Ste hasn’t ruined her life. She’s done that herself. He didn’t force her onto drugs. She was doing crystal meth just before James kicked her outShe complained all day yesterday about Ste and how awful he is to her, why can’t she see that he’s ruined her life, and continues to do so! Wake up and smell the Redbull….
Lou @Lifewithloux
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I see she's deleted all those videos where she's slurring after taking all her meds in one go and telling people her address. Carol must've had a word.
Something isn’t adding up about her not being able to see the 2 older kids. She was their primary caregiver for the first 5/6 years? There will be a bond there. And social services would see it in the childrens’ best interests to maintain that bond. Even if it was supervised contact in a family centre.
The dad couldn’t just deny all contact on his say so. She can’t have contact when they’re in her mums care either.
My guess is she’s had supervised contact sessions in place, and either not bothered turning up. So social services cancel them. It’s very harmful for kids to attend contact sessions for the parent not to turn up. Or she’s came with the boyfriend in tow and not been allowed in.
I know rules vary between areas and social workers, but I’m not buying what Lou is trying to sell.
I felt for her when she first came back, but I just can’t. Kids are only mentioned when she’s begging for something.
The dad couldn’t just deny all contact on his say so. She can’t have contact when they’re in her mums care either.
My guess is she’s had supervised contact sessions in place, and either not bothered turning up. So social services cancel them. It’s very harmful for kids to attend contact sessions for the parent not to turn up. Or she’s came with the boyfriend in tow and not been allowed in.
I know rules vary between areas and social workers, but I’m not buying what Lou is trying to sell.
I felt for her when she first came back, but I just can’t. Kids are only mentioned when she’s begging for something.
The courts have said that she isn’t allowed contact with them(make of that what you will!)
The youngest one (who ate is the dad) has been adopted so there is never going to be a chance of her seeing him until he comes to find her when he is 18
The youngest one (who ate is the dad) has been adopted so there is never going to be a chance of her seeing him until he comes to find her when he is 18
For a reason, though. That’s what I meant, in my long winded way. There’s a big reason that she’s not telling us. Courts don’t stop all contact without good reason. Mostly as it’s not good for the kids to lose an established bond. I’ve seen heroin addicts still be granted supervised contact. Addiction alone isn’t a reason to be not allowed to see them.
I was just thinking the baby must have been adopted by now. Must be a closed adoption, not even letterbox contact.
Sadly, I do have a feeling she’s pregnant again. Thinking of doing another ‘I didn’t know I was pregnant’ story. I truly pray she isn’t.
Lou tells all her stories but always leaves out the bits where she did anything wrong. Every problem she has is someone else’s fault. I don’t doubt that her previous relationship was abusive (possibly on both sides), but unless she takes some level of accountability the cycle is just gonna repeat forevermore.
That’s a fair point actually, she has done it herself! Other comments I’ve read on another site… made it appear it is a lot his fault that the children aren’t in her care.
As a mother she infuriates me that she continues to wallow in self pity, even if it’s her, or Ste or whoever, and it’s always everyone else’s fault! She makes it everyone else’s fault! I cannot understand why she doesn’t do anything at all, to make life about them children and fight for them. Instead she plugs her wish list of crap, crap she should buy herself but instead spends it nicotine, in whatever form!
Followed you guys over from tattle finally a thread for this lowlife i cannot feel one ounce of sympathy for her she doesn't care about anybody but herself!
Million % this,im on Amitriptaline myself,and she will no you take that before bed ,it states it on box and her gp would of told her mine did, but what she has done is went to gp gave a load of speel saying can not sleep etc to get pills to give her that feeling she craves,and she takes it during day for ppl to feel sorry for her and send gifts,she knows exactly what shes doing,wish ppl would wake up
She doesn’t see her two oldest children because I’m sure she hasn’t done what is asked of her in order to see them - probably has to do courses , drug tests , show up for appts but she can’t stay halfway ok for longer than a few hours so nothing gets done but naps , couple Amazon clicks and walks to the chemist .
Sorry, I’m new here. Only came after the riddles left on tattle haha. I might be clueless but what was her drug problem? I thought it was crack (just assumed with her fingers being black and a few comments I’d seen) but don’t you only get methadone if you’re a heroin addict? Or is she both?
Also, the long lingering shots of her boobs and in wee nighties… I think she was going for the only fans. Saw Jiggly and saw an opportunity. My guess is it still might come.
I've been thinking she's pregnant for a while now . . Shes definitely thickening around the waist and her boobs are getting bigger.
All this would happen fairly quickly as its her 4th pregnancy.
As she's had 2 taken away AND given 1 up for adoption only time will tell the outcome of this
All this would happen fairly quickly as its her 4th pregnancy.
As she's had 2 taken away AND given 1 up for adoption only time will tell the outcome of this
She’d think she’d get paid a fortune for her story. Not knowing she was pregnant twiceI've been thinking she's pregnant for a while now . . Shes definitely thickening around the waist and her boobs are getting bigger.
All this would happen fairly quickly as its her 4th pregnancy.
As she's had 2 taken away AND given 1 up for adoption only time will tell the outcome of this
Even with the baby she would have had the chance to keep him I’m sure. So all of it boils down to she doesn’t really want to see the kids. I’m not saying it’s that easy to get clean from drugs but it’s possible, if you really want to. And just from what Lou herself has said there are good support services in her area.
So sad thinking of all the people out there desperate to be parents. Then some lucky enough to be and just don’t give a s
I suspect that is on the cards also.
When she wanted the ring light and then the vibrator I thought that was the direction she wanted to head in. At least then she can maybe buy her own bits and bobs although god knows what kind of people would want to sign up to see that
I really don't understand why the GP has given her anti-psychotics. Several times she has said she can feel them working already. That's not how they work. They aren't like painkillers. They take days if not weeks to get into your system and for the user to feel any benefits to their mental health. So when she says they are working, she means they are making her feel monged out. The GP needs a talking to.
It’s a free high!
I think it's disgusting that the GP has enabled it knowing that she is in recovery. Surely it's not standard practice.
Totally agree with you! While us normals just fight to the death for a GP app
She said she sees the baby though
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