It was when she said in that video about her "different" Christmas, if he gets overstimulated we remove him from that situation because it's just not worth it for us so yeah. They make him go elsewhere then! When normal to him is wandering around PIP mansion unsupervised. A normal Christmas at mine, I usually have my mum, stepdad and brother. These are people my son sees quite regularly. He won't eat Christmas main dinner, he will come through and have starter, do crackers. I cook him something he will eat, he struggles sitting with others eating so he has a choice to join us (with a device if he wants) or to eat alone. He is 13 and can make these decisions himself, he is learning more and more about what triggers him ie cutlery off plates, too many strong smells, his sisters noisy eating. He can tell me what is frustrating him however he can't always stop the reaction he has to all these things. As Vav has stated herself to M it's just a normal day.....no it isn't!! All this extra noise, smells, people. The different things in his home ie presents. The way she worded it in that video really makes it seem like they remove m from the situation not for his own good but so he doesn't "spoil" their day!!