All this "I'm a woman by myself" and "a man coming for a woman" is such an archaic, damsel in distress, delicate, helpless stereotype
bullshit. If you are capable of running your mouth, then expect it back. You're not going in a boxing ring with them, you're not having a back alley brawl - you're having a fing verbal argument behind a screen, at times hundreds of miles apart, so what is in your pants has literally do all to do with it.
If you're such a fragile-fing-being, then shut the do up. Stop hiding behind your gender when your mouth brings s to your virtual door.