Actually, my 15 year old has severe adhd and hee also has asd and he's even better at managing his money if we tell him what to do. If Lou was off the drugs, she might have a chance of someone offering advice but I think she has burned her bridges with everyone. How is she paying her bills in her new house?Your right. Every time one of them gets paid they blow it on crap straight away. Then when they've got no money the end up in cash converters and begging online