Give up your job/kids/self respect, get on the gear and you will have alll the time in the world to keep up with them
#lifelessonswithlou
Lou @Lifewithloux
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I appreciate that, I didn't want to look like I'm after any praise. I'm just sick of Lou and Stes lying and Bullshit.
Saying they're about to lose everything, they have lost everything.
Also just to add. I never asked for help or begged my parents, friends or strangers for help. I ate the bare minimum when on drugs.
Once clean, I found a house to rent and gradually furnished it myself. I went back to work part time and built up mine and my sons life. I'd never expect anyone to do anything for me and it was my responsibility. Lou thinks the world owes her a favour and she uses MH and trying to get sympathy for handouts.
What's the point in having a kitted out home without your kids
I'll second that!I can confirm we don’t all sound like that
So the drugs test she took a few weeks back how did she pass that.
Probably only passed for class A
Hate?! Absolutely not. That’s an absolutely fing amazing turnaround!! You are one of the voices that she should listen to, but she won’t. Some people just do not want to be helped. I’m not being condescending when i say this, not one bit, you should be so so proud of all that you did for your child. Smashed it x*hoping I don't regret posting this*
I missed the lives but caught up on Noysogreys (God's work BTW, thank you, hope doggie is ok) and I have to vent somewhere so apologies.
For starters, I'm not the least bit surprised that she's been caught and also that's she's not clean. I have been on her lives and been supportive when she appears to be doing better, but I'm no fool and never fell for her stories. People might think I'm a kiss arse, but I'm far from it and you can't kid a kidder.
I've tried to help Lous over the years & offer help and support via DM. Because unlike those fing idiots on her lives, I do know what addiction is and how hard it is, yet she'll listen to those tossers rather than someone with experience. ITS ALL FOR THE SYMPATHY!
So here's where I could get hate by you nasty twolls
17 years ago, I lost my daughter, she died when she was 2 (not going into details, but her life was hard) after this I fell into the wrong crowds and I ended up addicted to heroin, crack, zopiclone, valium and tamezepam. No excuse for taking drugs, i hold my hands up. Whilst someone offered them to me and said they'd make me feel better, I ACCEPT FULLY THAT I MADE THE STUPID CHOICE TO USE. NO ONE FORCED ME, NO ONE PINNED ME DOWN.
My addiction naturally got worse, needing more and more to find that buzz or hit. KEEP IN MIND, I WAS STILL WORKING AT THE TIME, NO SPONGING FROM THE GOVERNMENT OR COMMITTING CRIMES. But eventually money was getting tight due to spending on drugs and I lost my flat. I ended up sofa surfing and a mate gave me a room in a flat. Waking up every morning feeling sick, awful gut pains, body aching and sick of being at rock bottom, I'd had enough. I wanted to change so went to the drug clinic & my doctors.
I was put on subutex first and they didn't work for me, I fed up and used again. However, I wanted to change so went to Dr again and was put on methadone, now I was only on 50ml, yet I had quite the addiction, so it makes me wonder just how much Lou was using to be on 100ml.
I'd been on methadone for about 3 months and found out I was pregnant. Now I knew nothing would let me harm a child, I asked my doctor to start reducing my methadone, they agreed. Started dropping 5ml at a time. Because of my drug past, social services were involved and it was horrible. But I was going to do all I could for my baby.
I had hair strand tests, counselling and even a psych evaluation. I did regular drug tests and I got results each time. I had to jump through hoops but did what was necessary. Unlike Lou, my child was all that mattered. In the end I actually cut myself off methadone and was proud as punch when I handed back over 200ml to my doc (I was on weekly methodone pick up as I was working)
Very long story short (sorry) social services stayed in contact for about a year, baby was healthy and not addicted to any substances. I still had to prove myself, attend counselling and take drug tests. I even rejected pain relief whilst in and after labour because I didn't want anything bad in my system.
LOU SAYS ITS HER MENTAL HEALTH AND THATS WHY SHE REPLAPSED, IF SHE WENT TO THE DOCTOR AND WAS HONEST THEY WOULD HELP.
HER KIDS DONT MEAN EVERYTHING TO HER BECAUSE SHE WONT FIGHT FOR THEM YET SHE'LL FIGHT TO STAY ON TIK TOK
THE TROLLS EXCUSE IS BOLLOCKS, EITHER REMOVE YOURSELF OR PROVE YOURSELF. IF ANYTHING IT SHOULD MOTIVATE HER, SOFT APPROACH DOESNT WORK.
STE IS A LARGE PART OF THE PROBLEM BUT NOT FULLY, SHE NEEDS TO LEAVE HIM, NOT RELY ON HIM AND KEEP AWAY FROM ANYONE DOING DRUGS.
LASTLY SHE NEEDS TO TAKE ACCOUNTABILITY, STOP LYING, STOP BEGGING, STOP BLAMING EVERYONE ELSE AND GROW THE do UP!
SHE WONT CHANGE UNTIL SHE WANTS TO AND CLEARLY SHE DOESNT
I've been clean almost 16 years, no pills, no alcohol, nothing. Never felt the urge to relapse because every time I look at my child, I know I'd never want to hurt him. I hate when she's crying saying it's not fair, I want to see my kids. If that were true she'd get off her backside and do something about it.
SORRY, LONG POST, BUT ITS PISSED ME OFF PLAYING MH CARD AND BLAMING EVERYONE ELSE, PLUS HAVING PEOPLE FEELING SORRY FOR HER AND BELIEVING THE LIES.
Welcome, take a chair*hoping I don't regret posting this*
I missed the lives but caught up on Noysogreys (God's work BTW, thank you, hope doggie is ok) and I have to vent somewhere so apologies.
For starters, I'm not the least bit surprised that she's been caught and also that's she's not clean. I have been on her lives and been supportive when she appears to be doing better, but I'm no fool and never fell for her stories. People might think I'm a kiss arse, but I'm far from it and you can't kid a kidder.
I've tried to help Lous over the years & offer help and support via DM. Because unlike those fing idiots on her lives, I do know what addiction is and how hard it is, yet she'll listen to those tossers rather than someone with experience. ITS ALL FOR THE SYMPATHY!
So here's where I could get hate by you nasty twolls
17 years ago, I lost my daughter, she died when she was 2 (not going into details, but her life was hard) after this I fell into the wrong crowds and I ended up addicted to heroin, crack, zopiclone, valium and tamezepam. No excuse for taking drugs, i hold my hands up. Whilst someone offered them to me and said they'd make me feel better, I ACCEPT FULLY THAT I MADE THE STUPID CHOICE TO USE. NO ONE FORCED ME, NO ONE PINNED ME DOWN.
My addiction naturally got worse, needing more and more to find that buzz or hit. KEEP IN MIND, I WAS STILL WORKING AT THE TIME, NO SPONGING FROM THE GOVERNMENT OR COMMITTING CRIMES. But eventually money was getting tight due to spending on drugs and I lost my flat. I ended up sofa surfing and a mate gave me a room in a flat. Waking up every morning feeling sick, awful gut pains, body aching and sick of being at rock bottom, I'd had enough. I wanted to change so went to the drug clinic & my doctors.
I was put on subutex first and they didn't work for me, I fed up and used again. However, I wanted to change so went to Dr again and was put on methadone, now I was only on 50ml, yet I had quite the addiction, so it makes me wonder just how much Lou was using to be on 100ml.
I'd been on methadone for about 3 months and found out I was pregnant. Now I knew nothing would let me harm a child, I asked my doctor to start reducing my methadone, they agreed. Started dropping 5ml at a time. Because of my drug past, social services were involved and it was horrible. But I was going to do all I could for my baby.
I had hair strand tests, counselling and even a psych evaluation. I did regular drug tests and I got results each time. I had to jump through hoops but did what was necessary. Unlike Lou, my child was all that mattered. In the end I actually cut myself off methadone and was proud as punch when I handed back over 200ml to my doc (I was on weekly methodone pick up as I was working)
Very long story short (sorry) social services stayed in contact for about a year, baby was healthy and not addicted to any substances. I still had to prove myself, attend counselling and take drug tests. I even rejected pain relief whilst in and after labour because I didn't want anything bad in my system.
LOU SAYS ITS HER MENTAL HEALTH AND THATS WHY SHE REPLAPSED, IF SHE WENT TO THE DOCTOR AND WAS HONEST THEY WOULD HELP.
HER KIDS DONT MEAN EVERYTHING TO HER BECAUSE SHE WONT FIGHT FOR THEM YET SHE'LL FIGHT TO STAY ON TIK TOK
THE TROLLS EXCUSE IS BOLLOCKS, EITHER REMOVE YOURSELF OR PROVE YOURSELF. IF ANYTHING IT SHOULD MOTIVATE HER, SOFT APPROACH DOESNT WORK.
STE IS A LARGE PART OF THE PROBLEM BUT NOT FULLY, SHE NEEDS TO LEAVE HIM, NOT RELY ON HIM AND KEEP AWAY FROM ANYONE DOING DRUGS.
LASTLY SHE NEEDS TO TAKE ACCOUNTABILITY, STOP LYING, STOP BEGGING, STOP BLAMING EVERYONE ELSE AND GROW THE do UP!
SHE WONT CHANGE UNTIL SHE WANTS TO AND CLEARLY SHE DOESNT
I've been clean almost 16 years, no pills, no alcohol, nothing. Never felt the urge to relapse because every time I look at my child, I know I'd never want to hurt him. I hate when she's crying saying it's not fair, I want to see my kids. If that were true she'd get off her backside and do something about it.
SORRY, LONG POST, BUT ITS PISSED ME OFF PLAYING MH CARD AND BLAMING EVERYONE ELSE, PLUS HAVING PEOPLE FEELING SORRY FOR HER AND BELIEVING THE LIES.
I don't know how she'd pass it. Maybe it's changed since I did them, but they tested me for absolutely everything. Weed, pills and everything in-between. They'd stand and watch you piss in the cup so you didn't swap it with anything.
I doubt she passed, if she had, she'd have shown the negative results. She shows everything else. I use to get print out of my results from my drug workers.
16 years clean is absolutely amazing*hoping I don't regret posting this*
I missed the lives but caught up on Noysogreys (God's work BTW, thank you, hope doggie is ok) and I have to vent somewhere so apologies.
For starters, I'm not the least bit surprised that she's been caught and also that's she's not clean. I have been on her lives and been supportive when she appears to be doing better, but I'm no fool and never fell for her stories. People might think I'm a kiss arse, but I'm far from it and you can't kid a kidder.
I've tried to help Lous over the years & offer help and support via DM. Because unlike those fing idiots on her lives, I do know what addiction is and how hard it is, yet she'll listen to those tossers rather than someone with experience. ITS ALL FOR THE SYMPATHY!
So here's where I could get hate by you nasty twolls
17 years ago, I lost my daughter, she died when she was 2 (not going into details, but her life was hard) after this I fell into the wrong crowds and I ended up addicted to heroin, crack, zopiclone, valium and tamezepam. No excuse for taking drugs, i hold my hands up. Whilst someone offered them to me and said they'd make me feel better, I ACCEPT FULLY THAT I MADE THE STUPID CHOICE TO USE. NO ONE FORCED ME, NO ONE PINNED ME DOWN.
My addiction naturally got worse, needing more and more to find that buzz or hit. KEEP IN MIND, I WAS STILL WORKING AT THE TIME, NO SPONGING FROM THE GOVERNMENT OR COMMITTING CRIMES. But eventually money was getting tight due to spending on drugs and I lost my flat. I ended up sofa surfing and a mate gave me a room in a flat. Waking up every morning feeling sick, awful gut pains, body aching and sick of being at rock bottom, I'd had enough. I wanted to change so went to the drug clinic & my doctors.
I was put on subutex first and they didn't work for me, I fed up and used again. However, I wanted to change so went to Dr again and was put on methadone, now I was only on 50ml, yet I had quite the addiction, so it makes me wonder just how much Lou was using to be on 100ml.
I'd been on methadone for about 3 months and found out I was pregnant. Now I knew nothing would let me harm a child, I asked my doctor to start reducing my methadone, they agreed. Started dropping 5ml at a time. Because of my drug past, social services were involved and it was horrible. But I was going to do all I could for my baby.
I had hair strand tests, counselling and even a psych evaluation. I did regular drug tests and I got results each time. I had to jump through hoops but did what was necessary. Unlike Lou, my child was all that mattered. In the end I actually cut myself off methadone and was proud as punch when I handed back over 200ml to my doc (I was on weekly methodone pick up as I was working)
Very long story short (sorry) social services stayed in contact for about a year, baby was healthy and not addicted to any substances. I still had to prove myself, attend counselling and take drug tests. I even rejected pain relief whilst in and after labour because I didn't want anything bad in my system.
LOU SAYS ITS HER MENTAL HEALTH AND THATS WHY SHE REPLAPSED, IF SHE WENT TO THE DOCTOR AND WAS HONEST THEY WOULD HELP.
HER KIDS DONT MEAN EVERYTHING TO HER BECAUSE SHE WONT FIGHT FOR THEM YET SHE'LL FIGHT TO STAY ON TIK TOK
THE TROLLS EXCUSE IS BOLLOCKS, EITHER REMOVE YOURSELF OR PROVE YOURSELF. IF ANYTHING IT SHOULD MOTIVATE HER, SOFT APPROACH DOESNT WORK.
STE IS A LARGE PART OF THE PROBLEM BUT NOT FULLY, SHE NEEDS TO LEAVE HIM, NOT RELY ON HIM AND KEEP AWAY FROM ANYONE DOING DRUGS.
LASTLY SHE NEEDS TO TAKE ACCOUNTABILITY, STOP LYING, STOP BEGGING, STOP BLAMING EVERYONE ELSE AND GROW THE do UP!
SHE WONT CHANGE UNTIL SHE WANTS TO AND CLEARLY SHE DOESNT
I've been clean almost 16 years, no pills, no alcohol, nothing. Never felt the urge to relapse because every time I look at my child, I know I'd never want to hurt him. I hate when she's crying saying it's not fair, I want to see my kids. If that were true she'd get off her backside and do something about it.
SORRY, LONG POST, BUT ITS PISSED ME OFF PLAYING MH CARD AND BLAMING EVERYONE ELSE, PLUS HAVING PEOPLE FEELING SORRY FOR HER AND BELIEVING THE LIES.
you should be so proud of yourself. We don’t hate Lou because of her habit, it’s because of her lies, lack of accountability and her ‘woe is me’ persona’
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Welcome to the troll gang 🧌🧌🧌
There’s not a single thing on this earth that would keep me away from my kidsGive up your job/kids/self respect, get on the gear and you will have alll the time in the world to keep up with them
#lifelessonswithlou
Might just have to do a kk and lock them in the garden with a bag of chocolate so I can catch some of the drama
They don't.
They test for
Methadone
Heroin
Buprenorphine
Morphine
Other opiates (misc)
Cocaine/crack (test doesn't know the difference)
Cannabis
Amphetamine
Benzodiazepines
That's it
How did she pass it when she smokes weed regularly
Thank you.
I've wanted to post for a while, but kept debating it. Keeping personal life personal and all that.
I've tried numerous times over the years and it falls on deaf ears. She doesn't want advice, she wants handouts, money and useless stuff for herself.
No, she doesn't want the help, but I'm not sure what she does want, not like she's getting much from acting a dick online.
Thank you, he is hero and my entire world. Nothing would take him away from me x
You don't have to pass it.
It makes no difference whether or not you pass it really.
The only thing you have to gain by consistently passing is that your methadone/buprenorphine pickup becomes unsupervised instead of having the chemist watch you take it.
She wants money and gifts. Many many people have fallen for her sob stories over the years and sent her money to (what they thought) help her.
Thank you. I didn't want to look like I'm doing it for the praise, I just got sick of the constant sob stories.16 years clean is absolutely amazing
We don’t hate Lou because of her habit, it’s because of her lies, lack of accountability and her ‘woe is me’ persona’
Ps
Welcome to the troll gang 🧌🧌🧌
I am proud of myself, but still ashamed and disappointed in my past choices.
I know, I've seen so many people try to help her over the years and for it all to fall on deaf ears. She's a fool to herself.
Haha, thank you for letting me join "va nasty twolls"
So she was telling the truth about being clean of class A’s because she does take it at home and they don’t care if you smoke weed on top of the methadone.
The difference is that you learnt from your bad Choices and have made amazing good choices to get where you are.
va nasty twolls welcome you and have snacks, popcorn and any fancy drinks you require for,your visit
Not at all mate! Just trying to get into Lou’s head as to why she does what she does!I hope I didn't come across as offensive in that post, I am sorryShe boils my piss with her endless excuses. I don't even think she could be arsed with the effort of having her children anymore. She can't be bothered to do the most basic of tasks, how could she cope with three kids.
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