I dont know why you keep talking about you or I's personal character and nature? I didnt know you were still in here, so my comments re pile ons and behaviour in here wasnt about you as you havent been around, or at least commenting at me for the few weeks i mentioned.
You can say whatever you like about me to these people, if that is something you would like to do. I dont know why you would do it as it is a public forum, and the only purpose i can see is that you want others to dislike me.
Enough active members do and have liked guys posts that it isnt really possible to carry on posting in here in a way that feels fun.
@2 Pumps and a Chinese 🌸 also follows my comments elsewhere and said she will continue to do so, to the point she has just now done it again in another thread when i said goodbye to the people I interact with in there. I am sure some people can see that weeks ago i started posting in another thread, which could have been a very easy way that everyone can talk to who they like online.
There are 3 sides to every story.