You’re welcome there is also someone else that they’ve made a video about but I’m not going to give them the satisfaction of highlighting that one.Thank you for trying to spare my feelings Lurkey I kinda guessed it was directed at me because I have spoken about it very recently. But thank you
DV
Jiggy hello. You seriously have no idea and this might come as a surprise for you thinking we're all evil but I'm glad you don't. Truly I am. I wouldn't wish it on my worst enemy to absolutely despise their own body when they see the scars a fing monster left behind. I'm glad you don't feel the anger I do or the fing shame that I let that happen to me. Because trust me I do feel blame that I ever put myself in the position to let it get that far! Comparing me to a fing t who's own mother can't stand the sight of is vile fing vile! You know what else is vile people who make it up for TT. You see where I'm going with this? 3X it was talked out of with no action and they were the only 3X I bothered to report it because what was the point? The point is the more twisted fed up fs like the one you fing idolise make it so much harder for the people who really are in the most dangerous situations imaginable to be taken seriously!! 3X no further action until he would've, could've and should've fing killed me!! Killed me! Not shouted at me!! If you think it's strange of me to speak on this here then strange is what I'll be. Because I will never ever stop advocating for DV to end. I will never stop calling out fs who add to the problem and do have blood on their hands as much as the perpetrators.
If you know anything about trauma then you should know it's very often easier to speak to strangers because you don't want to burden and trigger the memories for the people who love me. If I and many others find solace in the anonymity of speaking with like minded strangers brave enough to share their own stories is weird then so fing be it. And if you yourself are triggered by DV then I'm sorry truly I am. This page very rarely mentions your holy one, it's a safe space. If you need somewhere to vent the page is open, you may find it liberating and make virtual friends you never knew you needed.
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But don't ever compare me to a monster
And don't ever call me a victim.
Their dv video angered me at first but they don’t know what people like us went through.
I often feel the same, how did I allow it for so long etc but a therapist told me “you didn’t chose to be abused, you didn’t ask for it, you didn’t say please do this and that to me” they were attracted to your good nature and were jealous of it so tried to destroy it because they could never be like that!