Bad childhoods has definitely tho. It's definitely come from here.. it's all she makes reference to!
Faceless Friends
There last post shows they are reading this thread also!
Hi
you little weirdo Spend more time on here than any of us!
Fan behaviour!
Sending love to you all today especially anyone struggling with Father's day I know the feeling 
Hope everyone's OK
Hope everyone's OK
How can u tell that from their last post..doesn't seem connected?There last post shows they are reading this thread also!
Hi
Spend more time on here than any of us!
Fan behaviour!
I don’t want to like say as I feel it may upset the original poster, if you watch it and go back a few pages you’ll see what I mean
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I missed this...so sorry Birkey. Hope you are ok and the memory has quietened somewhatHey my lovelies
Just checking in. I've been a bit MIA. I've not only had a sickness bug but I'm going through it atm tbh. This week is the anniversary of the most traumatic time of my life and the reason my ex is locked up. I know a lot of you know why. It's always a week I feel really grateful for living or really traumatised and this year It's both I can't lieI just saw fit to remove myself from the t so my stress/anger levels don't boil over my cauldron
Just checking in
Sending love to you all
xx
I've just lookedI don’t want to like say as I feel it may upset the original poster, if you watch it and go back a few pages you’ll see what I mean
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understand why u didn't say username Tbh most of what is written on this thread is personal memories, trauma, abuse of all kinds and difficulties we have or are facing.
They have no business or need to come on this thread. Says more about the person using it to justify their warped posts.
They have no business on main thread either! Why are you here?? Anyone can look inc A jiggy so what is the point other than highlighting what our opinions are even more. Ridiculous "mission" Does not allow comments, converse or respond to mature common sense!
Exactly, they are advocating against us going for Aimee then coming for people and their struggles and preaching mental health.I've just looked
Tbh most of what is written on this thread is personal memories, trauma, abuse of all kinds and difficulties we have or are facing.
They have no business or need to come on this thread. Says more about the person using it to justify their warped posts.
They have no business on main thread either! Why are you here?? Anyone can look inc A jiggy so what is the point other than highlighting what our opinions are even more. Ridiculous "mission" Does not allow comments, converse or respond to mature common sense!
The screenshot of “types of abuse” or whatever it is, saying un factual information etc. tell me where we don’t say facts about Aimee everything we KNOW and SAY comes from Aimee herself, we have evidence!
They’re turning into obsessed at this point and they say we hide behind anonymous profiles yet they’re doing the same with their comments off!
They could easily join here and have their say directly to us, but they’ll hide behind comments off and a page dedicated to us instead.
Aimee won’t ever thank you for it!
I hope you’re ok birkeySending love to you all today especially anyone struggling with Father's day I know the feeling
Take care of yourself today, we are here if you need us and that goes for anyone else
@allaboardthebirkeybike you got red 
I would literally die! It's one of my favourite songs ever never mind ny her lol I hope you had the most amazing time
I would literally die! It's one of my favourite songs ever never mind ny her lol I hope you had the most amazing time Sounded like someone else we know there with the feeling your feelings etctrue tho
That is so right about missing the version u thought or hoped there were or could be. So many failed promises...
Biggest thing for me...lack of genuine remorse and ownership. Every time i try and build myself up again he pops up.
You are right tho...he will turn aggressive very quickly if he doesn't get what he wants.
The fact he started the message as he did shows he either can't change or won't change.
Thank you...
They usually rear their heads when they see or hear you are doing well. I think putting perspective on it can help to. Yes you wasted 2 years but imagine looking back if you took him back and its been 10 years. And those 10 years are filled with nothing. Be proud that you have walked away and the best way as hard as it is is to ignore him. Someone who needs to change needs to do it for themselves primarily and then they are sometimes able to show true remorse to someone they have hurt when they have done work on themselves. This time is yours to build yourself up, work on you and learn who you are now. You don't need anyone else
I hope everyone who is struggling today with fathers day is doing OK! Take time for yourself
Yesss hahaha@allaboardthebirkeybike you got red
I heard it was because LFC play in Red but so do United soooo 
She did Carolina, no body no crime. THE MANUSCRIPT and Red It was the best night ever honestly I'll be talking about it for months. I'm sad it's over
Thanks for your perspective...it makes sense too. I already spent 20 years in a toxic marriage.They usually rear their heads when they see or hear you are doing well. I think putting perspective on it can help to. Yes you wasted 2 years but imagine looking back if you took him back and its been 10 years. And those 10 years are filled with nothing. Be proud that you have walked away and the best way as hard as it is is to ignore him. Someone who needs to change needs to do it for themselves primarily and then they are sometimes able to show true remorse to someone they have hurt when they have done work on themselves. This time is yours to build yourself up, work on you and learn who you are now. You don't need anyone else
I did feel like I was beginning to find me again..although I’ve struggled lately with my decision and been really upset and been questioning my feelings and the decision. I'm now feel really anxious again and unsettled.
If he went away...got diagnosed and worked on himself and had genuine remorse then that wud be different but it's been a few months. Back like a petulant child. Everything I have read says a narcissistic person can't change. Whether that's true or not i don't know.
Oh and he will have seem my sister's post on fb of us at the spa...that's probably done it! He thinks its me who has the issues clearly but my issues are his behaviour and reactions to s!
Thanks again
x
Ditto. Hope everyone is ok.I hope everyone who is struggling today with fathers day is doing OK! Take time for yourself
xx
Totally agree with all of this.
They can leave me and all of my anonymous CC pals alone! The fact we don't know each other is irrelevant to most of us.
We look out for each other...have each other's backs...listen..support...advise and care about what each other needs.
We just have to happen the same views on A! Along with thousands. They may not be a TL or CC member but doesn't mean they don't see with their own eyes and ears!
This is our space on this thread away from the main thread and they need to back the do off.
A lot have said they take comfort from being able to talk anonymously on here about stuff but that does NOT mean it can be taken for their fed up ideology.
I appreciate everyone I interact with on here anf I genuinely mean that. I'm also protective of you all.
Perhaps one is jealous of our community here....but then we don't have our comments off so we openly discuss and interact. Something that person doesn’t or can't do..
Stay the do away or join and discuss...but not on this thread! You are not worthy of being on here or welcome with what you have demonstrated about one of our members.....
Is this aimed at what we discuss on here?!
Can't see time posted....
How fing dare you come on here and use our stories for your 'content.
Also how fing dare you insinuate me or anyone else is lying about our pasts. Is that not you "bullying"
This page is none of your business..it's not tik tok. SERIOUSLY-do OFF!
You are not being validated or getting any attention with your silly posts on TT. What's the point?!
Calling out lying and deceiving on TT 'creators' is not bullying. Misleading vulnerable people into spending money for their own gain is not acceptable either.
GO AWAY!!!
Yes nosey I think it was aimed at this page. I was actually fuming when I saw it and went off on one on Aimee's page! The very fact it has taken very personal, horrendous experiences off here to post there tell us everything we need to confirm what a monster it is!!! Like you say it's not anything about TT here !!
There is another one I saw which I was equally fuming about but didn't want to put it in here. Made Another post about another horrible situation a chance to dig at us, and has the cheek to call us bullying! It's as vile as they come!!
Sending you love especially todaySending love to you all today especially anyone struggling with Father's day I know the feeling
Same lurkeyI don’t want to like say as I feel it may upset the original poster, if you watch it and go back a few pages you’ll see what I mean
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I saw it earlier hours this morning.
Thank you for trying to spare my feelings LurkeyI don’t want to like say as I feel it may upset the original poster, if you watch it and go back a few pages you’ll see what I mean
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I kinda guessed it was directed at me because I have spoken about it very recently. But thank you 
DV Jiggy hello. You seriously have no idea and this might come as a surprise for you thinking we're all evil but I'm glad you don't. Truly I am. I wouldn't wish it on my worst enemy to absolutely despise their own body when they see the scars a fing monster left behind. I'm glad you don't feel the anger I do or the fing shame that I let that happen to me. Because trust me I do feel blame that I ever put myself in the position to let it get that far!
Comparing me to a fing t who's own mother can't stand the sight of is vile fing vile! You know what else is vile people who make it up for TT. You see where I'm going with this? 3X it was talked out of with no action and they were the only 3X I bothered to report it because what was the point? The point is the more twisted fed up fs like the one you fing idolise make it so much harder for the people who really are in the most dangerous situations imaginable to be taken seriously!! 3X no further action until he would've, could've and should've fing killed me!! Killed me! Not shouted at me!! If you think it's strange of me to speak on this here then strange is what I'll be. Because I will never ever stop advocating for DV to end. I will never stop calling out fs who add to the problem and do have blood on their hands as much as the perpetrators.If you know anything about trauma then you should know it's very often easier to speak to strangers because you don't want to burden and trigger the memories for the people who love me. If I and many others find solace in the anonymity of speaking with like minded strangers brave enough to share their own stories is weird then so fing be it. And if you yourself are triggered by DV then I'm sorry truly I am. This page very rarely mentions your holy one, it's a safe space. If you need somewhere to vent the page is open, you may find it liberating and make virtual friends you never knew you needed.
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But don't ever compare me to a monster
And don't ever call me a victim.