Lou @Lifewithloux

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BUT THE LOVELIES COULD OF SHUT IT DOWN THERE AND THEN RATHER THAN LEAVING IT UNTIL I CALLED YOU OUT
One of us did ask that the subject was changed. If you go back to my original reply, you will see that I put why it wasn’t addressed fully there and then.

If you were in the live, you would have seen that none of us ‘lovelies’ took part in that conversation or agreed with what was said!
 

Blueskies

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BUT THE LOVELIES COULD OF SHUT IT DOWN THERE AND THEN RATHER THAN LEAVING IT UNTIL I CALLED YOU OUT
U really need a job, or a hobby, or sex. Something that'll take up your time, maybe diamond art?
If my comment was indeed racist then I apologise to anyone I offended, it was never my intention. I'm autistic and often the thoughts in my head don't come out the way I mean them to. I have never once treated a person differently because of the colour of their skin as I don't see colour, i see people. Beautiful interesting people with all different shades of skin and then there's the occasional t like u 😁

Again, if my comment offended anyone please accept my apologies, I'll do better next time as knowledge is power and education is key ❤️
 

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What a coincidence that I do a live on Monday saying I believe Lisa Bayford Smith is James/Buster&Marley and I've been targeted ever since 🤔 a fake account in my name, accusations of racism and look who's suddenly reappeared and checked my account this morning 🤣🤣
 

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I get it’s weird that you’ve had all this attention lately but on this occasion they had a point. Your comment was offensive so I don’t think now is the time to be making jokes and trying to laugh things off.
She’s apologised and owned it above. I honestly don’t believe blue skies to be racist. This is clearly someone trying to turn us all against eachother.
 

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Blueskies is not and never has been part of the lovelies she is an OG for sure but they have their own sub group. I personally only went into her lives for a gossip and laugh with some of the regulars from Lou’s lives that I didn’t see round the app anymore.

The reason no one reacted to the comment was due to the fact a rash response would not of been appropriate or dignified as it caused such upset.

Jumping on the comment at the time would not if been the best idea , and no one agreed or interacted, the subject was best squashed.
I'd like to apologise to u directly. I never have and never will knowingly try to upset or offend anyone and definitely not due to the colour of their skin. My mouth moves faster than my brain sometimes so thankyou for putting me straight and educating me, and also Clair for squashing the subject. Much love sweety, please keep coming in my lives and I promise to do better ❤️
 
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I'd like to apologise to u directly. I never have and never will knowingly try to upset or offend anyone and definitely not due to the colour of their skin. My mouth moves faster than my brain sometimes so thankyou for putting me straight and educating me, and also Clair for squashing the subject. Much love sweety, please keep coming in my lives and I promise to do better ❤️

I did not see your comment as racist with my black arsed self 🤣🤣 us POCs are too busy worrying about dying on the birthing table and having false arrests made against us to worry about a kind hearted comment made with innocence. At best your comment was ignorant, which you’ve address with class so what’s that fat drugged up lard face up to today then?
 

Blueskies

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YOU ARE GIVING PEOPLE AN EXCUSE TO BE RACIST AND THINK ITS FUNNY BY POINTING OUT COLOUR BLIND PEOPLE CANNOT SEE COLOUR. YET IM THE IDIOT
Do u not have concerns about your own mental health? Making numerous accounts, playing different characters, playing both sides and trying to break up a friend group? It's not exactly 'normal' behaviour is it? Before you start pointing fingers at people for easily misconstrued comments said without malicious intentions you really need to take a look in the mirror at your own obviously malicious behaviour
 

Blueskies

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AS FOR MALICIOUS DO YOU NOT THINK IT IS MALICIOUS ACCUSING SOMEONE OF BEING ME?
YOU ACCUSED LISA BAYFORD-SMITH ON YOUR LIVE AND I AM NOT HER.

POOR LISA BAYFORD-SMITH BEING ACCUSED OF SUCH A MALICIOUS THING.

MAYBE COME WITH FACTS AND SHOW YOUR PROOF BEFORE BEING SO MALICIOUS.
Sorry it was my autism 🙂
 
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OK.. I think this may be a long one, but who knows, I may be able to explain my thoughts quickly (clearly not), I may not be able to find the right words, but remember typed words can be misconstrued and taken in various ways.

I'll start by saying I don't justify racism in any way. The same goes for homophobics, abelists, transphobics, bigots and everything in-between.

My personal opinion and take on what was said on Blueskies live was at best, a silly mistake, not intentional and not explained properly? But yes, the initial words used were wrong.

What I heard was, in the midst of a discussion, that a large majority of people have some other culture, race, heritage, ethnicity mix in their DNA. This was after talking about DNA/Ancestry tests, yes? So whilst people are classed as white, there is a large possibility that you have another race, ethnicity, heritage, culture in your DNA. Blueskies, simply said, most people aren't 100% Anglo Saxon.

Now heres where I think, it got a bit foggy, no the POC term wasn't used correctly, but I don't think it was done maliciously. I think it was a case of not thinking before she spoke, trying to explain something else but using the wrong words/terms and making a mistake. Not the same thing, but I have major issues with communication, saying what I mean and explaining things right..no it's not an excuse!

Blueskies has apologised and has listened to what others have said. I don't agree with what was said, but I do think it was an error and mistake. That's very different to being an out & out racist.

I think something to take away from this, is that whoever Buster&Marley is, they have a very clear hatred towards both Lou and those who have been in her lives. They're trying to cause arguments, friction and trouble. They're watching and purposely waiting for any slip up, wrong doing or mistake to pit people against each other.

I don't doubt Buster&Marley and James and the giant peach are the same person, there's too many similarities.

I apologise now if I've said something that isn't PC, my words don't make sense or that I appear to be justifying racism. Simply put, yes the comment was wrong, do I believe it was used in a malicious way, no.