She's a lost cause, and them boy are going to grow up with serious issues
she doesn't care enough to sort it all out
I've been where she is, although I left as soon as I realised it was affecting my son, he was 5....he's now 20 and has issues from the way his Dad was never there for him, but he has a mother who put her sons needs first. If I'd have behaved the way she is, and continued to let it effect my son, he'd be a complete mess right now!
(AND, I was a lot younger than Beth), she needs to grow up!