Imagine if tiktok people actually held their hands up like this and acknowledged they didn't realise something and will make a changei'm happy to be called out/up for it, i've said it, even on a live before, i wasn't educated into it's origins, it was just a phrase my parents told me when i was younger "stop having a paddy because you're not getting what you want". learnt something new today.
I will try to not use it in future as now i know what it actually means.