I want to say something and many may not agree and that’s ok, but I’ve been thinking.
I’m guilty of doing this, I’ll hold my hands up to this, but we are calling her fat etc I get it is because she filters herself massively and that’s not acceptable she should just own her size. But, the lines are getting blurred because when we see a glimpse of what may be her true size, we call her names like fat? Does that make sense?
I feel we are better than to degrade ourselves to that level, I feel we are a good community on here, so going forward I won’t be taking part in that anymore I know I have previously before anyone labels me a hypocrite.
We are saying she shouldn’t filter but then names like that encourage her to filter?
You know what I’m like overthink
I agree with you and hold my hands up too to liking comments sometimes that take the piss out of her size and that is wrong of me.
I think the same as you and that we all come in all shapes and sizes and we all beautiful whatever number is on our label.
I will do the same going forward and not engage in messages labelling her fat.