Thank you xOh that's fantastic, well done
Faceless Friends
Aww that’s great news!
Go you! Such good luck!
Hi all,
Hope u are all ok?
Need to catch up and also catch up with @itsmejo since she's been back.
Just haven't felt up to it of late. Been sunk in a bit of a hole (not literally) but haven't forgotten u all or the cause.
I looked on TT and it made my blood boil. The manipulative lying narcissist. Playing the victim to the uneducated. Just shake my head in belief. She has no idea how it is to manage in the 'real world' and trying to function as an adult, a mum and a professional person working FT whilst going thru fing se! I have the grace to know that my woes are not comparable to some others though. Read the room Aimee and stop draining society of it's services, patience, and sanity. You reap what you sow unfortunately. We all do up and make poor decisions...🥹 but being open and honest goes a long way. You just can't or won't relate to that which is your own downfall. Just grow up and take accountability and responsibility for your own do ups or get some therapy in order to do so before its too late. People who enable others aren't helping them. It feeds the delusion....
Edited to add..I just realised she won't prob see this on here anyway as I deliberately posted just here as its enough my brain can deal with atm..duh
Hope u are all ok?
Need to catch up and also catch up with @itsmejo since she's been back.
Just haven't felt up to it of late. Been sunk in a bit of a hole (not literally) but haven't forgotten u all or the cause.
I looked on TT and it made my blood boil. The manipulative lying narcissist. Playing the victim to the uneducated. Just shake my head in belief. She has no idea how it is to manage in the 'real world' and trying to function as an adult, a mum and a professional person working FT whilst going thru fing se! I have the grace to know that my woes are not comparable to some others though. Read the room Aimee and stop draining society of it's services, patience, and sanity. You reap what you sow unfortunately. We all do up and make poor decisions...🥹 but being open and honest goes a long way. You just can't or won't relate to that which is your own downfall. Just grow up and take accountability and responsibility for your own do ups or get some therapy in order to do so before its too late. People who enable others aren't helping them. It feeds the delusion....Edited to add..I just realised she won't prob see this on here anyway as I deliberately posted just here as its enough my brain can deal with atm..duh
I check here everyday, hope you’re feeling ok loveHi all,
Hope u are all ok?
Need to catch up and also catch up with @itsmejo since she's been back.
Just haven't felt up to it of late. Been sunk in a bit of a hole (not literally) but haven't forgotten u all or the cause.
Edited to add..I just realised she won't prob see this on here anyway as I deliberately posted just here as its enough my brain can deal with atm..duh
Hi lovey,Hi all,
Hope u are all ok?
Need to catch up and also catch up with @itsmejo since she's been back.
Just haven't felt up to it of late. Been sunk in a bit of a hole (not literally) but haven't forgotten u all or the cause.
Edited to add..I just realised she won't prob see this on here anyway as I deliberately posted just here as its enough my brain can deal with atm..duh
Sorry my notification didn’t tell me of this post but my internet has been crap since husband cut through the cable whilst gardening but finally all fixed and can get back to checking out the pages and replying to messages.
How you doing lovey? She really does play the bloody victim doesn’t she?
Sending you hugs and speak soon
Hello lovely. I don’t think it notifies if it’s not a reply? SorryHi all,
Hope u are all ok?
Need to catch up and also catch up with @itsmejo since she's been back.
Just haven't felt up to it of late. Been sunk in a bit of a hole (not literally) but haven't forgotten u all or the cause.
Edited to add..I just realised she won't prob see this on here anyway as I deliberately posted just here as its enough my brain can deal with atm..duh
I hope you’re feeling better
thank you for writing in airheads thread or I wouldn’t have known 
Hi all,
Hope u are all ok?
Need to catch up and also catch up with @itsmejo since she's been back.
Just haven't felt up to it of late. Been sunk in a bit of a hole (not literally) but haven't forgotten u all or the cause.
Edited to add..I just realised she won't prob see this on here anyway as I deliberately posted just here as its enough my brain can deal with atm..duh
Bless you, you’ll soon get out of that hole! I promise! You’re just a flower waiting to grow again away from the toxicity and negativity you have been surrounded by lately
I didn’t get the notification I find I get lost with them sometimes
I hope you’re ok
And I agree with the parts about old trout face!
And if you ever need us on here please continue to tell us on the other thread, we will always support you and head on over here
It did thank you@ddcb there you go hope this works
xxx
It did thank you@ddcb there you go hope this works
Hi lovely, so sorry missed your post, the notification must of got lost in with the others. Hope you are doing ok and you will soon be out of that hole as like @thelurker said you are a flower waiting to grow again, which you willHi all,
Hope u are all ok?
Need to catch up and also catch up with @itsmejo since she's been back.
Just haven't felt up to it of late. Been sunk in a bit of a hole (not literally) but haven't forgotten u all or the cause.
Edited to add..I just realised she won't prob see this on here anyway as I deliberately posted just here as its enough my brain can deal with atm..duh
will check on here every night so hopefully we won't miss anything again. Lots of love xxx 🩷
Hi all,
Will reply back to u all individuality when I'm home from work as I appreciate u allxx
I feel a right wally now. I should have known it was something like that. My mind was telling me all sorts of paranoid things. Been overthinking too much. I know I'm guilty of this and openly admit it. I haven't realised until last month or so how much damage he did to me. (mentally and emotionally) It makes me question everything and see things that aren’t necessarily there which is a big negative and i need to try and stop.
I was really starting to wonder if u had had enough of my "woe is me" drama. I guess there was some doubt over this which is why I decided to post in "her" group.
I was watching u all comment and reply...thinking
what about me 
I struggle myself with the notifications alerts on CC as it isn't clear which ones you have seen. I've said this before. Easy to miss things or alerts.
I also didn't think about the fact i posted rather than replying...meaning u wud not get an alert necessarily. I also struggle to find out how to get back here when there are no notifications popping up to bring u back.
I appreciate all of you responding so kindly and i don't want u to feel bad or feel u have to come on here every day/night. That's not fair to ask and the other group flies fast as it is. I shoukd have posted on main group in retrospect..
I tagged Jo too as hadn't caught up with her since what happened and felt genuinely sad and concerned for her as per my prev posts on main page. She's probably not in this group/knows about it...
Anyway...I'm rambling. Thanks again guys. I obv didn't quite realise how much u all meant to me until last night lol. I know....saddo as we don't really know each other but us women are very intuitive imo and get vibes!
Will try and interact on main group when I can. xxxxx
Will reply back to u all individuality when I'm home from work as I appreciate u all
xxI feel a right wally now. I should have known it was something like that. My mind was telling me all sorts of paranoid things. Been overthinking too much. I know I'm guilty of this and openly admit it. I haven't realised until last month or so how much damage he did to me. (mentally and emotionally) It makes me question everything and see things that aren’t necessarily there which is a big negative and i need to try and stop.
I was really starting to wonder if u had had enough of my "woe is me" drama. I guess there was some doubt over this which is why I decided to post in "her" group.
I was watching u all comment and reply...thinking
what about me I struggle myself with the notifications alerts on CC as it isn't clear which ones you have seen. I've said this before. Easy to miss things or alerts.
I also didn't think about the fact i posted rather than replying...meaning u wud not get an alert necessarily. I also struggle to find out how to get back here when there are no notifications popping up to bring u back.
I appreciate all of you responding so kindly and i don't want u to feel bad or feel u have to come on here every day/night. That's not fair to ask and the other group flies fast as it is. I shoukd have posted on main group in retrospect..
I tagged Jo too as hadn't caught up with her since what happened and felt genuinely sad and concerned for her as per my prev posts on main page. She's probably not in this group/knows about it...
Anyway...I'm rambling. Thanks again guys. I obv didn't quite realise how much u all meant to me until last night lol. I know....saddo as we don't really know each other but us women are very intuitive imo and get vibes!
Will try and interact on main group when I can. xxxxx
Oh don’t worry about it, we are glad you told us! Mine just get hectic sometimes when people are catching upHi all,
Will reply back to u all individuality when I'm home from work as I appreciate u all
I feel a right wally now. I should have known it was something like that. My mind was telling me all sorts of paranoid things. Been overthinking too much. I know I'm guilty of this and openly admit it. I haven't realised until last month or so how much damage he did to me. (mentally and emotionally) It makes me question everything and see things that aren’t necessarily there which is a big negative and i need to try and stop.
I was really starting to wonder if u had had enough of my "woe is me" drama. I guess there was some doubt over this which is why I decided to post in "her" group.
I was watching u all comment and reply...thinking
I struggle myself with the notifications alerts on CC as it isn't clear which ones you have seen. I've said this before. Easy to miss things or alerts.
I also didn't think about the fact i posted rather than replying...meaning u wud not get an alert necessarily. I also struggle to find out how to get back here when there are no notifications popping up to bring u back.
I appreciate all of you responding so kindly and i don't want u to feel bad or feel u have to come on here every day/night. That's not fair to ask and the other group flies fast as it is. I shoukd have posted on main group in retrospect..
I tagged Jo too as hadn't caught up with her since what happened and felt genuinely sad and concerned for her as per my prev posts on main page. She's probably not in this group/knows about it...
Anyway...I'm rambling. Thanks again guys. I obv didn't quite realise how much u all meant to me until last night lol. I know....saddo as we don't really know each other but us women are very intuitive imo and get vibes!
Will try and interact on main group when I can. xxxxx
so I click on and off them, cause most of the time it’s mainly reactions to my post. And you will have that realisation moment where you realise wow he really did all that, oh wow he really put me through that, wow I really experienced that etc.
it’s perfectly normal once you’re out of the situation to realise these things, but it also empowers you to realise what you won’t ever tolerate again and helps you heal and move on from them, the rose tinted glasses are fully off and honestly you’ll never look back.
As an over thinker myself I do understand fully why your mind jumped to that, but I hope you feel better now we have arrived and explained!
Much love and virtual hugs to you lovely
Hey babe, I’m here and so sorry your struggling right now and I promise you things will get betterHi all,
Hope u are all ok?
Need to catch up and also catch up with @itsmejo since she's been back.
Just haven't felt up to it of late. Been sunk in a bit of a hole (not literally) but haven't forgotten u all or the cause.
Edited to add..I just realised she won't prob see this on here anyway as I deliberately posted just here as its enough my brain can deal with atm..duh
I’ve missed you actually and listen to me when I say ‘your woes are important to you and very valid’.
Do not allow that smelly creature catpiss to make you feel they aren’t just because we see right through her crap acting skills and lies.
You are 100% genuine and we are right here for you babe. Please don’t feel alone and sending loads of virtual hugs and love
I almost didn’t come back here as I was genuinely hurt with what TL wrote about me
I had 7 days to retrieve my account here or lose it forever and I came back because I missed you all
I needed time away as I was struggling mentally with almost losing someone close to us and had to be strong for my family and hold them together. On top of that coming of a medication I’ve been on a long time and reduced from 300mg daily to now 50mg daily.
God I wish we could private message on here and organise a troll get together, tbh we could have that party someone suggested and we all dress up in our favourite Aimee version
xxx
Feel better all my troll pals are back lolI check here everyday, hope you’re feeling ok love
Thank you
Hello Jo... Thank you for your kind words and validationHey babe, I’m here and so sorry your struggling right now and I promise you things will get better
I’ve missed you actually and listen to me when I say ‘your woes are important to you and very valid’.
Do not allow that smelly creature catpiss to make you feel they aren’t just because we see right through her crap acting skills and lies.
You are 100% genuine and we are right here for you babe. Please don’t feel alone and sending loads of virtual hugs and love
I almost didn’t come back here as I was genuinely hurt with what TL wrote about me
I had 7 days to retrieve my account here or lose it forever and I came back because I missed you all
I needed time away as I was struggling mentally with almost losing someone close to us and had to be strong for my family and hold them together. On top of that coming of a medication I’ve been on a long time and reduced from 300mg daily to now 50mg daily.
God I wish we could private message on here and organise a troll get together, tbh we could have that party someone suggested and we all dress up in our favourite Aimee version
Missed you too and wasn't happy about things I read about u and openly said that somewhere. Altho I was a bit late to the party I think and i think ppl were trying to get some decorum bk on the group which i got. No one deserves that or not to be believed. I can also understand your hesitance to come back but I'm glad u did I've always been very honest and open about my flaws/issues/menopausal madness or whatever. I think u are right about catpiss making ppl fearful of admitting their "woes" or troubles as she makes a mockery of MH.
I'm so sorry about what u have been going thru outside of group too and sending u hugs back. Coming off meds or titrating down can be a massive adjustment..mentally and physically.
I wish we cud private message too. Think I said that somewhere. It's so tricky being anonymous in that sense...🥹
I was away from group when u came back i think. I hope u were welcomed back with open arms.
Thanks again for being so warm and understanding. I knew I liked u for a reason
Here for u and anyone else who needs me too...... xxxxx
Well I’ve been mia for the past few days bloody work
Sending love and hugs to my fellow bridge dwellers don’t let the s drag you down! Easier said than done I know.
Sending love and hugs to my fellow bridge dwellers don’t let the s drag you down! Easier said than done I know.
Thanks for understandingOh don’t worry about it, we are glad you told us! Mine just get hectic sometimes when people are catching up
And you will have that realisation moment where you realise wow he really did all that, oh wow he really put me through that, wow I really experienced that etc.
it’s perfectly normal once you’re out of the situation to realise these things, but it also empowers you to realise what you won’t ever tolerate again and helps you heal and move on from them, the rose tinted glasses are fully off and honestly you’ll never look back.
As an over thinker myself I do understand fully why your mind jumped to that, but I hope you feel better now we have arrived and explained!
Much love and virtual hugs to you lovely
I was like...Where's my lurkey I wish they cud tweak the notifications somehow as u lose so many cuz of how they are shown. CC pls don't ban me for saying that!
It's so complicated isn't it..relationships. I'm mourning the loss but know it's the right thing. I just feel so so sad atm 🥹
Even the big boss noticed today and came in my room and said...what's wrong..don't tell me nothing as I can tell. Gave me a big hug which was much appreciated. I blubbed tbh. Especially when she said..we all love u.
Another colleague went out at lunch to buy me a little book of mindfulness quotes and some chocolate...so kind. I didn't hv the heart to tell her I'm fat free atm.
I do feel better now and thank you again Lurkey
xxx