I agree with everything you've just said, I don't condone anyone (man or woman) going around throwing serious allegations around an app that can be so damaging, especially when it's based on hearsay and they have zero evidence to back it up, because its so dangerous and it can ruin someone, but then no victim should feel pressured to show receipts.
I know Alex has 100% love bombed women that's something i know that for sure, i only go on receipts and I'll never go on hearsay, i have seen everything with my own eyes and I've spoken to these people.
He manipulated women so they would carry on gifting him big, even to the stage where they went broke and couldn't put food on their own tables or pay their own bills. He even went as far as asking them to take out personal loans to gift him further up the rankings, when he knew they had nothing and they were struggling to make ends meet, he also used an extremely vulnerable young man for his own financial gain and he was on the verge of losing everything, it wasn't until a few of us twigged what was taking place behind the scenes and stepped in to expose him for what he was, Alex tried to silence these people by threatening to leak information that he had from their personal chats so none of them would come forward or be believed.
People can be biased and refuse to believe he's a scumbag and they can carry on thinking he's a Saint but more fool them when they get burnt and no one believes their story because one day it could happen to them.
His main mod is just as guilty because they knew what was happening and they were behind a lot of it with his permission and this why I hate discords and group chats because these are the places where the manipulation takes place and its happening right now in so many creators discords and group chats.
As for the grape accusations.. i see both sides, no woman should ever be victim shamed or forced into producing receipts but then no man should be blamed for such damaging things without proof especially from someone who has heard it through the grapevines, it's a hard one and something I personally feel should be kept off the app and dealt with by the appropriate authorities.
Edit - yes he was a man w but I'm not sure what he's like now as I stopped watching him early last year, I know there's allegations going around that he was also married at the time which is untrue, and that's another reason why it shouldn't be brought on here because people will twist things and a web of lies will be spun and it normally ends up where the victims truth (whoever it is) won't be believed.
Alex Brigham this post and my previous post isn't about you. Get over yourself, you 100% do not know me.