I totally understand where you're coming from, my thing is that there has been some creepy people in here, that have said abhorrent things that people in here haven't agreed with and they've either left or we have them on ignore, I've said some pretty sty things in here and there are some comments I wish I could go back and remove, I've said them in the heat of anger then calmed down and regretted making them.
I totally understand why people have come forward to defend her against current accusations, unfortunately because of who they are it's made the situation look worse.
I think it's easy to get caught up in something then when you realise you've become embroiled in something that actually isn't good and you don't want to be part of it you back away or leave.
Now I could be totally wrong about the whole situation, my annoyance is more aimed towards the people who knew she was in there but had no issue with it a few months ago, nothing has changed so why are they mad now? Because it's been brought to the forefront over the past 48hrs and I think she's an easy target to sacrifice. Just my thoughts, like I said I could be totally wrong.