephanievavron

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That's the thing though. Would go as far as saying majority of parents and carers would be aware of the future, and by starting their child with the basics of makaton and using age appropriate learning techniques, preparing their child for nursery, and school. Obviously depends on each child and individual needs, but there is no reason why Max wouldn't be able to live with support in the future. She can't be writing him off, when she hasn't given him the chance.
And to put that pressure on Lily is terrible
I know it is awful the way she is. I remember the videos of him learning to pour the milk on his cereal, using cutlery by himself on my fyp way before I stumbled upon here. Now everything about that poor boy gets written off so easily. He can't do this, he won't be able to do that. She is too interested in eye fing herself in that phone to be bothered to help him. Tries things once and if it isn't an instant result or success it's dismissed as quick as her ugly tracksuits were. Consistency is key. I live close to a Supported Accomodation unit and I see a girl, well woman now that use to attend the summer respite thing I volunteered at as a teenager. I wasn't sure she would remember me but she did and it just made my heart full of joy seeing her living as independently as she can now. She's got a better social life than me too that's for sure 😂 always going out and it's wonderful to see.
 

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That's the thing, she will never try to take him. What's the harm in taking him and if he doesn't like it you leave, is that not what anyone else would do in that situation??
💯 took the kids to Christmas crafty thing. Oldest started to shut down and I could see he was heading for sensory overload because it was busy and a lot of noisy younger children. Asked him if he wanted to leave and he did so I took him back over to my mums house to sit with his papa while the girls enjoyed themselves. First time we went to Dundee Science Centre he absolutely hated it. Took him back this year for a Halloween event and he really enjoyed it.
He is verbal so I can ask him why he didn't enjoy something and look for ways we can try and make things more enjoyable for him. But she doesn't even try, he won't like this , he won't like that.
 

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Exactly it goes right back to all kids being babies, it takes between 20-30 times of a new flavour for them to know if they like it or not, there is foods now that my lot liked that they don’t now and vice versa…. You need to keep trying but especially with a holiday that only comes round once a year. Even as an adult I’ll give something a few times to give it a chance unless it’s a certain no 🤷🏻‍♀️ she’s an idiot
Exactly or at least try something different. I know Edinburgh and Glasgow at this time of year would be too much for my son. We've attended Perth Christmas Light switch on instead some years or more local smaller events. If it is overly busy and too much we leave early.
 
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Exactly or at least try something different. I know Edinburgh and Glasgow at this time of year would be too much for my son. We've attended Perth Christmas Light switch on instead some years or more local smaller events. If it is overly busy and too much we leave early.
That would be putting her out though 🤮🤬 she’s a horrible human
 

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She's had like 2 extra hours sleep and acting like she's had a day's sleep and caught up. She just likes to complain about max and early starts otherwise she wouldn't be up this early when he's not there. Her content is complaining about being tired and her child.
She was manic this morning in that video, we all know it’s because M isn’t there. She’s not good at hiding that she loves when he’s not there , poor wee tot should be with his dad full time then you’d see how much he actually comes on 😢
 

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Aren’t we lils will move out, get married and have kids but M will be her priority 🤦🏻‍♀️ I’m sorry but none of us know what’s ahead of us, what if aren’t we lils has a kid who needs extra support 🤷🏻‍♀️ what about the needs of her own family. Why not start trying to help M make a sandwich just now, she’s totally writing him off

She never said that on a live did she?? No no no🙈🙈🙈I know a woman and her middle daughter is very complex needs and I mean very. She has never ever said about her oldest daughter or her son to look after her when she is no longer here. Blows my mind why she would even put that on L at this age
 
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THIS IS IN BIG LETTERS SO VAV CAN READ

YOU ARE SCUM OF THE EARTH !

YOUR NEVER PRESENT IN M LIFE YOUR NEVER CONSISTANT

YOU NEVER TAKE OPPORTUNITIES TO LEARN MAKATON OR ANYTHING THAT WOULD HELP HIM/YOU COMMUNICATE MORE

YOUR NEVER SEEN WITH HIM BUT GLADLY SEEN OUT WITH L (make it make sense)

YOU ARE EMBARRASSED BY YOUR SON IN EVERYTHING THAT HE DOES (your filth)YOU CAN SEE IN YOUR BODY LANGUAGE HE GRATES ON YOU

ATLEAST HE HAS A GREAT PARENT IN PETR WHO ACTUALLY TAKES HIM PLACES AND ENGAGES WITH THE BOY

YOU MS ROBERTSON ARE A s BIRTH GIVER!! YOUVE WROTE MAX OFF SINCE HIS BIRTH YOU KNOW SOMETHING I HOPE HE FLOURISHES IN EVERY WAY POSSIBLE AND WHEN HES AN ADULT CAN FUNCTION ON HIS OWN

ANOTHER THING WHEN MAX REACHES ADULTHOOD BELIEVE IT OR NOT HELL HAVE A TEAM TO DETERMINE WHATS BEST FOR HIM NOT SOLEY BASED ON WHAT YOU THINK

HOW ANY OF YOUR DELUDED HUNS CANT SEE THROUGH YOU IS UNREAL BUT THEYLL PROBS HAVE THE SAME BRAIN CELLS AS YOU!!!

ALSO REMEMBER TO ATLEAST TRY TEACH YOUR DAUGHTER BASIC MANNERS COME MARCH SHELL BE CLASSED AS AN ADULT AND WILL MORE THAN DEFINETLY GET A TANKING FOR HER AWFUL MOUTH

ONE MORE THING IF YOU THINK FOR ONE MINUTE LILY WILL BE MAX SOLE CARER THINK AGAIN NO SIBLING SHOULD BE MADE TO FEEL WHEN THIER OLDER THEY WILL BE TAKING CARE OF THEIR BROTHER do YOU!!!! AS MUCH AS I DONT LIKE LILY THE BRAT SHE DESERVES A LIFE WITHOUT BEING TOLD SHELL BE MAX CARER 🤬🤬🤬
 
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THIS IS IN BIG LETTERS SO VAV CAN READ

YOU ARE SCUM OF THE EARTH !

YOUR NEVER PRESENT IN M LIFE YOUR NEVER CONSISTANT

YOU NEVER TAKE OPPORTUNITIES TO LEARN MAKATON OR ANYTHING THAT WOULD HELP HIM/YOU COMMUNICATE MORE

YOUR NEVER SEEN WITH HIM BUT GLADLY SEEN OUT WITH L (make it make sense)

YOU ARE EMBARRASSED BY YOUR SON IN EVERYTHING THAT HE DOES (your filth)

ATLEAST HE HAS A GREAT PARENT IN PETR WHO ACTUALLY TAKES HIM PLACES AND ENGAGES WIRH THE BOY

YOU MS ROBERTSON ARE A s BIRTH GIVER!! YOUVE WROTE MAX OFF SINCE HIS BIRTH YOU LNOW SOMETHIJG I HOPE HE FLOURISHED IN EVERY WAY POSSIBLE AND WHEN HES AN ADULT CAN FUNCTION ON HIS OWN

ANOTHER THING WHEN MAX REACHES ADULTHOOD BELIEVE IT OR NOT HELL HAVE A TEAM TO DETERMINE WHATS BEST FOR HIM NOT SOLEY BASED ON WHAT YOU THINK
👏 📢 Shout it a bit louder for the deluded hunz too!!
I commented on that Verri Bogeys video earlier, just informing her of some facts that came straight from Vavs mouth and also giving advice to another commenter on where she could get help. Absolute weapon going on in a different comment "they only read and see what they want to see". Ignored my comments regarding what Beefy had actually said in her videos but agreed with the one where I offered the person advice where to reach out for help.