Oh I get that. 1000%. But love doesn’t excuse the blatant ripple effect her behaviours had on the children. I know it’s probably very easy for us to say, but if I thought my hubbys behaviour was effecting our kids, love or not, I’d have to take them and go. No one is worth the constant SS reports due to their behaviour. No one is worth having men who you don’t even know the name of around the kids. No one is worth the fact she hinted this man was a sex offender being around those kids. Her basic skills to safe guard those kids are severely lacking and I’m not sure how much I loved someone, if I could sit and excuse that.Because he still loves her, as hard as that is for most of us to understand, love makes you blind. She has conditioned him to thinking he won't get anyone else, sorry bullied him