@jaggyjowls why not stop making your social media all about this site, posting stories making out you are a constant victim, when actually you seek it out - I'm trying to think of a way to reword that without sounding like I'm "attacking" you. But honestly I can't.
Just you do you.
Paul knocked you back thats it.
He isn't harassing you by being on here, he came to see what it was about , then started fighting back when you called him. I think that's fair game. Haven't you yourself said its only fair you get a say when someone says things about you?
I don't care if you do OF. But if people were saying things about my parenting that they are saying about you I'd have to re-evaluate.
What is the most important thing in the world to you? Hopefully your kids. So focus on them!
Social media isn't real life!